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ok... i have a boyfriend.. and we have been dating for like a year and a half.. he started to act a little funny around me.. and i found out that his parents are fighting and thinking about goin their on ways..

but there is this other guy that likes.. me.. and i kind of have feelings for him too....i dont know which one i should pick.. i think i should stay with my boyfriend but my feelings are all messed up... what do you think i should do??

Are you kidding me? You’re sitting here saying his parents are about to split up and you’ve been together for a year and a half.. But u like someone else and don’t know what to do?? .. First .. Smack yourself.. Think of it the other way around.. He needs you.. especially right now.. If your parents were breaking up wouldn’t u want the person you’ve spent a year and a half w to be there for you .. instead of thinking about some other guy.. If you have to ask a question like that you really are messed up

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is there any way to tan easier or faster without using sunless tanning products or tanning booths?

baby oil + sun = pretty tan!!.. that is how i get dark.. lol right now i'm darker than my bi-racial b/f.. so yahh it works

xo lexi

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does anyone know how to lighten your eyebrows?

it depends what color your hair is.. if its blonde and you want to lighten your eyebrows then bleach them just be careful.. however if you're a brunette dont bleach them!! brown hair and blonde eyebrows looks funny.. do wut i do to my hair.. soak them in lemon juice and lay out.. you'll get a tan and lighter eyebrows..trust me..it works!!

xo`lexi

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im having trouble in a sport called... tennis. how do i get better? please help
please dont say "Practice, practice, practice" or "ask someone" because I need ACTUAL tips from someone who has ACTUALLY played!

I rate high!

Thanks!

Well.. lol the truth is practice makes perfect =)

try things like:

-hitting the ball of the side of a house, or wall..you can practice different swing techniques and get your speed up that way

-have someone throw the tennis ball randomly to practice your foot work and diving for the ball--make sure they do not throw it directly to you--that way you have to learn to dive for the ball.

-practice throwing the ball up and hitting it far, but aim down as hard as you can--comes in handy for serving..

not much more i can think of, those are things i do for tennis pratice for school.

hope it helps

xO`Lexi

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is it like totally wrong to talk to guys on the internet that you dont know? 'cuz my mom doesnt let me talk to anyone i dont know! and know i'm falling for this guy! what do i do? i wanna keep talking to him!! And my mom would kill me if she found out!
what do i do? i'm so confused!

Sorry, but your mom is right! It is very dangerous to talk to guys online!!! You do not know how old they are, where they're from, anything about them-- just because they tell you something, does not mean it is true!! Over 50% of guys online lie to get girls to talk to them. Do you know how many girls have gotten kidnapped by guys they talked to online?? They started out just talking, then the guys hack their computers..they can find out their address, full name, #, social security #..everything!! I'm not trying to sound rude or anything.. it's just I know from personal experiences how dangerous it is and I do not want you to get hurt !!

I hope you take this serious and listen to your mom... she Does know what's best for you..

xo`Lexi

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my cat bites (a lot) what should i do?

bite the damn thing back..lol that worked for my puppy..but cats hate water, so maybe spray it with a water bottle or if u tug on the skin (lightly) on the back of its neck/head and give it a little shake--thats what their mothers do when they're little, i hear it works well

=) if all else fails, get it de-toothed lol thatd b mean..good luck!! xo`lexi

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I was wondering, where do your wisdom teeth come from? Are they on both top and bottom, or only on the top.. or the bottom?

wisdom teeth are on the top and the bottom (4 of them) in the very back of your mouth ; )

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my friend and i are gonna dye our hair with that non permanent stuff just for fun. OUr problem is we dont knwo what to do about our eyebrows. IS their any kind of non permanent dye for your eyebrows? or what do you suggest?

i used the nonpermanent hair dye on my eyebrows too..i got a little redness around my forhead but it went away after a couple hours and my eyebrows looked pretty natural.. you might want to read the warnings on the bottle first..just to be safe =)
xO`Lexi ♥

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How can you get rid of hickeys. and if you cant, how long does it usually take for them to go away?

if you're able to as soon as it happens, rub the hickey with warm water, however if you can't do it right away, then put a spoon in the freezer and apply it to the hickey..trust me they both work! ; ) xO`Lexi

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ok my parents tell me that they are there for me when ever i need them but when i get a bad grade or screw up they always YELL at me. I want to tell them that its one grade stop freaking out but they will get mad. What do i do???

