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my friend... i'm worried
My friend Tiffany always be having sex and I'm worried about her. she might have another kid and have to put it up for adoption. or she might get AIDS. I don't want that to happen. should I let her get hurt? or try to talk to her and help her?
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Talk to her and let her get help and get teasted because if she ends up does having AIDS then you'll feel guilty not talking to her about it ! Hope i helped ♥Vic
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Yes you should diffintily talk to her and help her. Her wild sexual behaver can ruin her life.She could contract an uncurable STD and ther praticly all on curible. Well mostof them are but Aids and HIV aren't. Nither is Herpes. You should try to put yo friend in cheack.
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There's nothing you can do to stop her actions, the most you can do is make suggestions like "use protection".
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what u should do is talk to her and tell her to stop fucking around and accutally have a relationship with a guy its just retarted.
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i would recommend talking to her because she's setting herself up for disaster. she may get mad at you for that but she needs to know that you care and you'll be there for her always and that you're justtrying to help
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The best thing that you can do for your friend is just be there for her. Talk to her. Let her know how you feel but also support whatever she choses to do. Just let her know that your always going to be there for her no matter what. Other than that, there isnt much you can do. I wish that I could tell you that she would stop if you told her that your worried about her, but I cant. Some poeple just have to do their own thing. Ya know? Just be a good friend.
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talk to her about your concerns, and also talk to her about the risks and how bad they can be.
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Definitly talk to her and try to get her some help!! we got enough kids as it is and we dont need her making anymore by accident
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wow. well you cant choose what she does and she will make that clear when you try to talk her out of it. gather all the info you can get about aids. tell her what the kids will grow up thinking..."my mom was 15? and her bf was either bob, tom, or jeff...im not really sure." thats gotta be traumatizing. tell her that when shes older, guys wont want a girl that has already had kids who are god-knows where. you gotta be pretty stern with her because she didnt learn the first time. just stick by her and if she has any more kids dont tell her "i told you so" just let the guilt teach her something. <3
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I'm sure she's been told by now. If she wasn't put on birth control after she had a baby the first time...then someone is crazy! You can tell her and warn her but she sounds determined. Guess she will learn the hard way. You can keep telling her but I doubt she is listening. :)
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YOU should tell ur friend how u feel..she would understand and if she doesnt she's not a good friend....tell her about the risk even with protection..HOPE I HELPED!!
~~~~Desiree
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I know you reeally want to help your friend out, but you only have a few options before the rest is up to her.
Gather up statistics,facts,stories from real people from magazines and internet on AIDS,teen sex,pregnency, etc. Put it together and show her everything..tell her all the facts..After this its up to her..i know it hurts and its driving you crazy, but she needs to stop, you cant make her..you can present the facts and reasons why she should really stop..then she needs to take the next step.
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obviously your friend has not yet learned her lesson. she's not going to listen to you no matter what and if you keep pushing her she's going to do the exact opposite. Just tell her you're worried. Maybe she just needs someone to care.. tell her you care about her and don't want to see her getting hurt. if she knows what she's doing she'll listen to you but she may not.. just let her make her own decisions.. she's going to have to learn from her own mistakes sooner or later
</3 kenzi
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try and help her be a friend
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