Hey everybody! I'm sarah and im 14 years old! I've been through a lot in my life so i usualy know what kind of advice to give cuz i can usualy relate to it. So if u have any problems you can ask me and ill try my best to give u the best advice i can! I love giving advice and making peoples lives better so ask away! u can ask anything you want! Thanx ya'll!!
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ok my boyfrend broke up wiht me a couple months ago and we were going out for like 5 months and i have never gotten over him and its like he has gotten a girlfrend and then they brok up a while ago and then he got another girlfrend and he broek up wiht her and now he has a girlfrwend and they have all cutt over him- ( and so have i ) but its like i really really love him people are alwasy tellin me to get over him im too young to be in love but ok i think i really love him and i cant get over him and i really dont want to- i dont kno wutt to do and i need help lik ive told him ive loved him and now hes just lik nice to me sometimes and mean to me sometimes, I DONT KNO WUTT TO DO! please help me, i love him more thne anything and i sreiously would die over him, im up to doing anything to get him back and my sn is i lov boys699 `s0 if you have any ideas please help me !
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Just talk to him more and become better friends with him so that he gets to know you even better. Normally when a guy goes out with a girl there are certain things he likes about her. So get to know him better again and then he'll realize why he liked you so much. If you guys went out for 5 months then that shouldn't be hard for him. I know what you're going through because i went through the same thing... and kind of still am so just talk to him more and try to hang out so that you can get closer and then when him and his girlfriend break up then you'll most likely be the one he likes! and just for some advice don't cut over guys it's really not worth it... i use to and i regret it so much now because when they find out it's because of them they like never talk to you again! Just be careful okay hun! Don't take things to seriously and don't let any one tell you how old you have to be to love someone because they don't know your feeling! good luck and if u need any thing im always here!
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here it goes: i like this guy and i think he knows and 2 of my friends say that he likes me back... but theyre just guessing anyways i dont thin so.. anyways...he was talking to me on the internet for like 2 weeks constantly and then for some reason he just ignored me and wouldnt talk to me, but like in school hed look over sometimes and um then he came and sat by me when there were plenty of seats to sit down at.. and he chose to sit down next to me... im confused and i dont know whats goin on? any ideas (link)
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Just pretty much ask him about it... ask him wuts goin on if he likes u or not cuz u dnt need him to be playin games like that... just tell him flat out how u feel n if he doesnt care forget about him! u can obviously do better if hes gunna play lil kid games! good luck!
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ok, so i dont think im ugly, but i know im definitely not gorgeous, and when i get compliments on my body or anything else from guys, i don't know how to respond. I've had self-esteem issues and when i hear these compliments, im glad someone thinks of me that way, but i dont wanna sound like "OMG! Im hot shit.." How do i respond to these compliments without sounding like im hot shit or end up rejecting them? (link)
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Usually when ppl say stuff like that to me i just say thanx or give them a really weird look like r u sure ur looking at me? lol i have a really bad delf-esteem too so wen ever ne 1 says stuff to me like that im kinda like umm no! but then they get mad at me so i just started sayin thanx n smiling at them or bn like not better than u look lol u kno stuff like that to make them feel good to!
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i guess me and my ex boyfriend broke up i still really like him alot i might even go as far as saying i love him i was trying to stay away from him when he was at my friends house because he had tryed to hook up with my best friend the weekend before we talked he said he was trying to kiss her because it would piss me off and he wanted to make me mad because i was talking to his cousin i told him that i still like him and he said the reason he broke up with me was because things that were going on in his life at the time he said you know i love you and i told him not to say that because i feel strongly about that word and i believe that it is miss used alot i told him not to say it unless he ment and and he dosen't mean it so he dosen't need to say it all he had to say about that was that you dont knwo that i dont mean it we were in the car on the way home he said it again i told him to stop saying it my friend got pissed and said he does mean it you dont know he dosent and you love him to so shut up but at school he still majorly flirts with girls right in front of me i dont get it oh and to make this all better he has a gf but what should i do im head over heals for this guy to bad he dosen't feel the same sorry this is so long i Rate extreamly well thank you for your time whoever will take the time to read this and give me a little bit of help (link)
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I've been in ur position and u just need to talk to him about it. Tell him that if he loves u then he needs to show it instead of saying it cuz that makes u believe it a whole lot more. I do believe that he likes u but hes just tryin to get over u by goin out with other gurls (i've done that before) because with u telling him that he doesnt love u makes him thinkin that u just dont wanna say it back... so just talk to him about it and tell him that u still love him and if he still loves u like he says he does he'll come back to u and u guys can be perfect again :) good luck babe!
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ok well Im going out with this guy named Shane and he's sweet and eerything , but he gets jealous very easy, like when a guy well lets just call him Chris, talked to me he got all up in his face!!, I truely love him but he can get jealous really easy and now I told him that I can talk to guys and he dosent understand!! he's 15 and so am I but what do I do ?? (link)
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When guys like u alot they get jealous really easily! He's not tryin to make u feel like u have to do everything he says he just wants to let u kno how much he likes u! I think thats so cute when guys get jealous... i kno that it can get annoying sumtimes but u kno that if he was talkin to another gurl n u thought he liked her ud go up n say sumthin or just go up n talk to him lol i kno i would. It's just showing that u guys care for eachother... just tell him to trust u and that ud never do ne thing to hurt him n that u love him and he'll understand! believe me
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Darrel, this guy I like, likes me back. Except...he's black, and I'm white. And my mom has already told me that she wouldn't support me if I were to date a black guy. Not because she's racist, but because of the "problems" it causes, and everyone will look at you differently. But she isn't going to forbid me from doing it, because she knows that I have to do what's right for me, not for her. And anyway, I think that the things that go along with dating a black person kind of are problems - other black guys will look at you and think, oh, she's into black guys, and other white people will look at you differently, and if they don't know Darrel they won't know what a sweet, funny, smart guy he is, and how he wouldn't ever get mixed up in the wrong crowd. But I think I might really like him. And it's wrong not to date someone just because they're black - that's racism! I guess what I'm trying to say is, I need some comfort and someone telling me what the right thing to do is, lol! Sorry about the long story, but I rate! (Oh, and I'm 14/f, by the way.) (link)
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My past 4 boyfriends have been black and im white. I thought i would have the same problems u think ur going to have but then i finnaly was like screw wut other ppl think because i really liked him. When we started goin out nothing really changed. The other black guys we're just like oh shes kewl n all this stuff n the white people we're just like aw their cute together... so there's absolutly nothing wrong with goin out with sum 1 of a different race... no 1 will judge u and if they do screw them because thats their problems not yours! so go for it gurl if u like him that much! dnt think ne think of it as any differently than goin out with a white guy :) good luck
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