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okay hurr it goes i went out with this guy over the summer for like a month and a half and i truley believed i loved him then he cheated on meh and broke up with me for my best friend. Well they are broken up now but i still love this guy but he hates me now n i really dnt know why but i kant get him out of my mind i love him sooo muchh and i want to be back in his arms sooo bad wut should i do?
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the guy's an ass.. your friend shouldn't have done that if she was a true freind.. especially if she knew how much you like him.
he's seriously a loser.. i bet he's mad at you b/c he thinks you were the reason they broke up or something.. the only thing that can help or i can suggest to you is to take it day by day.. these kind of things don't go away in a second like a miracle.. they take a while to ease itself into a scar instead of an open wound. hope i helped
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You must feel bad. I know you probly love him still, but you just havnt got through your head that he cheated on you and he isnt the best person to be with. Just look around, find new people. You will eventually find someone who will be sooooo great that your mind will be on him and not the cheating boyfriend. But if you like to give him another chance i would understand but it sounds as though he wont. Give it time, you will find someone. Cant wait? Then do things all the time to get him of your mind. Go shopping, be with your friends, read a book, go to the movies, workout, do what ever you can to get him off your mind. I would also talk to someone you really trust, like a parent or guardian, to talk to about this more. Find someone who knows you very well. They may give you more ideas to do what you like.
Hope this helped~Stephanie
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Okay! I know how it feels to be cheated on! Ya'll we're only together for a month! I was with this guy almost half a year when he cheated on me! I know its hard to get over him... The best way to try, is to go out with friends and have fun! Thats what I did! Then, I met this guy and we've been together for 5 months! So there's someone out there for you. Keep that in mind! Forget about the loser! Theres better things for you to waste your time on! So keep your head up to the sky honey! O yeah, I hope that girl isn't your friend ne more! Shes not worth your time either! Your so much better than them! Well I hope it helped! Brittany
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i didn't read your question... because it started off with "okay hurr"... fucking lunatic.
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Well you are obviously way too good for him! i know it's hard to get over someone you LOVED but u will soon and who knows you could find someone even better...just be patient!;) hhope i helped
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ok i dont want to make this too long here goes... well i know what its like to be in love and miss someone so much. I fell in love with my french exchange partner and now he is gone i feel hollow empty and depressed. But anyway time is the thing which is going to heal this one! The thing to think about is that he isn't the right one for you. If he hates you (Which actually i dont think he would HATE you!)then it wasnt ment to be. Something good will come out of this i PROMISE. To get him out of your head you could write to him, or about him. If you wrote him a letter it would get all the thoughts out of your head. even of you don't send it to him it will make you feel better. Crying sometimes makes you feel better too even though it sounds mad. Lean on your friends for support or you could email me if you want xpinklickinx@hotmail.com and i can talk to you. I know what your going through!
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Hey! Well i feel stupid sayin this, but i can relate to u!*lol* The word "Love" is thrown around these daes, ask yourself this, do i care for him this much? What does he have that the other guys don't have? why does he mean so much to me, would i die for him? the reason why i'm sayin ask yourslef these Q's so dat to see if u "Love" him! I kno u hate this, but it takes time! Everything happens for a reason...if u care for him as much as i think u do, then u'll be happy for whatever's goin on for him! Me N muh Ex. broke up, but we haven't dated anyone, but he likes one of muh best friends, which sucks major time! But i'm sayin i can't control dat, N if it makes him happy N her too, then i guess whatever floats their boat! I wish i can be in his arms again, but just try your best to be friends, don't throw yourself for a guy! Try to experiment with other guys, i did, I still think bout muh Ex. but i try to move on, it's hard! u'll get better! to summorize this long "paragraph" talk to other ppl, try new things, hang out wit your friends((that means guy friends too))*lol* I hope i helped U, if u need anything else then feel free to drop it by in my box! Tell me how things go, Best Wishes! Take care
-Phuong
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I know u wanna get bak wit him, and its alrite. But u cant take that crap frum him. He shud have neva cheated on u in the first place. I dont see why he hates u, it shud be the otha way around. My advice is that u jus temperarily let him go. Forget about him for a while, and he'll start thinking about u. He'll soon start considering wat would've happened if he neva did that. This may be hard, but dont cum to him. Let him cum to u. And if he doesnt, he's not worth it.
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It takes time, but you need to move on. Focus on liking other guys at your school and stuff. You'll be over him soon..Just takes time!
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