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Hey Everyone! My name is Brittany! I love shopping and hanging out with friends! I'm currently an actress/model trying to make it in the business If you need to ask me anything, just ask! I'll be glad to help!

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hey! i have a quick ?.... me and my boyfriend have been together for a little while now and christmas is coming up and i need some gift ideas on what to get him, just name anything and everthing you can think of thanks!!!

You could get him colgne or maybe a nice outfit... Ask him some things he likes and then see if you can get it for him.. And if you can't, save up money so you can! or take him out to dinner or something... Or get him a hat... or if you're a creative person, make him something!! Hope I helped sweetie! Brittany

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Well Im a girl duhh and me and my boyfriend broke up and im about to date a hottie who he hates am I doing the right thing???? I know I am! haha Umm Can i say we all hate my ex boyfriend all i hope he becomes a girl soon because thats what he is really meant to be! he is a pussy! I love you Brittany G! Your my diol!

Well I think you are doing the right thing... Since we all know your ex boyfriend then I definitely think it is. You are still young.. It's time for you to go out and have fun! So don't worry about that loser. Remember that he has NEW girlfriend now and he needs to choose between you two. But whatever Date *The Hottie* cuz hes alot better and he doesn't look like a girl! :) I love you manuela V! lol Hope I helped

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i guess me and my ex boyfriend broke up i still really like him alot i might even go as far as saying i love him i was trying to stay away from him when he was at my friends house because he had tryed to hook up with my best friend the weekend before we talked he said he was trying to kiss her because it would piss me off and he wanted to make me mad because i was talking to his cousin i told him that i still like him and he said the reason he broke up with me was because things that were going on in his life at the time he said you know i love you and i told him not to say that because i feel strongly about that word and i believe that it is miss used alot i told him not to say it unless he ment and and he dosen't mean it so he dosen't need to say it all he had to say about that was that you dont knwo that i dont mean it we were in the car on the way home he said it again i told him to stop saying it my friend got pissed and said he does mean it you dont know he dosent and you love him to so shut up but at school he still majorly flirts with girls right in front of me i dont get it oh and to make this all better he has a gf but what should i do im head over heals for this guy to bad he dosen't feel the same sorry this is so long i Rate extreamly well thank you for your time whoever will take the time to read this and give me a little bit of help

Hey girl.. I'm in the same position right now. My ex-boyfriend always told me how much he loved me and everything, but he dumped me because he needed to get his life straight. Here's something about guys... To get over a past relationship, they date someone else. Maybe he really does love you and he doesn't know how to express it except by saying that he does love you. I mean guys are wierd when it comes to those words. If he said it, he must mean it a little. I mean if he really loved you, he would come back to you when he feels ready too. Guys at this age are just trying to have fun.. and when its time to settle down, they will. So don't worry about it. If he doesn't pay attention to you, then maybe you should go out and have fun for yourself. And if ya'll are meant for each other, then it will happen. All I can say is go have fun, there's no reason why you should worry yourself about a guy who only pays attention to you when there's no other girl to flirt with. So keep your head up and try other things. You never know... there might be something out there for you. Well, I hope I helped! Brittany

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i've known my best friend for almost two and a half years now, and i have some hilarious pictures and memories from the past bit. also some serious ones and all that. anyway, i want to somehow incorporate everything he and i have been through into some sort of gift to be able to give him at the end of high school (we're juniors right now). but i'm kind of blanking on good ideas. i want to make sure it can have all of our inside jokes and all that, and be something he can keep forever, you know? any help would be greatly appreciated!

I have a great idea!! Make a portfolio with all your pictures starting with the oldest to the most recent.. Get construction paper and make each one have different designs on them and put the pictures on there with the pictures going at different angles. Then put all the papers inside of those clear sheet things with holes punched in the sides( they are called sheet protectors.. you can find them at walgreens or wal-mart) Then at the end put a most recent picture there with the both of you.. and then put a friendship quote at the bottom.. Hope I helped and good luck!

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ok lets see if i can get this right lol...

