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hEy Y'aLl!! wAtS uP iN tHe HiZzHoUsE?? well, i'm 13, n i have black hair w/brown highlights, n i have brown eyes...i go to SHMS y'all!! lol.. i AlSo No WhO gIvEs GrEaT aDvIcE, KC!!!lOl well, pEaCe OuT tO aLl Y'aLl WhO r ChIlLiN!!

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Location: Apple Valley
Age: 13
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Member Since: August 17, 2004
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Last Update: August 22, 2004
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Okay well this guy saw my picture in my advice column and started saying I was fat and shit and I was ugly...and well I don't know what I did to him...now I just feel like dying I wrote him back a message and I freaked out after him but not that badly I didn't swear to much well not like f*** or shit like that and well I just feel like dying man it's not my fault I'm fat god I got far with my life like I play pro junior basket ball for my height and force and now he calls me fat I feel so bad...I'mm putting myself down and I hate it...I wanna die can ne one help me??

okay, first of all, this guy doesn't even no u, so don't put urself down becuz of that, and take ur picture down if u want to, if it bothers u that much, i mean think about it, u've gotten this far in ur life, u play pro junior basketball, that's something you should be proud of, and besides, if u die, then i bet all of your friends would be sad, n they'd be disappointed...

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Hey. i have a huge problem. see my step cousin that actully has no blood relation to me is actully the perfect guy for me. he wants to be with me and i want to be with him, do you think that is incesed since there is no blood relation to us since it is all by marriage. i mean i really have always had feelings for him even b4 his mom and my uncle met. is it wronge to be in love with this guy please help. I rate!!!!

no, i don't think it's a problem, but talk it over w/ur folks first, but since there's technically no blood relation, then it shouldn't be a problem!


*Coral*

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my ex want to go back out with me and i think i want to go back out with him to but i think all he cares about is looks and i gained 5 pounds over the summer because of a foot ingery and i dont look so great what should i do also i am 13 and female




qtpie101

if he only cares about looks, then hez not worth u dating him, accept his offer at first, then wen he sees u, if he changes his mind, then hez not worth your affection

XxCoralxX

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if you make-out with someone you like, but you arent dating them, does that make you a slut??

making out w/someone, even tho ur not dating them? nah, thatz not a slut, a slut iz wen u have sex w/someone that ur not dating, n u keep doing that over and over, thatz a slut.

~*Coral

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i want to sleep with this guy, im a vrigin and im lil nerveous but i know im ready should i?
i rate good

well depends on how old u r, if you're only like 13-15, i wouldn't suggest it, well maybe 15, but i dunno, see, it all depends on if he wants too also, so just kinda get to the subject when you're talking to him, and if he says yes, then go for it, but do whatever you feel comfortable

XxCoralxX

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See I was goin out w/ this guy for lyk 2 months then one day he broke up w/ me...but the thing is i don't kno if he really broke up w/ me or if it was his brother that i think likes me to (they r the same age...my bf/x bf was adopted) but idk if my bf did break up w/ me or not my friends said that in his profile it still says that he loves me n i kno that he doesn't forget to take things like that out of his profile...but idk wut am i suppose to do i dont want 2 call him bc it will b to awkward n he is like never on IM so idk n if he did break up w/ me i want 2 kno why but i just feel way to weird tlakin 2 him on the phone n askin him that...plz help me wut should i do????

if your friends are friends w/him, ask them to ask him for you, like give them his number if they don't already have it, n have them ask him for you, then ask them

.:Coral:.

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ok.. how many of you think its possible to love at 15? i kno there's girls on here and guys that say they love their bf/gf. but do most of you take it as "puppy love?" i think it is possible. bc see my bf now.. ive been with him 9 months and i lost my virginity to him and the thing is my mom and family dissapprove of me and him together... because hes black n im white. but i still go to see him and he comes to see me at like the park and stuff and we hang out. and im 15 and so is he. i mean i kno this may sound stupid but i really can see myself with him forever. like i dont want to be with anyone else. i kno i love him and not that fake stuff. i would do anything for him. i kno u all dont think i kno what love is bc im so young but thats ok. but i do love him with all my heart and i would die for him... but how many of you believe that u can love someone at 15?
id like to hear ur comments. ill rate. thanks..
Manda

it is totally possible to be in love at 15, and believe me, there's nothing wrong with that, but if your parents don't approve, try to prove out his good points, and y u fell in love w/him in the first place, then maybe your parents will start believing that u really love him, and won't try to seperate you two, just b/c he's black...GOOD LUCK!!

~!*Coral*!~

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I still have time to think, but I have NO idea what I want to major in. Im really good in english but dont want to do any teacher sort of thing and the author life is too risky. I love horses, but couldnt be a vet b/c i could never bear the sorrow of putting a horse to sleep. I love animals in general. I love designing too, but Im not awsome in math so interior design would be a bit too tricky. I cant really draw. Could anyone just list some cool things to look into even if it has nothing to do with my interests? Thanks... for the help. :-D

okay, you could be a designer if you really work hard towards it, and when i say this, i mean you should learn your math better, and maybe you could be an animator or do something w/animation, since you like to draw, think into it a bit...

~*Coral*~

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If you say I don't kiss and tell are you saying I don't kiss a person and then tell if they were a good kisser or I don't tell who I kissed?

Also, i've heard the saying preaching to the choir a whole lot...what does it mean?

If you can answer only one it's fine. Just need this to clear up a little confusion!

okay, if u say u don't kiss and tell, that means that you kiss somebody, n u don't tell anybody who u kissed... cleared up now?

xxCoralxx

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Im 21 and female. I broke up with a guy about 2 years ago and ive had feelings for him ever since. I basically broke up with him because of another guy and regreted it after. Weve kept in touch and im pretty sure im in love with him and have been even since we broke up. I recently found out he is going to propose to his girlfriend. This really upset me and i dont want him to marry her. I guess my question is, is it wrong for me to tell him how i feel about him since hes planning on marrying this other girl? Should i tell him or should i just leave it alone and try to move on?

Well, are u supposed to no that hez gonna propose? cuz if u aren't, then itz fine to tell him, and see how he feels, but if u are, then i would just leave it alone, unless you really feel like you HAVE to tell him, but otherwise, i would just follow wat i said above, and if you tell him, and he doesn't feel the same, then try and get over him, go out w/a buncha other guys, n see wat happens, if nothing changes, then you might have to live with it your whole life... i dunno, GoOd LuCk!!

*Coral*

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I dont know what to put this under but whatever Lol. Im 14 And I Want To Help Kids Who Get Abused,Raped,Suicidal..And That Is Shy. I Dont Know What You Would Call It. But Do You Know A Site. About This Or Anything. Is It A Therapist? Please Help When I Grow Up I Really Want To Help Please!

yes, your answer would probably to become a phsychiatrist, or a therapist, that'd be the best option, and to major in it... well gOoD lUcK!!

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y do i get mean questions in my inbox from people on this site...why are people so mean?

are u ever mean to them? ask urself that, also ask yourself, do u ever say mean things to ppl here?

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I go out wit dis guy. And my mom doesnt agree and my dad does! I love him wit all my heart and i dont know what to do.. PLease help me

PEACE

okay, if you really really love him, then still go out with him for a while, and see if u can prove to your mom that you love him w/all your heart, and nothing's gonna change that...and ya never know, ur mom might change her mind about him.

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