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13/f..
ok so i like this guy right? and he kinda likes me to..but theres one problem he lives in maryland we meet over summer when i went on vacation.. and i like him alot and he kinda likes me only because i live in new york.. and so idk what to do..:-/ do i jsut 4get about him? er what i mean we talk somtimes hes NEVER online and soo i dont talk to him alot so i feel like theres no ponit in liking him at all but i cant just stop liking some1 i like alot.. soo PLEASE help me outt!!!!! :-(!!!!
confused...
(( JoJo ))
Hey JoJo,
Your right it is hard to forget about someone. Just stay occupied such as looking for sm1 else. It takes time to forget
about the past, meanwhile stay cool and nice!
hope i helped --gay guy--
Ok so I just came back from a guy friend's house. My other two friends, a girl and a boy, were there as well. We started off just playing dares, stupid things like kissing and stuff. Anyway, one thing led to another and we got more and more hyper and raunchy. We didn't have actual sex but we were trying to give the boys erections and things. Now I feel so so guilty because I have a boyfriend and Tom and Dan (the two boys) are his best friends. It wasn't anything serious and meaningful but I love my boyfriend and he gets so jealous if I put my arm round other guys and stuff. I don't know what to do.
In all seriousness dont tell your boyfriend no matter how much you want him to know you must not tell hime if he gets just by you touching other guys then I seriously suggest that you keep this to yourself if you tell him he will never forgive you I swear it happened to me and I told my b/f and he never spoke to me again and he was super jealous. if you wanna e-mail me thats fine my e-mail is christrousdalelover142004@yahoo.com e-mail if you need more advice
Ok! Well I have to go to the doctor tuesday with my mom to get birth control. Im just really stressing out about the papsmear. I shave down there and Im not sure whether or not I want my mom in the room when they do that. They also have to ask you if your sexually active and I really dont want my mom knowing all that either! Any info, advice, etc.?
I dont know what to say but you mom was gonna find out sooner or later somehow sorry to dampen your spirts but you have to say the truth
I am so sexually confused! One second I'm bi and another I'm
gay! I am 14yr.s old a freshmen, confused on what my sexuality is. People says I'm gay, but I still think girls are cute, but I would
rather go with a boy. So what am I!?! Need answers...
dont be scared if your gay you gay i think its great that you like girls but you like guys gay people rock my sock's like i said dont be scared.
Te Amo,
Christopher
i play basketball really good but i need to improve in getting faster. Does anyone have a clue of what i can do to maybe improve in getting faster?
Hey,
Excersise before you playing bb. It could help your endurance.
--WaDe--
helo it keeps tellin me i gotta inbox (1 new) and every time i clikc on it it says "you have no unanswered questions" what is this and what do i do?!
I don't know I think your computer is fucked up!
--WaDe--
okay i really want to get colored contacts for xmas or something idk but i want pink ones is that weird? either that or cat eye ones or a pretty blue but i really want pink but i can never find them...are there any websites i can go to or a store? and plz dont say go to yahoo or google cuz i did and it didn't help. thankz so much!!! *Melissa*
Dear Melissa,
If u get pink colored contacts that will be weird, and everyone will be staring at you. But if you really want them then
don't mind that. I have been trying log on some websites and
all I can find was a website called "Mifund", or at least that what
my friend says go to.
--WaDe--
Well i broke up with tthe guy i have been going out with and now he is making my life miserable! he is spreading rumnors about me and telling my secrets to everyoine and its pissing me off!!!! how do i get him to stop???
Dear Miserable Girl!,
I know some x relationships can be cruecial. I think u need to go with a boy who can defend you! If the person u go wit is strong and big than the boy who is messing with u, is gonna back off. If that doesn't back off use the backfire technique!
Hope it Helps --WaDe--
my brother smokes pot and well he is 21 and he has done drugs since about 5th grade and i know he does it but he wont just come out and say it his friend is so stupid he got high of a air can while me and my little sister were ther in the room right next to them and my brother made up that he might have just had a cesure should i tell him that i know he does drugs and i think it is stupid or just keep quiet and not get involved please help i am worried about him
Tell him that u know and tell him topass you the chronic!!!!
-WaDe
i'm in eighth grade and my mom doesnt think girls my age should have boyfriends. im not really close with her either. and ive never had a bf either. i dont know what to tell her if i get asked out..? please help, thx !
TELL HER TO FUCK OFF! STAY WITH YOUR B/F!
--WaDe
How many hours of sleep should a 14 year old girl get each night?
Thanks--
IF U R A PARTY GIRL, THEN 6! BUT ON SCHOOL NIGHTS 8!
DUH THAT WAS A DUMB QUESTION!!!!
