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my brother

Question Posted Friday October 8 2004, 3:05 am

my brother smokes pot and well he is 21 and he has done drugs since about 5th grade and i know he does it but he wont just come out and say it his friend is so stupid he got high of a air can while me and my little sister were ther in the room right next to them and my brother made up that he might have just had a cesure should i tell him that i know he does drugs and i think it is stupid or just keep quiet and not get involved please help i am worried about him

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lil_angel answered Wednesday October 13 2004, 2:54 pm:
tell him how you feel. maybe he wil relize whut hes doing is stupid. maybe he will get someone that will help him stop.

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Dimitris answered Tuesday October 12 2004, 3:24 am:
Tell your parents as soon as possible don't worry about sounding like a snitch, trust your brother will forgive you in time and thank you,
you are right to be worried about him he is causing himself harm and giving up on his responsibilty as a brother, do yours and tell an Adult hope it all works out for your family.

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dixiegurl792 answered Sunday October 10 2004, 11:43 am:
Oh my goodness.... you should totally tell someone (like an adult) He could possibly die if he doesnt stop soon! I hope this helps lemme know if u have anymore problems!
~*~ Evan~*~

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OoxashlynxoO answered Friday October 8 2004, 5:17 pm:
hey! if i were u would just wait till it's just u to and talk to him about it! becuz if u just let it go he can get in a lot of trouble or get hurt! u do stupid stuff wen ur high and yeah..def..i would talk to him! i kno some one who did it and i talked to him about it and she stoped! and tell him how u feel about it!

* hope i helped!!!

xox -ashlyn! *P.S. i hope he's ok!

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HappyAdvice answered Friday October 8 2004, 4:09 pm:
OKAY I SAY THIS TO EVERYONE BUT..... ou should {soooooo} tell your parents!! I know your probably thinking that he'll get mad BUT he won't be mad when he relizes your saving his life. yeah drugs will kill him, sorry!! But you can help. if you don;'t wanna tell your parents then tell a older person you trust!! I don't have older siblings that are involved in drugs or alchohol, so my advice might not be helpful at all, I hope thats not the case!! SOoooooooooooooooooooooo, good luck!!:-D

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IPIiINIkI_my_anti_drug answered Friday October 8 2004, 2:12 pm:
well he is your brother! and you should b worried about him!! so i say tell him or you will regret it!! i know that he will say shut up and you have to just tell him your point of view!! i mean you have to tell him wat will happen even if he already knows!! Have you told your parents? if not TELL THEM! and also you hsould get yourself involved bcuz it is his life he is putting at risk! make him a short letter if you are scared to go face to face wit him!
Dear brother,
Is this wat you think of life? throwing it all away? I want to look out for you, because i know wat is the best for you, and you apperently dont srrry to say :(!! .......................

love always,
i started it out for you now u have to finish it with your feelings!!

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busterbrownxl answered Friday October 8 2004, 12:48 pm:
Tell him that u know and tell him topass you the chronic!!!!


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bad_gurl559 answered Friday October 8 2004, 10:44 am:
u should tell him u no b/c he needs 2 find out wat drugs can do believe me i used 2 do drugs 2 and i dont wanna go back. if ur brother doesnt listen then find his stash and call the cops. i no this sounds like ratting him out but its 4 his own good

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mysticpixie05 answered Friday October 8 2004, 9:53 am:
just be like i know what your doing , dont lie to me about it and just let it go. other then saying that you shouldnt get into it. And depending on what all drungs he is on, if it is just pot, then he wont die like someone else said. It is a known fact that you dont die from pot. No one ever has. But my personal opinion would be to jsut let it go and not get yourself involved.

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Mercy_x_Me answered Friday October 8 2004, 6:26 am:
TELL him! Would you rather see him being mad at you or lying in a coffin?

And not to be mean.........but that's the truth. It's really sad to that hes been doing it that long hes probably done a hell of a lot of damage.


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Tarebear109 answered Friday October 8 2004, 4:56 am:
maybe u should say hey i really need to talk to you alone... sit him down and tell him u kno what he is doin dont tell him how worried u are about him cuz he may get mad and tell u to stay out of his business just tell him that u dont like the fact he lies to you.. tell him that he can be honest with you and u want to kno whats goin on in his life i mean after all u are his sister.. just make sure u dont get involved in all the drugs... hope i helped hun keep me updated

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