ask XoCherryCraze

read advice get advice make favorite read feedback advicenators

HeY! I'll be happy to answer all your questions just post and I'll write you back soon. :)
Gender: Female
Location: USA
Member Since: October 7, 2004
Answers: 3
Last Update: January 20, 2005
Visitors: 381

Favorite Columnists
**Just want to thank everyone who responds to this. I know it's a long post and if you give me great advice, i WILL rate you HIGH**

There's this boy that I've known about 3 years. We used to not get along AT ALL but when I started taking the bus again, he started talking to me more and more and now whenever my friend gets off, he comes and sits across from me and talks to me. He also suggested we see a movie together but I don't know if he means JUST AS FRiENDS. People say he likes me but I'm not sure. I know I like him because my heart is always racing when I think of him and I dream about him and I know I have a crush but I'm unsure about the signals he's saying. Does the movies ALWAYS signal a date? Also, I can never really talk to him about "us" because there are all these other kids listening. =(

-Crushin' (link)
Why don't you go out with him as friends and if he feels the same way about you as you do about him, maybe your friendship will turn into something more.

ok my friend emily just told me that she thinks my crush that i have neva told anyone about might like me......she says that he treats me different than any otha gurl
like this one time that i didnt think was a big deal but he gave me gum wen i asked and no one else...oh and he let me copy 2 questions off his hw but wen my friend askd he said yea right n walkd away....
i dont kno wat to do i ask him ..but if he says he dont like me people are gonna laugh at me......or he might lie and say he doesnt but really does..idk plzzz plz help me.....should i ask him or not (link)
I think you should try to just be friends with him first. Maybe once you become friends you can become something more.

Ok, recently, I've been telling a lot of lies. I've always had a good imagination so it's easy for me to make up a story or excuse very quickly. I noticed at the end of August that if I was asked a question, I said the first thing that came to my mind without really thinking about it. I ended up saying some pretty stupid stuff that wasn't really true. However, I despise being put on the spot so I just let it go. In the past couple of weeks though, I have been making up all sorts of stuff without even thinking twice. I don't do it on purpose, but when someone asks me a question I automatically tell them what they WANT to hear, even if it's not the truth. I hate myself after I do it, but because it's already out there, I just let it be. I don't know if this is a mental issue or not, but it seems like it is, since I don't seem to have much control over what I say anymore. Last week, I was sick and out of school for three days. My teacher asked me if I was so sick I was throwing up, because thats what she thinks of as sick. Automatically I just said yes and then continued to tell her that I was so horribly sick that I barely got out of bed for the whole time I was gone. I didn't mean to say it. I'm close to this teacher and I usually tell her the truth no matter what the case. I've even lied to my mom and my friends. I am scared I am losing it. I don't know what to do. What do you think I should do? (link)
It's probably hard for you. I've never had a problem like that before but I bet it can be tough. Sometimes I say things I don't mean to say but I just say them. I think you should think things through before you say them. It may be hard for you but just try hard and hopefully soon you won't have that problem anymore.

read advice get advice make favorite read feedback advicenators

<<< Previous Advice Column
Next Advice Column >>>

eXTReMe Tracker