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My bbf bf and I like 2 months ago had something going while he was going with my bff well I regret that more then ever and I've been feeling guilty so then I came out and told her what type of guy he was and what had happened.Then she asked him and he said it was a complete lie and it never happened.So now she tells me I'm a lier and she can't trust me anymore and believe every word that comes out of his mouth.She has known him for a year and me 3 years.I feel bad about what I did but I don't see why he is acting like nothing happened and I'm the one stuck with the guilt.Please help me I don't know what to do!
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She will find out that he is a liar one of these days. Until then I don't know what you can do. Did anyone ever see you two together? If so have them tell her about it. Other than that, I guess you just have to wait for her to come to her senses. I totally agree that she should be believing you, but love will do that to you. :)
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He's denying it because he's a cheater and doesn't want to get caught. Your friend doesn't believe because she probably doesn't want to believe that her bf would do something like that. The only way that you can show her that he's a cheater is for her to catch him cheating on her. You did the right thing by telling your friend about your mistake and it's not your fault that she won't believe you. Her bf is a jerk and until she realizes that there's nothing you can do. I'm sorry to say this but because she doesn't want to believe that he is like she is going to take his side and there is really nothing that you can do about it. Eventually she will realize that you were telling her the truth and when she does don't be angry with her for not believing you just talk to her about it. I'm sorry that you have to deal with this and that I can't be much help.
Good luck and I hope things get better between you and your friend
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she probably doesn't want to believe you because most girls in relationships where guys cheat, don't want to believe they'd ever do anything wrong. just like you feel bad for it happening, he probaby does too. i'm sure he doesn't want his girlfriend to find out because then she'll defenitely [hopefully] dump him. all i can say is to talk to her, face to face about it and look her in the eye with everything you say and make sure she knows you'd never lie about something like that to her, because you know he means a lot to her and you feel bad for everything that happened. advice for the future, try not to have things with boys with girlfriends, especially your best friends. good luck <3
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sounds like you need to exit the scene. she should learn on her own about what kinda loser he is. guys have a wonderful saying: Bros before Hos
girls haven't gotten one yet, and i guess y'all are less inclined to believe each other, guys would take their friend's word as scripture.
-hitler
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