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Question Posted Thursday August 19 2004, 11:12 am

i want to sleep with this guy, im a vrigin and im lil nerveous but i know im ready should i?
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SeXyBLuEyEzGuRL answered Tuesday August 24 2004, 12:21 am:
if ur readyy for it then why not?

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UnluckyWishes answered Monday August 23 2004, 3:02 pm:
If you know that your ready and you know what your doing, then go for it.Hope i helped.

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beatlovedown answered Friday August 20 2004, 8:39 pm:
If you think you're ready, go for it.
You'll never know until you try, and if you never do you're going to regret it for a long time.If you dont think you're ready, its best not to test yourself. Good luck!

Hope it all works out,
anna

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Mackenzie answered Thursday August 19 2004, 10:32 pm:
Well, it's okay to be neRvous.. eveRyone is theiR fiRst time, but if you even have to ASK this.. then you'Re having doubts, and definitely NOT Ready. Best wishes!! Hope I helped!! =D

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umpalumpa8793 answered Thursday August 19 2004, 9:14 pm:
i say no y break ur virinaty plus the bible says not to untill ur marries hope i helped tell me how it goes IM me umpalumpa8793

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skank answered Thursday August 19 2004, 8:49 pm:
how old are you???

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sarcasm_rocks answered Thursday August 19 2004, 8:12 pm:
i believe that if you have to ask whether you should do it or not, then you're not totally ready. if you were ready, you'd know you were ready.

you need to really think about it. you only lose your virginity once, so make sure you don't regret it!

also, do you trust this guy? and love him? those are two important things to consider. i wouldn't suggest losing your virginity until you're positive you're ready, and you know you love and trust the guy.

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chain_chica answered Thursday August 19 2004, 7:50 pm:
well its up to you if you feel you like this guy and YOUR ready go for it

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karlyndarlin05 answered Thursday August 19 2004, 6:06 pm:
well duh, if its ur first time ur gonna be nervous,as well as almost everyone on their first time and if you think ur ready, then go for it. but keep in mind ur age, u dont want to get yourself or any one else in trouble do you? and use protection...unless you want a kid
~hope i helped

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snowwalker69 answered Thursday August 19 2004, 5:57 pm:
well, if your ready, do it. It's okay to be a little nervous.

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Raining_Tears087 answered Thursday August 19 2004, 5:22 pm:
it depends how old you are...if you're old enough to understand the consequences and use protection! try planned parenthood...they have some good packets there! hope it helps!

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xxAdviceGirlxx answered Thursday August 19 2004, 4:50 pm:
OK! This is a good question! LOL! So you know you're ready right? But have you considered the fact that you can get AIDS or HIV even WITH a condom? Have you also considered that you CAN become pregnant even if you DO TAKE THE PILL or DO HAVE CONDOMS? They only give you a percentage of protection over pregnancy... Like my friend she was one of the unlucky 10%... So if you thought this over and it doesn't bug you knowing that you can get a disease or get pregnant, then by all means get out there and do it, but if it does bug you, don't do it only because you friends or your boyfriend is pressuring you...
Signed,
xxAdviceGirlxx

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s1m1k1 answered Thursday August 19 2004, 4:16 pm:
Um in my opinion I don't think you should have sex AT ALL until you're married because that's what it says in the BIBLE. I mean sex isn't that bi of a deal. But yeah, I can't stop you from having sex. Just think before you act!

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xChainMeUp13x answered Thursday August 19 2004, 3:46 pm:
its all up to u if u want to nd u think ure ready go for it just do wut u want to do
hope i helped
.:Keryn:.

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Jane answered Thursday August 19 2004, 3:11 pm:
*You said you're ready, but then you're nervous. If you're nervous about pain and stuff, don't worry about it. But if you're nervous if you want to do it, you may not be ready. You'll know when you're truly ready and once you are you can go fuck like bunnies in a field =)*

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xO4uXo answered Thursday August 19 2004, 3:06 pm:
*hey sweetie*

well i tihnk that its totally up to u! if you realli want to sleep with this guy then go for it! if he means that much to you, n u have strong feelings 4 him then it soundz like ur ready! but do what you think is right!

best of luck

x's n o's

*bethany*

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hotcherry answered Thursday August 19 2004, 3:04 pm:
If you feel you are ready...and you trust the guy...then go for it. Just be sure that its not going to be something that you will regret. I think everyone is a little nervous the first time...:D goodluck

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Mz_Bitch answered Thursday August 19 2004, 2:58 pm:
since u know ur ready yes :-D good luck!




