Question Posted Wednesday September 15 2004, 8:34 pm
k.. im a freshman, and i like a junior.
my friend to the guy i liked him and told him she would show me to him and then he would decide if he wanted to talk to me or not.
I really like this guy. And i dunno wut to do. Cause wut if he says im fugly or something. I dunno wut i would do. But i dont want that to happen.
Hes gonna meet me on friday n i wanna kno wut i should do and wut i should act like and how i should look and if he does wanna talk to me what to talk about.
friendforall7 answered Wednesday September 15 2004, 10:51 pm: hey you should be your self don't aked like someone your not and if hes not gonna like you for who you are then why does it matter. find someone that you like and is going to like you for who you are not for who else you could be. [ friendforall7's advice column | Ask friendforall7 A Question ]
StiLLwiShinG_1217 answered Wednesday September 15 2004, 10:47 pm: Wow! I like a junior too! He's awesome! He asked me out today.. I said no.. but that's just b/c I'm an idiot when it comes to my own problems lol
Anyway.. The best thing to do is not wear too much make up. It's not something guys like.. a bit of gloss and eye shadow, u're set. Now, I know u're thinking somewhere along the lines of.. wat to wear, wat to wear?!?!? Well, maybe a flirty skirt, but not too short! or comfy yet cute jeans, a complimenting top, and sandals. Always cute. Do ur hair simple. Maybe even leave it down. Act urself. Never forget that, no matter WHO the guy is cuz if u're uncomfortable bein how u r normally, around him, he isn't the one for u. Talk to him about things u like, see if u 2 have anything in common! If he doesn't seem interested, drop him. O! And if he tries anything you don't like, leave. U have to show him who's boss ;-) Be nice, smile, and be natural, the guy will fall for u! GOOD LUCK!
*Mayya [ StiLLwiShinG_1217's advice column | Ask StiLLwiShinG_1217 A Question ]
Siren_Cytherea answered Wednesday September 15 2004, 10:02 pm: First thing: Always, ALWAYS be yourself. If he can't like the great person you really are, then he's not the kind of guy you want to be with. Trust me. It's tiring to keep up an act. Much easier to just be yourself.
Wear something you're comfy in, that draws attention to your best features. Keep in mind that you'll probably be nervous, and you don't wanna wear something that makes you feel self-conscious, like a short shirt that you'll always be tugging down, or a tube top that you'll always be checking to make sure it hasn't fallen down.
I seriously doubt he'd say you were ugly. Guys don't usually go "ew, you're ugly" unless they're total jerks. Since you like him, he's prob'ly not a jerk, so don't worry 'bout that. =)
Talk about anything and everything. Your childhoods, high school, music, philosophy...(a typical subject of my friends') Just be you.
I hope this helps!
-Siren =) [ Siren_Cytherea's advice column | Ask Siren_Cytherea A Question ]
Jane answered Wednesday September 15 2004, 9:43 pm: *Don't fret, just be yourself. Don't be someone your not just to impress the guy. If he likes you then good, but if he doesn't then don't worry about him, some guy out there will like YOU for YOU. =)* [ Jane's advice column | Ask Jane A Question ]
Beccah answered Wednesday September 15 2004, 9:32 pm: ok try and look really cute on friday like spiral or crimp your hair or sumthing. and dont where too much make up guys dont like that... and just make sure u smile and flirt be yourself!! good luck hope it goes well!!
*bEcCaH* [ Beccah's advice column | Ask Beccah A Question ]
XxRockon answered Wednesday September 15 2004, 9:24 pm: hmm..What i think you should do is just be urself and act friendly. I know it sounds corny lol but if you act like hes one of ur buds and a good friend he will see ur tru personality and prolly really like u. cuz i know that if i like a guy i get really nervous and shy, which isn't good. You guys could talk about higschool and what you both think of it, or music, and things you both have in common. Wear whatever you feel good about urself and in and feel comfortable wearing..bst of luck with u and this guy :) [ XxRockon's advice column | Ask XxRockon A Question ]
Nevaeh answered Wednesday September 15 2004, 9:06 pm: Man! We girl's stress over every small MINOR detail! lol but hey that's out job... A guy or shall i say the guy your meeting doesn't even think about this stuff....if he finds you as attractive as you find him then he will find something to talk about so don't worry about that. If it doesn't work out then i can tell you it wasn't ment to be but i always hated that statement...lol -Just pick the pieces back up and try for someone else. [ Nevaeh's advice column | Ask Nevaeh A Question ]
lostandconfused answered Wednesday September 15 2004, 8:46 pm: since you can spell so miraculously, you should have nothing to worry about. every guy loves a girl with incredible intellect...
ADDED: i see more intellectual comments, good for you... "stupid ass bitch" nice use of vocabulary there, im impressed. although, i DO know what it means...but how would you know that? youre harsh insults hurt me...they really do... [ lostandconfused's advice column | Ask lostandconfused A Question ]
ShOrThOnEy_ox answered Wednesday September 15 2004, 8:42 pm: Just be your self and dont act nervous and things...
Well just find out what he likes and dont like and get to know him alot more
MFS answered Wednesday September 15 2004, 8:38 pm: Well, you should act like yourself, otherwise you'd be trying to fool him, and that never works.
What should you say? Well, you should find out about the things he likes - and talk about what you have in common with him. [ MFS's advice column | Ask MFS A Question ]
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