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E-mail: kewlmandew@hotmail.com
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Location: lancaster, PA
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Age: 17
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Member Since: August 22, 2004
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BlueEyedBlondie725
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k.. im a freshman, and i like a junior.
my friend to the guy i liked him and told him she would show me to him and then he would decide if he wanted to talk to me or not.
I really like this guy. And i dunno wut to do. Cause wut if he says im fugly or something. I dunno wut i would do. But i dont want that to happen.
Hes gonna meet me on friday n i wanna kno wut i should do and wut i should act like and how i should look and if he does wanna talk to me what to talk about.
Thanks soo much!
*Confused n Scared* (link)
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hey you should be your self don't aked like someone your not and if hes not gonna like you for who you are then why does it matter. find someone that you like and is going to like you for who you are not for who else you could be.
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Hey I'm 14/m and i still haven't ever kissed a girl outside my family.... I feel kinda out of place here because I'm already in high school and ive never kissed.... is there something wrong with me? (link)
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hey man there is nothing wrong with you.do you know some people even choose not to kiss till they are married or about to get married. its ok your only 14 you have your whole life. its really nothing to worry about i have only kissed like 4 girls and i am only 17 don't worry about it. everything will be cool your life doesn't revolve around kissing girls.
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Okay...There's this guy that likes me at school. And he's really short well for me anyway because im 5'4 right now. He doesn't bother me at all, but it's his friends. All they do is say things like "Will you go out with him, do you like him, he's in love with you!!". I wouldn't have any trouble with it if they didn't harass me every minute. It's just so distracting because now every time a guy asked me if i like him i scream, "NO I DONT GO THE F- AWAY!" or something real close to it. Im at the end of the rope because it's been happening for osme time now and i cant seem to know what to do! please help me!!! thank you
signed,
stressed out! (link)
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hey its ok, you just need to chill and talk to these kids and maybe talk to the kid that likes you and tell him to stop having his friends harass you b/c if he does like you he will make them stop and just tell them nicely that you are not in to him or hes just not for you or something.
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Okay well this guy saw my picture in my advice column and started saying I was fat and shit and I was ugly...and well I don't know what I did to him...now I just feel like dying I wrote him back a message and I freaked out after him but not that badly I didn't swear to much well not like f*** or shit like that and well I just feel like dying man it's not my fault I'm fat god I got far with my life like I play pro junior basket ball for my height and force and now he calls me fat I feel so bad...I'mm putting myself down and I hate it...I wanna die can ne one help me?? (link)
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hey why should you care what this guy says. don't let it get you down if you gotten this far why should you care what he says. i have a sister who has a weight disorder and she never lets it get he down because you have to be true to your self. no matter what anyone says your an awesome person. just because one person who you don't know calls you names you are gonna let that effect you. well don't let it. i used to think about killing myself and i figured out i have more to live for then what other people think about me. and just think how said your friends and family would be if you were to kill yourself and what would killing your self achieve nothing. so if you have anymore questions or if you just need a friend to talk to just visit my column. your friend caleb
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hi! ok well i just started highschool . and my best friend goes to dif. school then me . and were allowed to talk to much cuz her mom dont like me and its a long story . well she sneaks phonecalls to me . and ovr the summer we would talk bout dif. things and she was totally dif. ( good dif.) b4 she started this new school. and she called me 3 days ago and she was acting REALLY preppy , and her voice sounded fake . and she kept bragging bout her new friends and her boyfriend she has ( boyfriend , its only been 1 week since school started) . and like she'll talk to me for bout 5min. and she'll ok i hav to go , and she just hangs up and duznt evn say bye and she duznt evn giv me a chance to talk . and its pissing me off a lot!!! i dono wtf happned to her , shes totallly different and wen she called one time i missed the call cuz i left my phone in my car and i got it and i saw the # and called it bak and her NEW friend answers so i ask if jenna was there and her NEW friend sez " jenna! its ur lil friend" i was like WTF!! and its pissing me off and i dono what to do . do i sound jealous?? i dont wana sound like a bitch but she's turned INSTANT POPULAR PREP!!! help plz!!!!!!! :( (link)
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well i don't think you sound jealous. you are just conserned ,but everything will be ok shes just going through a phase if you give it a little time things will calm down and she will start talking more again. and maybe you should also try talking to her about it. maybe just right now she just trying to fit in. but you don't have to get worried i am sure everything will just work out.
