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my boyfriend and best friend


Question Posted Thursday October 7 2004, 11:18 am

I have a boyfriend and i love him with all my heart!( i love him but im not IN love with him cuz im only 13 u kno?) ofcourse he is like my best friend cuz he is my boyfriend, but my other best friend is a guy to. Sometimes i start crying at school for reasons i cant really say here but... he'll give me a hug and tell me its okay.. i dont really mind cuz i know he just likes me as a friend, and he just wants to help.. I would go to my boyfriend, but he cant know why i cry cuz he'll be really worried, and my best friend understands.. MY boyfriend gets jelous of my best friend though cuz he like that i will dumped him for my best friend.. how can i get it through his head that he is my best friend.. and thats wat bf's do?

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wvsweetheart2006 answered Thursday October 7 2004, 4:32 pm:
Aw, well, to tell you the truth if my boyfriend had a friend like that (that was a chick), I would so be jealous too....I'm just a jealous person...and I can't help that. I get worried when my boyfriend hangs out with a lot of other girls (particularly for reasons that I cannot say either lol that have happened in the past). But anyways, maybe you should tell your boyfriend if you've been with him long enough and trust him. If you told him later, I think he'd be kinda hurt that you couldn't come and talk to him but you could another guy (even though he is your bestfriend) and I don't think he'll understand that reasoning. I think he feels sort of helpless.....maybe he knows somethings up, he dosn't know what it is, so he can't do anything to make you feel better about it. It's your choice who you confide in, but in my opinion, maybe you're not being fair to your boyfriend. He cares about you =) Hope I helped!

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mizzthang91 answered Thursday October 7 2004, 3:42 pm:
ThiSz one'Sz kind Of haRd. lOl .uhMm leMme Thiink tHo . Why DOnt u juSzt Sit dOwn wIth hIm anD eXplaiin tO him tHat u Liike Hiim alOt anD u wOuldNt lEave hIm Like that anD that the Other guy is Just a Friend. he shOuld undErstanD . iF nOt tHan Tell hIs tO snaP Out of it! . lol

hOpe ii heLpEd .
x `O AriElLa*

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russianspy1234 answered Thursday October 7 2004, 2:31 pm:
well not much you can do to convince him. jsut tell him thers nothing between you and your best friend, as long as hes not making to big a deal of it its fine though, guys are jelous thats just the way we are.

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busterbrownxl answered Thursday October 7 2004, 2:31 pm:
Hey confused girl:) this is Wade,

If your bf really really really know you or like you, then you
should tell your boyfriend that your bf really is trying to be caring. I know that might piss your boyfriend off, but if he
really understands you then he will not mind. So put him to the test, to see if he really understands your emotions.

Gotta run,from Wade!

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