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Depressed
I'm a 15 year old girl. I am realy depressed like all the time. I moved to a new school and I'm finding it hard to make friends. My "friends" from my old school are not in my life anymore. I ended the friendship with my 2 "best friends" because they were just really horrible people. But I find that I am still really obsessed with them and miss them alot. They are both on my mind all the time. The thing is if I went back to them and they forgave me, well they were just so horrible when I was friends with them. (i.e.- they would hook up with the guys I was hooking up with and made it look like I was the bad person because I got upset over it) I don't know what to do. Please help!
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I think you have answered this question for yourself although it hurts. You've said they are horrible people. Do you really want to be friends with people who put you through that? *hugs*
I moved schools this year too. I found you just have to talk to people- go out of your way to be nice. If things aren't working talk to a teacher who may be able to help- maybe by moving you forms so that you can meet more people? You just have to really work at it. It will take time and the friendship you have will take a while before they will equal the closeness that you have previously, but it will hopefully come. You are better off without them.
I hope things work out for you and this helps,
Take care xxx
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First off don't go back to your old "friends" they weren't friends they were just people you hung out with, try joining a school club or sport, I know it may sound kind of dumb but thats were you can really talk and get to know people. the reason your old friends are on your mind is because you look at them as an easy fix to your lack of friends but don't sacrafice your happiness and self respect for the friendship of those who do not deserve your friendship in the first place.
Dimitris
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I can relate really well to you! Don't worry about it too much! Thats what keeps you depressed! Try getting into school clubs! Those are places you can make friends at! Don't be shy! You have to get out there! You can join city teams like recreational sports or something! Get involved and you'll meet plenty of people! Those "Friends" aren't worth your time. I mean if you really care about them, talk to them about it. Don't keep it bottled up inside, that only causes to you to get more depressed and then soon you'll explode. So talk it out with them. If they continue to do it, then you should end the friendship. You talking it out maturely shows how much of a better person you are. So don't fret! Keep your head up to the sky... Hope it helped! Brittany
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O hunni that sounds really hard...just give it time to settle in and u will definitely make new friends!! just talk to new ppl and just be patient...its always hard being the new person:-/ good luck hunni xo
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The problem might be that your a good hearted person.Well from what it sounds like you have/had good friends but they took avantage of you.Maybe you should become friends with them again but dont be as close with them.Also try and go out around and meet people from your school.Like if there is a soccer or football game go to it and try to talk to some people fromy our school.Hope i helped.
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Well I think that your obsession is just caused by your move to a different school. Now it seems that since you have known these people for so long, you dont know what to do without them, especially being at a new school where you have to make new friends all together. I think that you should just make as many "real" new friends as you can at your new school. You're right, your previous 2 best friends are horrible. A real friend or best friend for that matter would never cause someone to look bad or interfere in their life problems to make them miserable. IM me if you want to talk a little more, I am more than willing to help you out. :)
-JTrevor
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