-does he like me or does he like herr???
---is it me or is it her...or am i really her?
(sry i know this is long)


ok ..im 14/f and one of my best friends is 14/m..he doesnt go to my school...although lives in the district and i seem him here and there...hes been askin me how to ask a girl out..and i kept telling him to be himself..he just wont listen to me on that part advice...

he kepts telling me to put myself in that position..
- i said "no"
- he said "well its not hard 4 u ur a girl"
- i said "its hard 4 us as well..bc we have to turn down guys we dont like"..

i dk how to tell just to be himself..bc he doesnt want to listen to listen when he knows its true...

and he a few days ago he asked me "how do i ask a girl out and not get turned down??"..and im like idk its not something predictable...

-he goes to a private school..and i go to public school..so i have no clue who this girl is..if i did ..i would have asked her if she liked him..but i dk ....so im pointless at this point...-thx

P.S. i asked him way be4 that.."what would you say if i said i liked you" and he said "i dunno" and said well what would your 1st response be if i said i did and he said "u do?" and i said oooo..then he said something or w/e and i said you scare me sometimes and he didnt say anything for 2 mins and i said..."do you care that you do sometimes" and he said "yea"..and i said "how much?" and he said "______________________________________________________________________________"
and i said "ooohh"..then later on the other night on-line what this girls name is and
he said "marissa"

--- when we got into an little argument over what is harder being a girl or being a guy...and he said we have it easier..and when i said "no we dont bc we have to turn down guys who ask us out, i had to do it 5 times" and he said "w/ whoooo?"..like if he was affaird i was taken or something..ahh it drives me insane..-thx again

- i think i already hinted that i liked him...im just not suree if he is affaird to ask me out bc i said i rejected 5 guys-

Okay these kind of situations are ALWAYS confusing. Even though you keep telling him to be himself with a girl, he probably won't listen. There is a thing about guys and their listening capabilities! lol Well anyways, you should still talk to him. Get away from distractions and just try to talk to him. Try to avoid the phone and the internet. It's better to talk to someone in person, so go to the park or somewhere that would be quiet for the both of you.
Since you really don't have a clue to what he's talking about, address him with the subject. Ask him what he is trying to ask you. Tell him to be more specific. That way he'll tell you what he's trying to do and he won't even know that he's telling you! I know it's tough to actually talk to a guy, but you're going to have to do it sooner or later.
Guys are afraid of rejection, I mean who isn't? Usually when guys talk to you this way, they have some kind of feeling for you. Even though ya'll are best friends there could be something he has for you. So all I can say is talk to him. I know you have before, but this time don't let him leave with mixed signals. Maybe the more you talk, the more comfortable he is with you and maybe he will ask you out. If a guy gets enough courage and really wants to ask, he will. Hope this helped you! Tell me how everything goes! Brittany

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Me and my really good friend got in alot of fights and we used to be bestfriends for two years but things changed. We started fighting alot and she told me that she didn't want to be my friend anymore becuz we fight so much. When I think of all the fun times we had when we were friends I really miss being her friend but she also said some really mean things to me so sometimes I think maybe we shouldn't be friends. I've tried apologizing to her but she doesn't listen.What should I do??

Ok this may be hard, but enjoy your time away from your friend. This is a great time to make new ones and experience different things! Just wait it out and everything will fall into place afterwards. Believe me, when i read your story I thought I was reading a story about myself and the same problem I went through. So don't stress! Things will work out for the best. O yeah, and me and my friend are best friends again! so everything will go good. Good luck! Brittany

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im going out with this girl but nothing really seems the same from what we started outwith.who do i know if she still likes me? because i really like her. sometimes she acts cold she sometimes dosent want to talk to me and durring our conversations online i ask 2 many questions and she getts annoyed really fast and i think that she is starting to not like me bacouse woe used to talk every night she'd call me but now she dosent and i dont want to call her bacouse the past 2 weeks shes been really sick and i think that thats the problem can you help me and tell me if she is acting like that bacouse she is sick or beacouse she dont like me anymore