hate to break it to ya..but ALL parents do that..yea if you need something ,they'll be there to back you up but if you do something wrong then nine out of ten you're going to get yelled at. they're not necessarily mad @ you, they just want you to do better.

maybe confront them and negociate ways to resolve your problems..like instead of "yelling" at you, ask them to talk about it in a mature way.

so sorry this took so long, my internets been down..xo`lexi

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what does rofl stand for

rolling on floor laughing =D xo`lexi

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what does it meen if a guy gives you beads? my cousin was all talking about how slutty these gurls were because they were sitting by their boyfriends with a whole bunch of beads around their necks. i didn't know but laughed along with her with no idea on what she was talking about. i know it must have somthing to do with sex but what? p.s. please don't delete!

lol if a guy gives you beads, it means you flashed them..haha its a tradition in marde gras..there's like competitions to see what girl can get the most beads(literally a beaded necklace) for flashin the most guys..xo`lexi

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Hi BALE N Johnny, my problem is that i have an unusually big dick and it constantly needs attention. I havnt got a gf but need sex asap.I cannot wank coz the warts on my dick will burst

lmao.. sorry too funny..

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hey can any1 tell me what song this is and who its by..

U feel so good
Rest of my life i wish i could
Hold u tight and take a flight out the hood
Was i foul or just misunderstood?
Mind-mannered or up to no-good
It really doesnt matter, either way i should
Maximize the moment and hold ya close

i tried to find out myself, but no luck..maybe ya'll could help ..thanx

the song is "Hush" and it's by LL COOL J

xo`lexi

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I go out wit this guy but i like another guy too i dont know what to do ???

ok first of all, when you have a b/f..you should NEVER ever have thoughts like that..or even like another guy..if you do, then maybe you should think about this..do you REALLY like your b/f..(if your thinking about another guy, then i'd say no) ..idk just my opinion. you should talk to your b/f & tell him exaclty how you feel, be fair to him. then until you can stay with him & not like other guys, i'd probably consider taking a break..see if you really have feeling for this other guy or your b/f..


Xo`lexi

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Anyone know any ways to fix short curly hair?

hey, you should be more specific when you say "fix"..but um if you want to "fix" the curls, as in get rid of them, then use a straightener. REVLON works great and is only about 25$..

if i'm not even close to what you're talkin bout, then drop one in my inbox and be more specific=)

xo`lexi

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on a minimum, how much are u supossed to drink daily?

you're suppose to have 8 glasses..but if you drink koolaids & stuff like that too, you'll be getting enough since water is in those..=)

xo`lexi

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My hair right now is a little past my shoulders and for me, it's long. I was thinking about growing it out longer to about the middle of my back and then cut it to a little past my chin and donate my hair to Locks of love. My question is, what is the minimum in inches of hair you can donate? Thanks for the help!

aw thats really nice of you..my grandma just got a wig from their, she had breast cancer..it has to be atleast 10 inches..again that's really sweet of u..u'll be so proud when you see the smiling face of sum1 who u helped make a wig for!! =)

xo`lexi

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I have short legs which look even more stumpy with my fat calves . i know i can't do anything about the length of my legs , but how do i get my calves smaller ?i don't wear skirts anymore ,cuz it's embarassing .my thighs are fine , but my calves are really rounded and fat . not muscular . FAT > please help !

spread ur legs apart, like even with your shoulders, and bend to one side as far as u can..u'll feel a tight pull in ur thigh, hold it for about 30 seconds then switch sides. so 12 rounds, 5 times a week!! trust me, u WILL notice a difference!! i did in like 2 weeks!! also doing squats help!! xo`lexi

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ok people at my school make fun of me and call me fat cuz im a size 3 n not a 1 like them. this makes me upset cuz i dont think im fat n people liek make me cry cuz their so mean to me. what shud i do?

oh my gosh! sweetie you're perfect! how in gods name could you even begin to call sum1 fat..who is a size THREE!! like holy frikin shit..lol i'm a size 5 and i'm nowhere near fat..like holly hell.. don't listen to them! in my opinion thats gross if you wear a size 1 or 0..like they're prolli just jealous of you because they're all bones! wtf?! lol make fun of them because they're TOOTHPICKS!! ..and hey..guys like more cushion for the pushin..if u kno wut i mean =)

lol so smile babe! ur fine..just ignore them..or knock em' around a few times..god knows they can't fight since they're frikkin twigs!!

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