Hey im Holly and im 13 and from the UK i'm not the oldest or most experienced but i think i give great advice and if you contact me then i promise you i can solve your problem or at least give you the email, number, web address e.t.c of someone who can. My answers are quite detailed and your always welcome to email me. Thanks.
E-mail: xpinklickinx@hotmail.com
Location: UK
Member Since: October 10, 2004
Answers: 3
Last Update: October 11, 2004
Visitors: 800
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ok im having trouble attracting boys, i have brown hair brown eyes and glasses, my skin is a light tan, im not sure what kind of makup and hair styles to use but what im doing now is not working. do anyof you have ideas on attracting guys? please help thanks a lot
**hailey**
oh ya im 14/f (link)
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Ok well if your into attracting guys who are just into you for just your looks then the kind of guy your going to get won't be the one that you deserve. Sure looks is what first draws you in but personality is also really important. You could try maybe being a bit flirty but not toooo FLIRTY. Try standing close to the boys your interested in and somehow get there mobile number. If you know them well enough send them a text like "Whats up?" Or something like that. If they text you back then your on to something. You could also try meeting up in a big gang so that theres always someone to talk to and something to do. Laugh at there jokes and SMILE not a full grin just a sort of sexy smile. Ask them about there favourite football team or what was on TV last night blah blah it sounds boring but they are good conversation starters. Another thing that attracts guys is when you look like your having fun. If your looking moody and standing in the corner then they are much less likley to notice you. You can also ask them for help with your work or ask them if they need any help and maybe even end up as study partners. ok you asked for advice on LOOKS so here goes. Well you will probably have to wear school uniform but if you don't or if you go out at weekends and stuff then listen up. Ok Jeans are good FITTED jeans with some kind of cool trainers and a tight t-shirt or vest top kind of thing is a good look for if your at school or shopping or at a football match or something. Try and wear a bright colour somewhere even if its just the writing on your top or a bangle on your wrist but DONT go over the top unless its fancy dress or something. For a party a skirt, heels and a cool top would look GREAT but dont be TOO revealing. For your hair straightning would look good and make sure to wash it every other day. Brown hair is gorgeous but if you want highlights then get them done properly and they will look great. For bad hair days just scoop your hair into a pony tail with a simple band and have small strands hanging down your face. Layers are also a good look. For make up keep it simple with eye liner, mascara, clear lipgloss and maybe a bit of blush or bronzer. If you have any other problems or feel i havn't answerd your question clearly enough then please email me on xpinklickinx@hotmail.com i hope i have helped. Thanks holly
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ok, i have been with this guy for a while, and we have only kissed once recently...and i really think i love him. he's on my mind all the time, everytime i hear his name my heart skips a beat, everytiem i see him, no matter how bad i feel, i feel instantly happy about everythign. we support each other in everythign, btu i have had friends tell me it is not true love...does anyone have any ways to tell real love from puppy love? i really dont know what to do, and i want to tell him how i feel, but i dont want to if it isnt real love. HELP ME PLEASE!!! (link)
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ok well no-one can really tell you whether your in love or not. It might feel like love right now but ask yourself some questions like how would you feel if he left you? Could you talk to him about anything? Do you feel completely comfortable when your around him? If the answer to these questions are yes then it means you two are obviosly great for each other. It could just be a huge crush who knows. You don't have to rush into anything or tell him you love him until your completly sure of your feelings. Instead of worrying just have fun and be greatful for having such a great boyfriend. If you've got any more problems or you feel i havn't answered your question clearly enough then please email me at xpinklickinx@hotmail.com thanks holly
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okay hurr it goes i went out with this guy over the summer for like a month and a half and i truley believed i loved him then he cheated on meh and broke up with me for my best friend. Well they are broken up now but i still love this guy but he hates me now n i really dnt know why but i kant get him out of my mind i love him sooo muchh and i want to be back in his arms sooo bad wut should i do? (link)
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ok i dont want to make this too long here goes... well i know what its like to be in love and miss someone so much. I fell in love with my french exchange partner and now he is gone i feel hollow empty and depressed. But anyway time is the thing which is going to heal this one! The thing to think about is that he isn't the right one for you. If he hates you (Which actually i dont think he would HATE you!)then it wasnt ment to be. Something good will come out of this i PROMISE. To get him out of your head you could write to him, or about him. If you wrote him a letter it would get all the thoughts out of your head. even of you don't send it to him it will make you feel better. Crying sometimes makes you feel better too even though it sounds mad. Lean on your friends for support or you could email me if you want xpinklickinx@hotmail.com and i can talk to you. I know what your going through!
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