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Ok, I just started a relationship with a girl that goes to a different school than me. I will probably not be able to see her more than once every 1-2 weeks and I know theres gonna be a lot of guys hitting on her at her own school. Any advice on how I can keep her interested and make this work? I wont be worried after a few weeks have gone by, but this first little bit is going to be tough. (link)
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hey i know what its like i never dated anyone from my school and was always worried about that make sure she knows that you are intrested and suprise her make her feel special like no one else can theres no real way to stop them from hitting on her but as long as you keep it intersting between you to everything will go ok send her flowers or write her letters make her feel wanted and every thing will be ok.
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i am definitely not the hottest guy in the group (lil helpful info) i am very funny, great personallity, friend to all, some call me a super hero :) i am always good at giving advice...but this is 1 thing i cant figure out = /. if you have any helpful ideas they would be greatly appreciated. i am a 14/m (link)
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hey bud here a guys point of view i am just like you except i am 17 a little older i used to have trouble with girls likeing me because i wasn't that hottest guy and i am still not but i have a girl friend and she is wounderful she may not be the most beautiful girl in the world but she is to me and thats all that matters. and its true if you like a girl try flirting with her it took me a month before i asked out my girlfriend but it was worth it. all you have to do is be your self and someone will like you for who you are. why would you want someone that likes you for how you look then you might not have anything in commen and you end up breaking up. and i am sure there is a girl just waiting for the right moment to let you know that they like you they are just shy.
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Well i have been friends with this one guy who wears his mom's thongs, bras, and pantyhose. Everytime i'm talking to him on AOL, he always asks me if i can give him one of my thongs. He also always asks me if i get creeped out by it. I always lie and tell him no even thought it does. I don't want to hurt his feelings but he starts to creep me out because he swears he's not gay. Should i be supiscious...and how do i know if he's lying. I need some advice...Thanks (link)
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hey i think its creepy to but it depends if he does it all the time because all guys wounder whats its like to wear womens cloth but most don't tell about it i once dressed up as agirl with a friend and it was just for fun i have a girl friend so i am not gay try to find out if he has any feelings for any girls but you could also just talk to him about it and i think he will understand but you shouldn't have lied in the first part. but it may just be a phase that he is going through trying new things and maybe it will just pass
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Ok, i really ReAlLy like this boy named Naz. This whole year, i worked hard at getting to know him, and it finally worked! So now i'm really really good friends wit him, and i tell him everything, like he tells me. My parents dont really care about me liking him, as long as i dont do anything. But then one night wen i wuz talkin to Naz, he found out that i was a virgen still, and he said, "i guess whoever u give it up to, u really luv them." Then he asked me if i wud sleep wit him. I sed i dont know. (And i know he's not usin me becuz for one thing, i'm really close wit him, and also becuz he knows i liked him this WhOlE year, so if he wanted to use me, he cud've tried to a long time ago. And i DiD kiss him before.) So anyway, i really want to, becuz i luv him. And i KnOw this is luv becuz....well i jus know. Everyone who's been in luv knows. So i want to sleep wit him, but then my brotha Miguelle cums into the picture. He says if i do that, i'm a slut and a hoe and that i shud be ashammed of myself. He made me feel really bad. But it's My lIFe, isnt it? I wanna listen to him cuz he's my brotha, but he jus has no idea how much i luv this dude. He doesnt understand, cuz he's neva been in luv before. But wat shud i do? (sorry its so long! I ReAllY need help on this, pleaz dont delete it! Thanx!) (link)
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well you don't have to listen to this but i am 17 and i know what its like to be in love like that and well one night i aalmost made the mistake of giving my virginity away to someone i thought i loved and still do but it never really worked out between us because you can't always control what happens so now me and this girl are just friends. but best friends and i still love her but i had the chance because i think it is better if you save yourself for the one that is going to marry you because then you know its true love and you know that he won't be using you and it also depends how old you are. you may really love this boy ,but it just may not be right you can only lose your virinity once and once you lose it and if you and this boy never talk again it won't be as special with you husband. your brother isn't totally right you won't be a whore if you do it. and if you do decide to do it make sure that you take all the right moves to stay safe from pregnancy and diseases and if you want to talk more then just write in my column
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