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My name is Stephanie. I'm called Blondie, because well im such a blonde! I have Hazel eyes, im 13, born on July 10, 1991. Also, I'm 5'2, im a female, i live in Ohio, and sadly im very single:(! I love to play basketball, Tennis, vollyball, baseball, sleep, day dream, hang wit friends, shop, and so0o0o much more!!! I go to GMS. GO PREXIES!!! TA DA!!! Thats some about me!!!

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i am the girl that said she was anarexic for six months and was 5'8 and 13 years old... i now weigh 120 pounds cuz i checked into a hospital and they made me gain ALOT of weight... is 120 to fat for a 5'8 13 yr old? my doctor said that that is how much im suppost to weigh since im so tall... but is that still to much?

Oh no thats not fat at all! Im 5'2 130. So your very good right now. So dont be worrying about your weight because you have nothing to worry about!
~Hope this Helps*Stephanie

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Hey!
My crush knows I like him, ok. And he has been VERY 'buddy-buddy' with me. I'm going to ask him out, but I dont know it is flirting or what? How can I tell?
Tankie
*Meli

You really cant tell. Its hard. You just have to go for it. Ask him out and see what happens. I mean the worst that can happen is him sayin no and then you can get over him and find someone else. Easy.
~Hope this Helps*Stephanie

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ok there is this guy at my middle school and he gives me and my friends hugs like all the time but he always wants to give me the first&last hug do you guys think he is dropping hints?

Actually not really. He may just like you best as a friend. But other than that no.
~Hope this helps*Stephanie

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I am a 13 year old girl. I have a really good guy friend who is also 13. i am starting to develop stronger feelings for him everyday. I drop hints alot, but he just acts like nothing happened most of time. Other times he will flirt back. A few days ago he put his arm around my waist but I don't know if it was a friendly gesture, or if its because he likes me. We have a really close friendship and don't want to ruin that. Should I keep on flirting, or just be firends? If he does like me, what are the hints I should be looking for?

Well Its hard to develop feelings for friends because its hard to tell if they feel the same. But your best bet is to just bring it up. But you dont have to be too obvious about it just be like "What would happen if we were together?" or "Have you ever even thought about us being even closer that friends?". And the arm around the waist thing i would think its just a friendly gesture because me and my guy friends do more than that but I aint even close to likeing them and they probly dont like me either that way. And if you two do get together if you find he does like you and you break up at some point, it could really ruin this great friendship you explain. So you have lots to think about. Is it worth even working for if you two may not be friends anymore. And hints to see if he does like you are very hard to find since your good friends, so your best bet is to hint around about it and maybe you will find out.
~Hope this helps*Stephanie

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I have had my Shih Tzu for 1 year and one month got him when he was 3 months old. My problem is he is very difficult to potty train,,,sometimes he has accidents in the house, can't figure out why at his age he does, being I thought he was potty trained he goes for long periods without doing anything, then out of the blue he messes in the house..Can someone help me please???

Potty training is very hard, and not everyone has the money to get pets trained professionally. But to do it yourself you have to give it time and have patience. But just take him outside like every hour or 2 or however much he goes and then eventually he will get the point but like i said it will take time.
~Hope this helps*Stephanie

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I'm 13/f, and I've been really sad lately. I'm in 8th grade, and for a while I had a lot of excitement in my life; I had my bat mitzvah during the summer, and I've been feeling that my life has been dull. I had been sad about my friends and guys, sad in general, especially at night. One night, I got so sad I cut myself...
I'm feeling depressed and I don't know what to do:(
-what do i do?-
*depressed

I have went through the same thing for 3 months straight. I felt i wasnt needed, and all this. But I talked to my mom and she sent me to the therapist. That helped for me but may not for some people. I just suggest you talk to someone you love and trust. They will help you out i know it. And about the cutting thing, its not the answer but i shouldnt be talkin when i do it myself but if your not addicted to it yet then just stop. It isnt going to help you in the long run if you cut. But even if you are addicted talk to someone like i said before and get help. I know, 13 year olds shouldnt be goin throught this but unfourtunally we do so I am here for you if need help any time.
~Hope this helps*Stephanie

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ok my I dumped my boyfriend a couple of weeks ago and now i really like him but he acts weird he flirts with me one minuite then round his friends he doesn't wanna know me but I think he still likes me but he keeps saying he's got his other girlfriend pregnant and I'm sick of hearng iit because I think he's lying what should I do I'm really confused please help me

If he is playing his little game like that then i suggest you just forget about him. He aint worth it. He must not really like you if hes saying all this. Believe me you be better off without him. Its his lose not yours.
~Hope this helps*Stephanie

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okay im about 125 lbs n i dont think im a fatty or anything but how can i lose wieght quickly and tone my body?

Well cant tell you much but to eat right and eat less and work out! But stay healthy!
~Hope this helps*Stephanie

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If I start exercising almost every morning for 30-60 minutes by walking and I start doing Pilates and also start eating healthy, how long do you think it will take to lose some weight and get skinnier? Thanks!! :)

Well it depends on how much you weigh now. if you are very overweight, you actually lose lots more in a week then someone who only wants to lose 5 lbs. So I really cant tell how much and how long so just do your best and i bet you will notice a change in 1 or 2!!!
~Hope this helps*Stephanie

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i'm somewhat flat chested, but i have great legs. how can i take all the notice off my chest (or lack thereof) and refocus it on my legs without being thought of as a skank?