<Shelby<3

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aZnTeNnIsGrL09 answered Thursday August 19 2004, 2:49 pm:
well depends on how old u r, if you're only like 13-15, i wouldn't suggest it, well maybe 15, but i dunno, see, it all depends on if he wants too also, so just kinda get to the subject when you're talking to him, and if he says yes, then go for it, but do whatever you feel comfortable

XxCoralxX

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spoiledx3shortii answered Thursday August 19 2004, 2:03 pm:
If you are rady i guess.. and if you think this guy is the one that you want to spend the rest of your life with.. and think about if u do get pregnant.. will you be able to care for the baby? and what will your parents think!?
Hope I helped!
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SweetiePie777 answered Thursday August 19 2004, 1:51 pm:
If you want to, go ahead. It's okay to want to sleep with a guy. If you feel very ready enough, go ahead. Just be true to yourself, and be careful, you don't want the guy to tell the whole world.
~Cayd

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First2fall answered Thursday August 19 2004, 1:46 pm:
Well this is what I said to a friend that had this problem. If he really wants to and you want to too, and you 2 feel comfortable together, and if you are also willing to give up the title of innocent little girl. If you agree to most of those points you should, but remember use a rubber.

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nic0olee answered Thursday August 19 2004, 1:24 pm:
If ur younger than 16, I wouldnt sleep with him. If ur older, then u should, only if u really like him!

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pinklemonadestand answered Thursday August 19 2004, 1:19 pm:
If you think your ready then go a head and sleep with him but make sure you use pretection because you don't want to be a mother.... Be careful plus if you can trust him then go for it girl!

-Katie

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liddylflirtx3 answered Thursday August 19 2004, 12:44 pm:
If you think you're ready to sleep with this guy, and if you're sure that he's the one that you want to lose your virginity to, then go right ahead =)

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KateStar1011 answered Thursday August 19 2004, 12:05 pm:
If you are totally sure. I mean, you need to be in love. Don't let the curiousness that you have spoil it. It's hard to make up this descion for you. All of us can't ya know. All we can tell you is...are you totally positive you are in love, and you want to lose it to this one guy.
I hope we all helped! <3
Have a wonderful daY!

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dotdotdot32 answered Thursday August 19 2004, 12:02 pm:
NO DONT DO IT. NO NO NO. SAY NO. NO.

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bRuNeTtExdUdEtTe answered Thursday August 19 2004, 11:53 am:
well i think everybodys a little nervous their first time. Make sure you really kno the guy and trust him, and he doesnt have a bad reputation. if you REALLY think you`re ready, and kno everything there is to kno about protection and crap, then go ahead. just be careful..

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footballa04 answered Thursday August 19 2004, 11:52 am:
only you can tell if your ready...just make sure u use condoms and make sure he doesnt have aids or something and also make sure hes not just usin you

-nick plz rate

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Sweetie2oo4 answered Thursday August 19 2004, 11:48 am:
if you KNOW you're ready, you really love each other, and he's not using you..then i'd say go for it! sex is a very serious thing, you want your first time to be special--plz make sure he's not using you for it, and please let it be with a guy you love and who loves you..if you have no doubts left in your mind about it..then be careful & do what YOU feel's right..don't let him presure you into anything

xo`lexi

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manda44 answered Thursday August 19 2004, 11:43 am:
well in my opinion i think ur ready when u know ALLL about sex. like about condoms and checking them when ur done and birthcontrol and plan b. plan b is 2 pills u take within 3-5 days of unprotected sex or if u kno the condom broke. u jus go to ur local health care place and ask for it. its confidential and no one but u have to know. and i think everyone is nervous about thier 1st tiem.. i was. but ur ready when u are with a guy who u want to take ur V and always remember them. bc u always will. trust me. and you can trust this guy so that he wont tell people about ur business unless u want him too.
Hope i helped. feel free to talk to me!.
Manda

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viper17 answered Thursday August 19 2004, 11:36 am:
only u no when ur ready. if u think u are then be sure b4 u have sex. if u arent ready, tell him. if he doesnt understand, he doesnt respect u so dump him.

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