Well I am 23, I love writing and reading and going out with my friends. I love helping people I get it from my mother. if anyone has a question or would like to exchange poetry or short stories with me feel free,
Respectfully,
Jimi, A.K.A, Dimitris.
Gender: Male Location: Wisconsin Occupation: Sales Representative Age: 23 Member Since: October 11, 2004 Answers: 12 Last Update: October 12, 2004 Visitors: 2844
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my brother smokes pot and well he is 21 and he has done drugs since about 5th grade and i know he does it but he wont just come out and say it his friend is so stupid he got high of a air can while me and my little sister were ther in the room right next to them and my brother made up that he might have just had a cesure should i tell him that i know he does drugs and i think it is stupid or just keep quiet and not get involved please help i am worried about him
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Tell your parents as soon as possible don't worry about sounding like a snitch, trust your brother will forgive you in time and thank you,
you are right to be worried about him he is causing himself harm and giving up on his responsibilty as a brother, do yours and tell an Adult hope it all works out for your family.
Respectfully,
Dimitris.
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What age do you consider to be old enough to have a baby. Not like.. "when you feel you are ready" or anything like that.. i mean like.. 16.. 20..
how old do you think someone should be before they have a baby? (link)
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Well Definatly not 16, I would say mid to upper 20's just make sure your bringing the child into a stable enviroment thats full of love and comfort.
Respectfully.
Dimitris.
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okay.. my best friend.. lets call him"josh" is hanging around like tha.. idk how to say but like.. the "ghetto" people.. sry if that offended anyone.. but thats what our school calls them..they are really nice people but "josh"has always been like.. the EXACT opposite of them... now he's saying he's tired of being picked on and being called loser n stuff.. i totally understand him.. but now hes wearin his pants to his knees.. trying to do the crip walk(sry cant spell it) and hangin out with them, n talkin like them, and jus blowing me and the rest of his friends off..hes totally changed.. like i was crying for over an hour once n i called him cuz he always makes me feel better n he was just watching TV n totally zoned me out.. and my other friend got in a car accident that mad her cry cuz she was wicked freaked out, so she called him, and he jus watched TV n didnt say ne thing.. one of his other really cose friends wont talk to him now b/c shes tired of it, i dont want him to change like that b/c i know deep inside of him... he aint like that, me n her rnt the only ones noticing it either.. how can i make him realize that he is losing his friends and needs to idk how to put it.. come back to how he ued to be lol? (link)
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I would try telling him your concerns about the sudden changes but don't be too pushy about it or he might get defensive, Just tell him you miss hanging out with him ask him to go and do something you two used to do together before he turned into Tupac.
Respectfully,
Dimitris.
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if a bgoy that you are friends with likes you but you go out wihtone of his friends and he gets mad wants you to have sex with him but you say no but he tells you if he don't then he was goin to shoot you what would you do someone please help me.... (link)
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This is going to be short and very sweet,
TELL AN ADULT
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Dimitris.
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i just dumped my boyfriend about 3 days ago .. we have been together for a long long time and when we werent we were always good friends .. so when i dumped him i said cant we just be good friends because i dont want this to ruin our friendship and he told me we were never friends and never have been or had a friendship and we were always jsut bf and gf .. and that really hurt me .. now im not even sure if i wanna be his friend .. today i just found out hes trying to get me jealous with 7th graders! and we are both freshman .. how does he think that works .. i think hes a pathetic asshole right now .. i need some opinions ... thanks love (link)
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Guys will say very stupid things when they are hurt, Just look at it like our version of crying we normally get angry instead of crying and moping around, now I'm not saying men don't cry they do, and it's more then ok too. but your ex is just trying to make up for the pain and rejection he feel by saying that stuff as for the other girls he trying to show you that it didn't hurt him and he can get on with his life Go up to him and explain why you broke up with him and tell him that what he is doing is not only imature, but is the wrong thing to do to a good friendship. Hope things work out for you.
Respectfully,
Dimitris.