Well always wear great pants and not shirts that would make you look there(shimmery and glittery). Sorry i dont have much to give.
~Hope this helps*Stephanie

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what are some good eyeshadow colors for someone with green eyes?

Well if you have green eyes i have read that you should go with your light baby colors like purple and pinks.
~Hope this helps*Stephanie

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I have a livestrong bracelet...one of the yellow ones, but i was wondering if any of you knew where to find the pink and/or blue ones?

Yea there are pink and blue ones. I have a Pink one and i see people with the blue ones.
~Hope this helps*Stephanie

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Ok, my friend had been having a tough time, and I was wondering if any one knew any cute, memorable, and short little quotes or sayings I could tell her to brighten her days? Please help, I hate to see her sad and love to see her smile! I will give a 5 if it makes her smile!

Alright to make her at least smle you should do something sweet like put a little note in her locker that says something like:
Friends help you when you Fall,
but best friends laugh their
ass off and trip you again.
~Hope this helps*Stephanie

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Hey, I have a gf, and she says she loves me, and we have been going out for about a week. The only times she says "I love you" is on the computer. I even say it when we are in person and she doesn't say it back... she has told me her feelings and she says she really loves me, and she is like crazy about me, but my question is: How come she won't say it back?

She must be really shy about it. Obviously she must mean if she is gonna tell you on the nternet but she just dpesnt want to say it to your face because there 3 hard word to say to a person. Im never able to say it to the people i love either. But give her time she will get it out eventually.
~Hoep this helps*Stephanie

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I cut myself. I've been cutting for about half a year. I've never had a problem hiding it or anything. Just recently I've been trying to stop. I know its bad. My problem is that I have P.E. starting 2nd semester (in January) and I don't know how to hide the scars (I'm going to have it 2nd period if it helps). My parents don't know, and I don't want them to know either. We have to wear uniforms so I don't know how I'm gonna pull this off. Also, bracelets and jewelry aren't allowed. Any ideas? Thank you.

Well i understand the fact of tryin to hide things because i go through it also. But i have stop because a few of my friends have found the cuts and they aint to happy with me. They begged me to stop and i have for the most part. But i have been doing something else. I found a new area to cut. But im not sayin thats what you should do. You need to tell someone, you need help. I dont know what much to say but to try to stop.
~Hope this helps*Stephanie

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Aight... There is this girl that i am extremely attracted to... We have similar intrests, we go to the same school....But i dont think she is interested as i am.. I mean i know she is cool with me and im cool with her i just want to Up it... What the hell shall i do?

Well does she know you want to take things to the next level. Because I'm sorry, i know it would be easier if we could read minds but it dont work that way. So tell her how you feel and ask if she feels that way too. If you are to nervous to do that then ask one of her friends to ask her.
~Hope this helps*Stephanie

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i've been really fed up with everyone -- for no reason at all. i can barely stand one of my best friends and i have the urge to scream at my family all the time for the smallest things. i'm not a bxtch or anything, and i'm not pmsing. i've also felt really anxious lately. and i have gotten two white hairs in the past few months, and i'm just a teenager. does anyone know what the frick is going on? thanks.

Well i went through a long period of having every little person getting on my nerves but i think in your postion its worse. I suggest that you talk to your mom and see a therapist. Thats what I done. im sorry i cant give you much more but just know a lot of people go through things and it aint just you.
~Hope this helps*Stephanie

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ok i have a rash on my back, it has little red bumps going all down my spine.. its really ichy and really red! im really scared because i dont know what it is!! PLEASE HELP ME IM SO SCARED!!!!!!
Thanks so much for all y'all who can help!
*mar*

Well i cant tell you what it is but you should tell your mom imediantly and see what she says. If she don't know then you should see a doctor. Don't be scared it could be maybe a sweat rash if your playing some sports or maybe that its just a little to hot at school. But dont be scared and talk to your mom A.S.A.P.
~Hope this helps*Stephanie

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I'm a okay ice-skater , and recently , i met ( well , not really ) this guy at the rink . He's really good , and he's an ice hockey player . I've not really talked to him before besides this one time when we collided , and we exchanged apologies and stuff .Well, i think i have a crush on him cuz i can't get him out of my head ... He's usually , ( but not always ) with his friends , and i want to know how to approach him . Any suggestions ? i rate high !!

please help , thanks ... =)

If you do think you have a crush on him then you shouldn't care if his friends are there just go up to him say i want to talk to you and then go somewhere private as possible. And just tell him. And if he doesnt feel the same way dont feel bad there are so0o0o many other fish in the sea. But good luck!~Hope this helps*Stephanie

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my parents are getting a divorce and when i go to court on the 16th i have to choose who i want to live with. I dont know who i want to live with, i want to stay with both of them but that cant happen. i told them i dont want to choose but since im over 13 (im 16) i have to. I dont want to hurt either of them or have them pissed at me. what should i do?

Well i live with my mom it was no choice for me. I either live with my dad and his gf (who i hated (disliked greatly)) So it was kinda obvious. But you have to think about it a little if you give me a little more info on the situation maybe i could help you more. Like do you have a crazy mom or a crazy dad then live with the non crazy parent but since i dont know anything about them your gonna have to think about it and decide when your parents raised you who was more there for you, who didnt make you go nuts about something, i dont know but you hav to think about these things. Im sorry i couldnt help you out a little more.
~Hope this helps*Stephanie

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