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I can't get serious with anyone!
Ok well I go to a school where there is over 3,000 people. I'm a girl and I am 15 years old. I guess I am ok looking too. And whenever there is a hot guy who likes me i talk and flirt with them. So it's like no big deal. But after a week or so, sometimes not even a week, i start to get REALLY sick of the guy! To where if i even think about him i just want to throw up! I've never been in a serious relationship and everyone thinks of me as a hoe because i move from one guy to another! Is there something wrong with me?! I start out liking the person but after a while he just gets so old! And it is like this with EVERY guy! No matter how hard i try to be commited to someone it just does not work! So do you think you can give me advice on why i can not stick with one guy and be happy for once? Thanks a lot!
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Lol! Well, I really have no advice for that, but I can let you know that you are not alone. I get that way too around guys, though it's usually not to the point where I get ill at the mere mention of the guy's name.
It seems to me that after I think I like a guy, for whatever reason, maybe after I get to know him, he didn't quite measure up to my standards. I'm still friends with a lot of guys that I used to sort of like, and no one thinks I'm a whore or anything. I have only had one serious beoyfriend, and that lasted for about a month until, as you said, I got sick of him. The things I once found endearing bugged the hell out of me.
You can only keep searching and hope for the best, so I wish you luck.
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Yeah, I kinda had the same thing going on for quite a while. My girlfriends in 8th and 9th grades, I eventually just got tired of. Burned myself out, I guess. So for the rest of 9th and all of 10th, I just fooled around a bit. There were a few people I remember having "intimate relations" with that never went beyond that. I thought I was going to be like that for a very long time. And I probably would have been right, had I not met...HER.
Early in my Junior year I met the girl I still love today. So I guess it's safe to say I had never found the right one, that was all. No, you're not a ho. (Notice the spelling. There is no e. You're not a hoe either, because that would make you a gardening tool.) So, you might as well stay as you are until you can find someone who makes you think differently. And you will. Everyone does. Even that really creepy homeless guy who lives under the bridge and dances like a monkey for food will find "the one".
And the thought of some people finding "the one" and breeding scares the life out of me.
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Well i dont think your ready for a serious relationship. Your not a hoe for what you do, you just like to move on to many people. There really isnt anything wrong with that. Just wait there will be a guy who comes along and wont make you feel that way. But time will tell what will happen. So give it time, Im sure you will find that special someone soon.
Hope this helps~Stephanie
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Its all on you hunni,
you jsut can't find that RIGHT guy, you have your options wide open, thers 100000000 guys out there and your just llookin alot of girls do that, just before they ask you out or before you actually start thinkin about liken them, REALLY think about it so youi don't mess up
<3 lots of love
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There's nothing wrong with you! Your still young and you want to be free. There's nothing wrong with that. If your friends call you a hoe, maybe its because they could never get as many guys as you can! There's a definition of a hoe and I haven't seen you describe yourself as one in your question. So don't worry. You'll grow older and want to settle down later, but right now.. just have fun and live each day. Tell me how everything goes! Brittany
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