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okay.. my best friend.. lets call him"josh" is hanging around like tha.. idk how to say but like.. the "ghetto" people.. sry if that offended anyone.. but thats what our school calls them..they are really nice people but "josh"has always been like.. the EXACT opposite of them... now he's saying he's tired of being picked on and being called loser n stuff.. i totally understand him.. but now hes wearin his pants to his knees.. trying to do the crip walk(sry cant spell it) and hangin out with them, n talkin like them, and jus blowing me and the rest of his friends off..hes totally changed.. like i was crying for over an hour once n i called him cuz he always makes me feel better n he was just watching TV n totally zoned me out.. and my other friend got in a car accident that mad her cry cuz she was wicked freaked out, so she called him, and he jus watched TV n didnt say ne thing.. one of his other really cose friends wont talk to him now b/c shes tired of it, i dont want him to change like that b/c i know deep inside of him... he aint like that, me n her rnt the only ones noticing it either.. how can i make him realize that he is losing his friends and needs to idk how to put it.. come back to how he ued to be lol?
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I would try telling him your concerns about the sudden changes but don't be too pushy about it or he might get defensive, Just tell him you miss hanging out with him ask him to go and do something you two used to do together before he turned into Tupac.
Respectfully,
Dimitris.
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perhapsly u can show him how he is acting b/c im a black person(a gurl silly) and i no theses things. he just aint see how it is in the real ghetto what? i mean is try to tell him or show him what the ghetto is like.
hope i helped ,grape.
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ps if that doesnt work then try to show or tell him how good he used to be before he became what he is know.
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You need to talk to him, face to face, and give him the cold hard truth; That all his freinds will eventually leave him because he's not helping to keep up the relationships and because he's changed so much in a way that you don't think his the real him.
I can't really predcit how he will respond, but if it's somthing along the lines of 'I don't need you, I can get other mates, better mates.' or 'this is the real me, I don't want to hang around with you guys because it's not me any more.' then he's a lost cause, I'm sorry. Maybe after you leave him for a few days to think about what you say, he will come around.
I hope things go okay for you *hug*
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