ok, i have been with this guy for a while, and we have only kissed once recently...and i really think i love him. he's on my mind all the time, everytime i hear his name my heart skips a beat, everytiem i see him, no matter how bad i feel, i feel instantly happy about everythign. we support each other in everythign, btu i have had friends tell me it is not true love...does anyone have any ways to tell real love from puppy love? i really dont know what to do, and i want to tell him how i feel, but i dont want to if it isnt real love. HELP ME PLEASE!!!
Additional info, added Monday October 11 2004, 10:24 am: i forgot to mention, i am a senior in high school and so is he and he is 18 and i am 17 and we have known each other for about 5 years. sorry bout forgetting these little details.. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? CoffeeBeanz answered Monday October 11 2004, 12:31 pm: let me guess, he is dreamy, with gorgeus eyes, and the most friendly personality? i can see you eye to eye, girl, and i think i am in love. i think you are too. but whatever you do, dont make the first move. that is the worst thing you could do!!!
i could be wrong, i mean, your guy sounds deep, and the guy i like is totally NOT!! [ CoffeeBeanz's advice column | Ask CoffeeBeanz A Question ]
frenchkiis answered Monday October 11 2004, 11:57 am: ok well no-one can really tell you whether your in love or not. It might feel like love right now but ask yourself some questions like how would you feel if he left you? Could you talk to him about anything? Do you feel completely comfortable when your around him? If the answer to these questions are yes then it means you two are obviosly great for each other. It could just be a huge crush who knows. You don't have to rush into anything or tell him you love him until your completly sure of your feelings. Instead of worrying just have fun and be greatful for having such a great boyfriend. If you've got any more problems or you feel i havn't answered your question clearly enough then please email me at xpinklickinx@hotmail.com thanks holly [ frenchkiis's advice column | Ask frenchkiis A Question ]
BlOnDiEsTeFaNiE1 answered Monday October 11 2004, 11:29 am: Thats hard. If your not sure if its love or not, it might not be love. Your friends migh be right. But since you never really felt love, it might be. But it may be just lust. I have this thing where i think i love the boy but by the time the relationship is over i know it wasnt. But what you gave me, only you can tell if it is or not. Talk to your boyfriend about it. He may make you feel better. If your close to someong older who looks ask though there in love, talk to them. I really hope that you and your boyfriend stayed together ad long as possible so you can figure if its love or not.
Hope this helps~Stephanie [ BlOnDiEsTeFaNiE1's advice column | Ask BlOnDiEsTeFaNiE1 A Question ]
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