There could be many reasons why she is acting this way. If ya'll have been dating for a while, then the reason why she hasn't called you as much as she used to is because she might be comfortable with the relationship. Or maybe she has been really stressed out about things. The problem with most girls is that when we are stressed, we tend to not tell anyone about it. Also, if you ask too many questions, girls do get annoyed. Alot of girls don't like for people to know their personal business. So don't stress over it. Since she's really sick, you should do something great for her. Visit her, or call her out of the blue to see how she's doing. That'll liven her spirits and maybe help her get better quicker. So there's a possibility that she doesn't have interest in you, but there is other possibilities also. Don't be so paranoid. If she's with you, then she more than likely has interest in you. You just have to believe it for yourself. Also, since you're having these doubts, you should talk to her about what you feel and see what she says. Good luck! Brittany

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Ok well I go to a school where there is over 3,000 people. I'm a girl and I am 15 years old. I guess I am ok looking too. And whenever there is a hot guy who likes me i talk and flirt with them. So it's like no big deal. But after a week or so, sometimes not even a week, i start to get REALLY sick of the guy! To where if i even think about him i just want to throw up! I've never been in a serious relationship and everyone thinks of me as a hoe because i move from one guy to another! Is there something wrong with me?! I start out liking the person but after a while he just gets so old! And it is like this with EVERY guy! No matter how hard i try to be commited to someone it just does not work! So do you think you can give me advice on why i can not stick with one guy and be happy for once? Thanks a lot!

There's nothing wrong with you! Your still young and you want to be free. There's nothing wrong with that. If your friends call you a hoe, maybe its because they could never get as many guys as you can! There's a definition of a hoe and I haven't seen you describe yourself as one in your question. So don't worry. You'll grow older and want to settle down later, but right now.. just have fun and live each day. Tell me how everything goes! Brittany

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hey i know it's a little early..but this is when i usually do my xmas shopping..

ok..by christmas, my b/f and i will have been together for 3 & 1/2 months & i have no idea what to get him. he's black, he's into rap & football and stuff like that..a typical guy..but i'm never good with coming up wit something to get a guy so any suggestions would be great :)

thanx

Well instead of getting him something now... wait until Christmas. You might want to do something for him totally different. So wait until Christmas and then, ya'll might want to go out somewhere or just hang out. So wait, you never know what might come in the future. Hope i helped! Brittany

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My friend died her hair BLACK see i think it looks good but she doesn't..so does neone know how to get hair dye outta hair like..everyday home uses and stuff..like someone told us dishsoap..that didnt work to well but if neone knows then ples give me advice to help my friend thanx

Well if you know someone who is really good at doing hair, then go to walmart and get loreal hair dye that matches your friends old hair color. Be careful using it and make sure you read the directions carefully. After that she should be happy and not look any different. Be careful about the colors though. Make sure the colors matches almost perfectly. Or the roots will show dramatically! But if you get a pretty close color, you shouldn't be able to see it much. Good luck! Brittany

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Okay, I went on this pill, and it caused me to gain 12 pounds...*sigh* I've been on it several times before, and this is the only time it's caused a weight gain.
I'm 5'4"ish and I weigh 125 pounds. I don't know if I am overweight or not, but I feel like it. The thing is, I don't look it. I look like I weigh my old weight (113), but I FEEL heavy. I felt so much better at 113. It sucks, and it's really upsetting me 'cause I've always kind of had issues with weight...my dad's obese and I was overweight in 6th grade - like, this is what I weighed then, and I was overweight. I had just gotten comfy with my body when this happened...grr...
While it's good to know that I don't look overweight and my boyfriend can still lift me with one arm, the way I feel is still upsetting.
How long does it take for water weight to...go away? Is there anything I can do to fix this? I have a good diet, and I get excercise...or do I really just have to wait it out? My doctor said when I stopped the prednisone, the weight would kind of drop off, but I don't want to wait that long. Help me out, if you can.

