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Question Posted Sunday August 22 2004, 3:13 pm

Okay well this guy saw my picture in my advice column and started saying I was fat and shit and I was ugly...and well I don't know what I did to him...now I just feel like dying I wrote him back a message and I freaked out after him but not that badly I didn't swear to much well not like f*** or shit like that and well I just feel like dying man it's not my fault I'm fat god I got far with my life like I play pro junior basket ball for my height and force and now he calls me fat I feel so bad...I'mm putting myself down and I hate it...I wanna die can ne one help me??

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BrunetteBeauti answered Tuesday August 31 2004, 10:40 am:
jus ignore him hes probabyly ugly nd is a social reject so hes putting u down. but dont listen 2 him nd leave ur pic in ur column if u delete it he will think u'll do w.e. he wants u 2 do nd ur scared of him

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xo_dream answered Wednesday August 25 2004, 1:01 am:
Just ignore him -- he's probably huge + ugly and has no teeth. Don't worry about it, it's only the internet. And stop putting yourself down, I'm sure you're not fat or ugly.

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o0Tina0o answered Tuesday August 24 2004, 10:26 pm:
DONT PUT YOURSELF DOWN!!! ppl are so shallow these days! they call me fat and ugly...
everyone is pretty in there own way...
they even call shannon bond ugly and fat and shes not!
dont listen 2 that ashole! he is just probley somedude that got bored on the internet

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MummuM answered Monday August 23 2004, 1:53 pm:
Don't put yourself down because some fucking idiot called you fat over the internet. He's probably some old guy with no teeth, two different color eyes, no hair, and ears bigger then his own head. He's just doing that to make himself feel good. Don't listen to what he has to say. It's whats inside that counts =)

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hailebop answered Monday August 23 2004, 1:51 pm:
I know it's hard, but you shouldn't let comments like that get to you. Your worth as a person doesn't come from your appearance or what a random, cowardly person on the internet thinks of you. Repeat that to yourself, if you have to. Of course, there is a difference between saying these things and actually believing them. You want to slowly build up your confidence in yourself - concentrate on what you like about yourself, such as your talent at athletics, and hopefully you'll realise that comments about your weight or appearance don't matter, because it's what you think of yourself that matters.

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Mackenzie answered Monday August 23 2004, 11:53 am:
Tell him to shut his fucking piehole -- he's pRobably woRse off! You Really shouldn't let RetaRds get to you like that; don't give them the satisfaction!! I'm shoRe you'Re goRgeous!! [AiM: SiMPLY x GiRL] if you'd eveR like to talk!! I'll be heRe foR you!! Take caRe!!

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Sunshine answered Monday August 23 2004, 5:51 am:
If he's putting you down, then he's the one with the problem, not you. Don't let him get you down.

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snowwalker69 answered Sunday August 22 2004, 11:11 pm:
look, fuck the loser, okay? there are people on here who purposly try to put other people down ... it's disgusting. Your not fat, don't let him bother you

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Xo_Blondii_oX answered Sunday August 22 2004, 5:34 pm:
Forget him!.hes jus taking his problems out on you. Im sure your very pretty! everyone is in their own way.So basically just forget about him,hes just trying to ruin ur life because he doesnt have one
x0`amanda

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friendforall7 answered Sunday August 22 2004, 5:33 pm:
hey why should you care what this guy says. don't let it get you down if you gotten this far why should you care what he says. i have a sister who has a weight disorder and she never lets it get he down because you have to be true to your self. no matter what anyone says your an awesome person. just because one person who you don't know calls you names you are gonna let that effect you. well don't let it. i used to think about killing myself and i figured out i have more to live for then what other people think about me. and just think how said your friends and family would be if you were to kill yourself and what would killing your self achieve nothing. so if you have anymore questions or if you just need a friend to talk to just visit my column. your friend caleb

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spoiledx3shortii answered Sunday August 22 2004, 5:09 pm:
well if it helps i am overweight also.. ppl call me fat and ugly too.. it does not mean it is true.. do not say you want to die.. things will get better! nd who cares what they say.. it may hurt but its just bcuz they cannot see inner beauty.. its harsh i know but just ignore it.. stick with your friends and if you need to then get counseling.. or you can try to lose some weight.. although i know its very hard ((i have tryed)) .. there will always be ppl in the world who are mean and rude.. just ignore it and go on with your life and live it to the fullest!
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crystal200022us answered Sunday August 22 2004, 5:05 pm:
People on here can be very cruel so I wouldn't worry about it. You shouldn't put yourself down because of this guy's comments. He is just on here to be rude and probably will eventually get himself in trouble. You know what you do and just keep at it don't listen to this guy. I hope I helped!
Crystal

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aZnTeNnIsGrL09 answered Sunday August 22 2004, 5:03 pm:
okay, first of all, this guy doesn't even no u, so don't put urself down becuz of that, and take ur picture down if u want to, if it bothers u that much, i mean think about it, u've gotten this far in ur life, u play pro junior basketball, that's something you should be proud of, and besides, if u die, then i bet all of your friends would be sad, n they'd be disappointed...

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BeastFromTheWeast answered Sunday August 22 2004, 5:01 pm:
Dont you think you are being a little over dramatic about it? Its just a stupid guy. Get over it my dear.

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TucanFullOfHoles answered Sunday August 22 2004, 4:54 pm:
ok, first off, a guy YOU DON'T EVE KNOW is never a good reason to want to die. and neither is being a bit over weight.

well take down the picture if it bothers you. if your life is good, don't worry about it. don't put yourself down, because whats so great about apperience anyway. all the skinny kids die first anyway.

i hope you feel better soon.

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Hotdancinchic72 answered Sunday August 22 2004, 4:52 pm:
ya know what hes probablly so fat he cant go thru his own back door and hes jelious cause your skinner than him so hes trying to make himself feel better about himself by saying that!
So just ignore it and act like he never said that to you, because in reality his life probablly sux and hes just taking it out on you!

Hope i helped!
Hotdancinchic72

ps
what is your advice column?

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DeeplyInLove102203 answered Sunday August 22 2004, 4:52 pm:
Dont listen to wat otha ppl say i mean he iz juss sum stupid a-hole who prolly enjoys puttin ppl down i mean juss dont take it to heart cuz im sure your a awesome person and he iz juss sum loser u kno wat im sayin hun u have a good life dont let sum a-hole who sed sum stupid shyt make u feel like crap about yourself so juss try to forget bout him k hunni i hope i helped if u need n e thing juss drop 1 in my inbox k

Caitlin*

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Jennifer790 answered Sunday August 22 2004, 4:51 pm:
ur not fat no one is... everyone has their problems and no one is perfect the guy told u that because hes not comfotable with himself and that hes just jelous dont worry be happy

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selectopaque answered Sunday August 22 2004, 4:46 pm:
Yeah, some people suck. Don't listen to those kind of people, they are unhappy jerks and can only get a shred of happiness by putting people down.

And if this ever happens then tell a level 2 moderator or the sit administrator and that person can get banned from the site for a while. You can find out who is a level two moderator by going to the Moderator FAQ and click on View Moderators... The site administrator is on that page too.

And, this person has been banned. If you ever have another problem like that then go to me, or another level two moderator, or the level three moderator, who is the site administrator.

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