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Can i tell him how i feel?
Im 21 and female. I broke up with a guy about 2 years ago and ive had feelings for him ever since. I basically broke up with him because of another guy and regreted it after. Weve kept in touch and im pretty sure im in love with him and have been even since we broke up. I recently found out he is going to propose to his girlfriend. This really upset me and i dont want him to marry her. I guess my question is, is it wrong for me to tell him how i feel about him since hes planning on marrying this other girl? Should i tell him or should i just leave it alone and try to move on?
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I think you should tell him how you feel and tell him you dont mean to cause complications you just wanted him to know before he made a life changing decision and that you really dont want to cause him any harm in doing so. Let him know it was soething you had to do for you. And if he doesnt feel the same way about, then wish him the best of luck with his marriage to the other girl and move on. And if it is in any way possible that you two would like to remain friends some time in the future then go for it. But it depends on how awkward the both of you may feel with being friends. I hope I have helped and I wish you the best of luck.
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Yes its wrong. It probly took him a while to get over you, you broke up with him for another guy? that in itself is wrong. you regreted it ever since? you should have told him rught away. IF a guy is proposing he is in love so your cahcnes arent taht great even if you do tell him but you will make him feel bad. Don't say anything
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If he feels strongly enough about this other person that he wants to marry her, I doubt telling him you love him will change his mind. It'll just complicate things.
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I say you should totally tell him!I mean, what if you end up telling him that you love him,'n then he tells you that he also loves you.You never know."Life is full of little surprises!" And even if you end up telling him, and he doesn't feel the same way..then you learn from the mistake and you get over it.But you should tell him, cause you might regret it for the rest of your life.Good Luck, 'n hope i helped!
-tori
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I saw you should tell him. But that just might be me. These would be my reasons for telling him if I was in your situation:
-He might not know how you feel for him
-You don't want to you the rest of your life knowing that if you told him how you felt it might of changed his mind marrying his girlfriend.
-You will feel a whole lot better knowing that its not on your chest.
-You can see what he says. If he says he doesn't have those feelings then you can just live by the mistake you made and try to move on.
-Its better to get feelings situated so friendships can build.
There are some other good reasons, if you think about it. I say tell him. Hope I helped! If you need anything else I'll be glad to help you!
*Laci
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I would tell him! Cuz if u do, he might love u too! you never know! Good luck! <3
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I know alot of people have answered this question already...but...you're not going to feel any better about the situation unless you tell him exactly how you feel. If you decide on not telling him, then you will always wonder "what if.." you know?? You never know, things could work out for the better!! =) GOODLUCK!!
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won't you regret it if you dont? yes you will. so just let him know. but make it perfectly clear that you dont want to break them up in any way! dont be like that. girls like that are soo stupid. just tell him how you feel. and tell him you think you are in love wiht him. again. dont intrude or expect it the way you want it to. good luck! <3 k
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Well, are u supposed to no that hez gonna propose? cuz if u aren't, then itz fine to tell him, and see how he feels, but if u are, then i would just leave it alone, unless you really feel like you HAVE to tell him, but otherwise, i would just follow wat i said above, and if you tell him, and he doesn't feel the same, then try and get over him, go out w/a buncha other guys, n see wat happens, if nothing changes, then you might have to live with it your whole life... i dunno, GoOd LuCk!!
*Coral*
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well its better to let him no before he's married. i mean he could always break the engagement if he feels the same way about you. but divorces are dificult.
*hope it works out for you*
god bless -aeromonkey
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tell him immediately!!!!!!!!!!
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Thats a tough one.. if i were you i would tell him that you have loved him since you broke up with him.. only so you can go on with your life.. but don't get your hopes up on him breakiing up with his gf for you.. unless he feels the same.. or you could keep it to yourself.. but then you will live your life thinking *what if i did tell him i loved him..* and thinking of what could have happened!!
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Okay you should watch the movie 13 going on 30 as your homework. Basically you'll get that if he is obviously still in love with you then tell him, but if you dont know you might wanna just leave it alone. He might be in love, and you already had your chance. (soo sorry if any harshness). Good luck in what you decide to do.
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aww that's so sweet--hun you HAVE to tell him..if you don't you'll never know what you could have had and you'll regret it for the rest of your life!! tell him that u still love him and have for the last 2 years ..don't leave it alone and try to move on until you know how he feels about u..you have nothing to lose..just talk to him! aww i hope he feels the same way about you--good luck!! =) let me know how it goes
xo`lexi
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You should tell him. If you dont, then you'll be regretting it forever, and you'll be overcome by the "what-if" syndrome...and that might stay with you even if you get married yourself!! Before he asks her, if you can, tell him how you feel, but dont make it really loud...tune it down alittle so he doesnt think that you are crazy and obsessed.
Hope I helped!!
ALissa
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I say you should tell him, and see if he has any feelings for you. It is best to tell him before he gets engaged to his girlfriend.
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NO it isn't wrong to tell him that you love him! Here is a poem that should help you, if you love someone tell them because hearts are broken by words unspoken. That is true you must tell him how you feel about him because he might still have feelings for you and think you don't love him still.
-Katie
....if you need anything else just ask me.
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