--WaDe--
Hey, theres this girl in my pe class and I think she might like me. Well, I kinda like her too though. She acts kinda like it and gives me hugs sometimes and stuff and jokes around with me and stuff, and she seems like she always brings the topic of Homecomming up to her friend, lets call her Jenny. Anyways so she always says to Jenny that sits next to her when we sit on numbers for role call that she needs a date for Homecomming. But... I'm kinda scared to ask her to Homecomming because I don't know what to do.. I mean I know you go out to dinner and stuff and the guy drives the girl... but I don't have a car yet do I have my dad or mom drive us to the restaurant and then to the dance? I know to get her flowers or a corsage... ugh I don't know what to do! Someone tell me what to do about this and what should I get her and pretty much walk me thru the date! I mean like I could go with my friends or her friends because she says to her friend that all her friends are going to this fancy restauraunt with their dates and she wont get to go unless she has a date... so who drives and stuff? What do I do.... Help, I'm 14/m.
Sorry if this was a little long.
Hey this is WaDe!
Don't be nervous to ask the girl to the dance! As long as you ask her first, u got it made! Don't ask her to be your girlfriend just ask her to the dance. Take one step atta time! If she says yes get
your dad to drive yall ova to the dance (your dad will undastand
what u doin!). After that THEN go to the restaraunt, because theres a possibility you or her might get something on your suit!
--Good Luck--WaDe
does anyone know of zit cleansers,creams,or pads whatever for oily face please help i donno what to try
HEY ZIT B/G
CLEARASIL CLEANSER WORKS FOR ME! I BUYED IT AT WAL-MART, IT CHEAP THOUGH, BUT IT WORKS!
-WADE
since halloween is coming up me n all my friends are going to my friends house and my friends coming thats a year younger than us buts hes rlly our age....since we like eachother how could i get him to make out with me
It's not hard for a boy to make out with you, considering I am one! Just casually flirt with him and if that doesn't work pull him to the other room and make out!
-Wade
14/f One of my friends is really starting to annoy me. It's not anything in particular that she does that gets on my nerves, it's just about everything she does. Some stupid/odd/quirky things she does that I used to like about her just annoy me. She's one of my best friends and I don't want to lose her. How can I stop being annoyed with her? I really don't want to be.
Hey,
If you are a boy, then the girl is probaly trying to get your attention in a odd way! It sounds weird but she may not no what
way how to get your attention! But if your a girl then your haggin
around a crazy BITCH! I'm sorry if I offended you but, it is kinda embarrising haggin around with her, so just tell her to stop playing and get a boyfriend or join or club or something! Just try to make her be mateaur for a change.
Hope it helps, WaDe
Ya, but I really like him since I was 10... HE KISSED ME! I DIDN'T KISS HIM! So technically it wasn't my fault... And I dunno, I feel bad for Cammy (the pregnant girl) but I also hate her because she's having a baby from the guy that I always had a crush on! So really I don't know what to do! Should I forget him? Or should I talk to him to tell him to stop f*cking off? What should I do? !~*HeAd OvEr HeElS*~!
Hey confused girl,
You SHOULD tell him to fu** off because, he might just be using you for a play toy. I know I'm a guy going to high school! If you want to be serious with him then tell him and see what his reaction is. If he is a playful immateaur boy then forget about him!
Hope it goes well, WaDe
I have a boyfriend and i love him with all my heart!( i love him but im not IN love with him cuz im only 13 u kno?) ofcourse he is like my best friend cuz he is my boyfriend, but my other best friend is a guy to. Sometimes i start crying at school for reasons i cant really say here but... he'll give me a hug and tell me its okay.. i dont really mind cuz i know he just likes me as a friend, and he just wants to help.. I would go to my boyfriend, but he cant know why i cry cuz he'll be really worried, and my best friend understands.. MY boyfriend gets jelous of my best friend though cuz he like that i will dumped him for my best friend.. how can i get it through his head that he is my best friend.. and thats wat bf's do?
Hey confused girl:) this is Wade,
If your bf really really really know you or like you, then you
should tell your boyfriend that your bf really is trying to be caring. I know that might piss your boyfriend off, but if he
really understands you then he will not mind. So put him to the test, to see if he really understands your emotions.
Gotta run,from Wade!
When I was 10, I got my first crush on this cute guy called Emmanuel (Mano for short). He was everything I dreamed of except he was 13 then. So now I'm 15 and he's 17 (turning 18 October 28) and he got this girl pregnant (which is now his girlfriend/potential future wife). But to be true I think he likes me because we're friends and we hang out a lot but one day we were hanging out by ourselves and he grabbed my sides and kissed me. I can't say I didn't like it because I did. What should I do? I don't want to him to leave his girlfriend with a baby by herself. But I really liked that kiss. What should I do?
Hey, this is Wade!
Ummm...I know us teens are going through sexual feelings,but
don't go and chase older boys, that get other girls pregnant.
Thats just nuts!
Hope it helps,Wade