Don't worry about it... I know how it feels to be overweight. I lost weight and im ok now. But ne ways, if your boyfriend likes you for you then there isn't anything wrong with you. If it is really bothering to you, then eat healthy and exercise. If the pill makes you gain weight, then try to balance out everything with exercise. Join a sport or go to the gym every week. That way you'll stay in shape! Well good luck and tell me how everything goes! Brittany

Well since you don't have time for the gym, at night do some crunches or something so that you can at least stregthen your muscles and tone you at least a little bit :)

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Alrite i know acting doesnt go along with music but you see, ive always wanted to be a singer...always been my dream acting is also another dream of mine...does anybody know how to get recognized by people within the music biz?? If it means anything I live in Tennessee and also near nashville but i dont want to sing country just not me! any suggestions?? :0\

Try to see if there are any drama theaters near you. That will give you experience in acting. Also, get singing lessons. Teachers know people. Also, it can get you recognized by the public. The business is very hard because im in the acting and modeling business. So all I can say is see if there are any acting or music scouts coming in your town. Since you live in Nashville, I'm pretty sure there are alot that go there, you just have to look. I live in georgia so I know how you feel about no wanting to sing country music. All you have to do is not sing country! :) That will let people know that you're not interested in that kind of music. Well I hope I helped! Good luck! Brittany

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I am not racest at all..but I have a problem..Okay well I have a really good friend..hes black..im white..I have liked him for about a month now..I really like him..hes all I think about! I found out a week ago that he liked me and wanted to go out with me..he even wrote the sweetest peom ever about me..I cant go out with him because my mom would flip if i went out with a black person..she just doesnt believe in black and white..and neither do some of my friends..It just wouldnt work..I really like this kid and I need to get over him! what should I do?! please help...

Okay, you don't need to get over him. All because your mom and your friends wouldn't like it doesn't mean you don't have to like an inter-racial relationship. Your on this earth to please yourself, and please others to an extent. If you really like him and he really likes you, then you should try it out. No matter how a person looks, that doesn't show who they are. My grandpa is white and he met my grandmother in Africa. Yea thats right, my grandfather married a Black woman. My grandfather's family at first didn't accept it, but then they grew used to it. So try it out. Talk to your mother about it. And remember, It doesn't matter if a person is black, white, green, or purple.. it matters about who they are. And your friends and family need to understand that. If they can't deal with it, tough.. You follow your heart, not their views. You are your own person. Good luck! Brittany

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Hi, my problem is this. I'am a 21 year old female from Australia. I've worked in numerous jobs ranging from a Hardware to a Chemist and at the moment i work at my local supermarket. At the moment i'am studying medical administration but i dislike it very much. I can't seem to hold down a job because i still don't know what to do for a future career. I dislike studying but i don't want to let my family down. Time is running out, financially i'am really poor and concerned about my future. Any suggestions would be appreciated.

Well since you keep bouncing from job to job, then that shows you have no interest for them.. Find something you absolutely LOVE to do. For instance, if you love to cook then you should go into cooking and maybe open a business. So find out what you love to do first, then go from there! Hope it helped! Brittany

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I'm a 15 year old girl. I am realy depressed like all the time. I moved to a new school and I'm finding it hard to make friends. My "friends" from my old school are not in my life anymore. I ended the friendship with my 2 "best friends" because they were just really horrible people. But I find that I am still really obsessed with them and miss them alot. They are both on my mind all the time. The thing is if I went back to them and they forgave me, well they were just so horrible when I was friends with them. (i.e.- they would hook up with the guys I was hooking up with and made it look like I was the bad person because I got upset over it) I don't know what to do. Please help!

