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ok. Yea I know the picture is not of me, but don't be picky. I have blonde hair, blue eyes. MY name is Matt. I like emo and most other genres of rock. I like MMORPGs, and other video games. I play soccer. I am also training to be a soccer ref. Here is my policy if it is a stupid question I will give you a stupid answer, but still ask your question, I will try to the best advice I can.

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Location: McLean, VA
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Age: 13
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Member Since: August 19, 2004
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Me and my boyfriend were together everyday, it could be for only 5 minutes sum days but we were together. Tuesday he left on vacation with his friend and didnt tell me and hasnt called me at all. He's coming back on Sunday but I dont know if this was his way of ending it or not. Its not like him to just up and go away. Anyways of approaching him if he doesnt call on Sunday and I stop by his house to talk to him? What should I say because I odnt want to lose him. I'm 18 and hes 19. We have been together for 8 months

Hmm this one is somewhat tough. He might have been wanting to see if your relationship was strong enough, by going on vacation without giving you a warning. It could have also just slipped his mind, but that is probably not the reason. I say you should just call him late on Sunday or on Monday. You should ask him why he did not tell you about him going on vacation, and other things. That is all the advice I can give.
--Matt

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i want to sleep with this guy, im a vrigin and im lil nerveous but i know im ready should i?
i rate good

Well this is what I said to a friend that had this problem. If he really wants to and you want to too, and you 2 feel comfortable together, and if you are also willing to give up the title of innocent little girl. If you agree to most of those points you should, but remember use a rubber.

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Im 21 and female. I broke up with a guy about 2 years ago and ive had feelings for him ever since. I basically broke up with him because of another guy and regreted it after. Weve kept in touch and im pretty sure im in love with him and have been even since we broke up. I recently found out he is going to propose to his girlfriend. This really upset me and i dont want him to marry her. I guess my question is, is it wrong for me to tell him how i feel about him since hes planning on marrying this other girl? Should i tell him or should i just leave it alone and try to move on?

I say you should tell him, and see if he has any feelings for you. It is best to tell him before he gets engaged to his girlfriend.

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If you say I don't kiss and tell are you saying I don't kiss a person and then tell if they were a good kisser or I don't tell who I kissed?

Also, i've heard the saying preaching to the choir a whole lot...what does it mean?

If you can answer only one it's fine. Just need this to clear up a little confusion!

I have no idea what your first question is, it is way too confusing. The second question I can answer. The say "Preaching to the choir" means you are telling people your idea when they have that same idea, sorta like a priest is telling the choir about god when they already know everythign there is to know about God.

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ok.. how many of you think its possible to love at 15? i kno there's girls on here and guys that say they love their bf/gf. but do most of you take it as "puppy love?" i think it is possible. bc see my bf now.. ive been with him 9 months and i lost my virginity to him and the thing is my mom and family dissapprove of me and him together... because hes black n im white. but i still go to see him and he comes to see me at like the park and stuff and we hang out. and im 15 and so is he. i mean i kno this may sound stupid but i really can see myself with him forever. like i dont want to be with anyone else. i kno i love him and not that fake stuff. i would do anything for him. i kno u all dont think i kno what love is bc im so young but thats ok. but i do love him with all my heart and i would die for him... but how many of you believe that u can love someone at 15?
id like to hear ur comments. ill rate. thanks..
Manda

Yes you can love someone at 15. You can start loving when you start puberty. If you think that you will be with him forever, then I must say that this is love, you having sex also adds to that scenerio. I wish you and your bf a good live together.

--Matt

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I know this vaires... But what do guys usually look for in a girl? And what do u guys like in flirting techniques and such? *Thanks*

Well it sorta varies from guy to guy. Some guys like tall girls some guys like short girls. I like girls that are nice, show some liking in the stuff I like does not have to be a lot but she has to tolerate. I also like long hair I do not like it in a ponytail, I like how it frames the face. That is just me so do I not fly by it. THe flirting is the same. Since I have not really flirted with anyone I cannot give that much advice on this subject, I will give what I can. Just do what comes naturally, if the guy does not like you for being who you are, he is no right for you.

--Matt

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