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but i was wondering how you can make the salsa out of those jars for like tostitos and stuff not as spicy cause we bought medium spicy but its to hot for me and my mouth is on fire!!! but its sooo good so i wana know if theres a way that you can make it not as spicy. thanks. (link)
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You could also put V-8 in there it will tone down the spicyness of the salsa and add a great veggie flavor
Respectfully,
Dimitris.
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my plant, gromie, just winked at me. it kidna scares me. i am really upset with his behaviors! what should i say to my naughty naughty venus fly trap? should i tell him to be a good boy, or just ignore the cute little guy? (link)
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First Roll up a newspaper, walk calmly over to the plant with the paper behind your back, as not to scare him off, then quickly smack it on the ....er....hmmmm Head I guess, if plants have heads. and in a strong firm voice say NO ! NO !.
Then what you do is look in the mirror and first person that you see repeat thee above as necessary
Respectfully,
Dimitris.
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well, my dog(german shepherd) just had 5 puppies(sadly 1 died) anyways, three of them are totally black and only one of them looks like her mother(black and tan). i was wondering if anybody could come up with some cool and unique names for my puppies, i have some ideas already, but i want more. thanx alot!! (link)
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I always liked the name D.O.G you say it by say each of the letters like your spelling dog it sounds Like a real name it's kinda of clever if you ask me
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what should u do if i have to cook dinner for ur bf but i dont know how to cook?
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I also Have a gf That doesn't know how to cook so I try to get her to make things that we could cook together, like tacos Everyone like tacos, or you could try making pasta it's very easy to make just get some good pasta and some good sauce if you don't wanna make homemade sauce. or try getting a cookbook try getting one for new chefs they usaully pretty esy to follow hope I helped out alittle.
Respectfully,
Dimitris.
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I'm a 15 year old girl. I am realy depressed like all the time. I moved to a new school and I'm finding it hard to make friends. My "friends" from my old school are not in my life anymore. I ended the friendship with my 2 "best friends" because they were just really horrible people. But I find that I am still really obsessed with them and miss them alot. They are both on my mind all the time. The thing is if I went back to them and they forgave me, well they were just so horrible when I was friends with them. (i.e.- they would hook up with the guys I was hooking up with and made it look like I was the bad person because I got upset over it) I don't know what to do. Please help! (link)
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First off don't go back to your old "friends" they weren't friends they were just people you hung out with, try joining a school club or sport, I know it may sound kind of dumb but thats were you can really talk and get to know people. the reason your old friends are on your mind is because you look at them as an easy fix to your lack of friends but don't sacrafice your happiness and self respect for the friendship of those who do not deserve your friendship in the first place.
Dimitris
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Some times my pubic hairs kinda hurt when i pull them, so i yank them out and they have this sort weird sticky white thing on the end. after i pull them out it doesnt hurt there any more. this happens every once in a while and i yank em because if i dont it hurts to touch there. anyone know waht these are? i call them evil hairs. (link)
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I use a cheap beard trimmer it works don't shave it clean it sucks bad you'll get razor burns from the deepest circles of hell oh the little white thingys are called follicles i think
Dimitris.
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ok look there is this girl that i like and she is well one of my best friends i dunno it is just when i am around her i feel so loved and i mean she is really really beautiful and stuff. but tonight i was at her house for a party no occasion just a party and she looked so hot and she cuddled with me well she was cold and stuff.
but the question is how can i show her that i can be a good boyfriend and that i like her more then a friend.
thnx
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Hey man I Know what your feeling, and it is a mix of emotions cause your so happy when your around her but now that you know yop have feelings for her you also feel nervous but in a kinda of wierd good way. Thats cool its one of the best things about being young. well my advice to you is just keep up what your doing it sounds like you too have a pretty healthly friendship going and that is the best foundation to build a soild realationship on. if she feels the same you do it will happen, but maybe she don't feel it as strong as you do yet and if you rush things it might freak her out so My advice is this just go with the flow...oh one more thing don't start to act really different around her you like trying to impress her by doing really dumb things you'll regret it in the future. well I hope I helped out a little you should let me know how things worked out good luck!
Dimitris
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