Hey. i have a huge problem. see my step cousin that actully has no blood relation to me is actully the perfect guy for me. he wants to be with me and i want to be with him, do you think that is incesed since there is no blood relation to us since it is all by marriage. i mean i really have always had feelings for him even b4 his mom and my uncle met. is it wronge to be in love with this guy please help. I rate!!!!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? hailebop answered Tuesday August 24 2004, 1:16 pm: It's not incest, but I don't think it's a good idea, either. I don't know how close your families are, but it's not really a good idea to experiment with somebody if your going to have to keep seeing them even if you break up. You haven't said how old you are, but if you are living at home with your family, there's going to be akwardness if you have to see this guy as family at family events despite having a romantic history together. It's not immoral in any way, but I'd advise proceeding with caution whatever happens. Good luck! [ hailebop's advice column | Ask hailebop A Question ]
Mackenzie answered Monday August 23 2004, 12:05 pm: Uhm, well since you'Re not blood Related... peRhaps it's not FULL incest.. but family is family, my fRiend! I can see HOW you'd fall foR him... but, it's pRobably NOT a good idea! I would Recommend it!! WhateveR you decide to do; I wish you the best of luck!! =D [ Mackenzie's advice column | Ask Mackenzie A Question ]
Sunshine answered Monday August 23 2004, 5:48 am: There is nothing wrong with your feelings, since ya'll are not blood related. However, the rest of the family might think it's weird if ya'll pursue this relationship. So this may have more challenges than other relationship. [ Sunshine's advice column | Ask Sunshine A Question ]
TucanFullOfHoles answered Sunday August 22 2004, 5:04 pm: nah its not. when (and if) your uncle and his wife get devoriced, you won't be related at all. so no theres nothing wrong with it. in Alabama its legal to marry your direct cousins. so this isnt' really a problem. i hope things work out. you just might wanna keep it quiet from your parets for a while, cuz well, parents will tell you its creepy and stuff, but thats because they're all like oh my little baby has a bf, I WON'T STAND FOR IT! so they'll use the whole cousin thing as an excuse. so its not that important that they know and stuff.
aZnTeNnIsGrL09 answered Sunday August 22 2004, 5:00 pm: no, i don't think it's a problem, but talk it over w/ur folks first, but since there's technically no blood relation, then it shouldn't be a problem!
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