|
i need advice i just don't know what to do
i guess me and my ex boyfriend broke up i still really like him alot i might even go as far as saying i love him i was trying to stay away from him when he was at my friends house because he had tryed to hook up with my best friend the weekend before we talked he said he was trying to kiss her because it would piss me off and he wanted to make me mad because i was talking to his cousin i told him that i still like him and he said the reason he broke up with me was because things that were going on in his life at the time he said you know i love you and i told him not to say that because i feel strongly about that word and i believe that it is miss used alot i told him not to say it unless he ment and and he dosen't mean it so he dosen't need to say it all he had to say about that was that you dont knwo that i dont mean it we were in the car on the way home he said it again i told him to stop saying it my friend got pissed and said he does mean it you dont know he dosent and you love him to so shut up but at school he still majorly flirts with girls right in front of me i dont get it oh and to make this all better he has a gf but what should i do im head over heals for this guy to bad he dosen't feel the same sorry this is so long i Rate extreamly well thank you for your time whoever will take the time to read this and give me a little bit of help
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
just want to clarify to see if i got it right, he told you he loved you while he has a girlfriend?
hon... you can't trust him to be a good boyfriend to you. look at how he's treating this other girl he's dating: he tried to kiss another girl and told you he loved you. i think you're really smart for not wanting to use "love" unless you know that you mean it... but i have to agree with you, he doesn't seem sincere. if he broke up with you because of things that were going on in his life, what's he doing with another girl? shouldn't he have waited until things were better to be with you again? and why's he trying to get you mad by kissing someone else if he loves you?
he's playing you sweetie, let him go, there's a much better guy out there for you just waiting to be found.
]
Hey girl.. I'm in the same position right now. My ex-boyfriend always told me how much he loved me and everything, but he dumped me because he needed to get his life straight. Here's something about guys... To get over a past relationship, they date someone else. Maybe he really does love you and he doesn't know how to express it except by saying that he does love you. I mean guys are wierd when it comes to those words. If he said it, he must mean it a little. I mean if he really loved you, he would come back to you when he feels ready too. Guys at this age are just trying to have fun.. and when its time to settle down, they will. So don't worry about it. If he doesn't pay attention to you, then maybe you should go out and have fun for yourself. And if ya'll are meant for each other, then it will happen. All I can say is go have fun, there's no reason why you should worry yourself about a guy who only pays attention to you when there's no other girl to flirt with. So keep your head up and try other things. You never know... there might be something out there for you. Well, I hope I helped! Brittany
]
I've been in ur position and u just need to talk to him about it. Tell him that if he loves u then he needs to show it instead of saying it cuz that makes u believe it a whole lot more. I do believe that he likes u but hes just tryin to get over u by goin out with other gurls (i've done that before) because with u telling him that he doesnt love u makes him thinkin that u just dont wanna say it back... so just talk to him about it and tell him that u still love him and if he still loves u like he says he does he'll come back to u and u guys can be perfect again :) good luck babe!
]
your right, if he did love you he would not of breaken up with you. Because "he has things going on in his life" is the stupid reason to break up. And he's an ass for trying to kiss your friend. AYou need to move on from him and get someone else. He already has. Good luck. xoxo
]
More Questions: |