I can relate really well to you! Don't worry about it too much! Thats what keeps you depressed! Try getting into school clubs! Those are places you can make friends at! Don't be shy! You have to get out there! You can join city teams like recreational sports or something! Get involved and you'll meet plenty of people! Those "Friends" aren't worth your time. I mean if you really care about them, talk to them about it. Don't keep it bottled up inside, that only causes to you to get more depressed and then soon you'll explode. So talk it out with them. If they continue to do it, then you should end the friendship. You talking it out maturely shows how much of a better person you are. So don't fret! Keep your head up to the sky... Hope it helped! Brittany

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hey ..ok i'm a 15 yr old female in high school.
me and a bunch of my friends decided we were going to dress up and go trick or treating..yea we're a lil old (15yrs-18yr olds) but we dont care, we just want to dress up & have fun with it. anyways..any cute ideas for costumes? like maybe something all of us could be together? like for example some1 said a cheerleading squad..or a football team..

thanx in advance =)

Hey! Your never too old to have fun! :) Well ne ways! My friends are going to be cavemen or fairies! haha! Or you could be a cast from a movie like Aladdin or Finding Nemo! If you have a boyfriend, you could be a couple kind of thing, like beauty and the beast! lol well I hope I helped! If you need more advice, feel free to ask! Brittany

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I saw this guy that I dated 4 years ago when I was in 8th grade, now I'm a senior in highschol.....we've been talking since and after all that time we saw each other again the other day, he didn't want 2 start the relationship again because of the distance between us....when I saw him yesterday we hung out than kissed but he pulled back and said it would be 2hard 2 handle a long distance relationship....well about 15 min before I went upstairs 2 my apartment he grabbed me and we kissed on and off a lot....and he said he'd promise 2 see me again very soon....I'm so confused and I just wish I knew what he wanted......What do I do??

Do you really like him?! From what I see, ya'll still have feelings for each other. I know its long distance, but you never know when you might get a chance with him again! This could be a sign that you 2 need to be together! Talk to him about the situation. Take a risk and try it out! You never know what might come out of it! Good luck! Brittany

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Ok, there's this guy that likes me and I don't know if I like him or not so I haven't given him an answer yet.But now my friends seem like they are annoyed with me only because I still haven't given him an answer..they hardly call me anymore and they seem mad whenever I am around them!I am so confused, I have no idea what to do!

You need to tell your friends to back off. If you don't like him, then they should respect your answer if they are really yours friends. Talk to them about it. They shouldn't be able to tell you who to like or not. If they continue to bother you, then tell them an answer. If the guy is nice, then see if you can be better friends then go from there. If you really don't like him, then tell your friends that. Good luck! Brittany

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Okay me and my best friend whitney love to sing we sing all the time but we've never sang in public or anything. we wrote a song one night and we made a tune to it and we sing it all the time now we sang it to our moms and they loved it my mom started crying and we really think that its a good song. We're really scared of what people might think of us we, sing really good and stuff but maybe other people won't think so we really want to become singers. we don't know what to do though like where to go to or anything.
please help im sorry its long. (btw we live in west virginia) thank you! =] I rate.

Well what I have to say is, if you want to be heard, then make yourself heard. Your young and from what I read, talented! So audition for a school talent show! If a modeling scout goes to your town, then try it out! They might be looking for not just actors and models, but singers too! I know how it is trying to be seen by the public.. I'm in the modeling business and im in a hole right now! So get out there! Try doing small crowds like at church if you go or maybe your little cousins' birthday parties or something! That way your more comfortable with yourself. There's no other way to go except up! Good Luck! Brittany

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okay hurr it goes i went out with this guy over the summer for like a month and a half and i truley believed i loved him then he cheated on meh and broke up with me for my best friend. Well they are broken up now but i still love this guy but he hates me now n i really dnt know why but i kant get him out of my mind i love him sooo muchh and i want to be back in his arms sooo bad wut should i do?

Okay! I know how it feels to be cheated on! Ya'll we're only together for a month! I was with this guy almost half a year when he cheated on me! I know its hard to get over him... The best way to try, is to go out with friends and have fun! Thats what I did! Then, I met this guy and we've been together for 5 months! So there's someone out there for you. Keep that in mind! Forget about the loser! Theres better things for you to waste your time on! So keep your head up to the sky honey! O yeah, I hope that girl isn't your friend ne more! Shes not worth your time either! Your so much better than them! Well I hope it helped! Brittany

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