Well i broke up with tthe guy i have been going out with and now he is making my life miserable! he is spreading rumnors about me and telling my secrets to everyoine and its pissing me off!!!! how do i get him to stop???
adviceguy answered Saturday October 9 2004, 2:59 am: A wise man once said
"Never tell your closest friend your deepest secrets because one day your closest friend could become your worst enemy." I guess its too late for you to do that.
I would try to sugar coat for you but rumors are nasty and hard to get rid of (just think of the common cold!). Once a rumor starts there is no way of stopping it. The only thing you can do is keep up your self confidence and remember that everything being said about you is not true. In a couple of days, weeks or maybe months, a rumor will be started about someone else and you will yesterdays news.
Until then, try to not to fight ( or get into any physical confrontations with anyone over the rumors) especially with your boyfriend. If you have the movie Paparazzi you will know that it leads to no good.
Just remember, like that bad cold, rumors will eventually die down.
Ask_Anything answered Friday October 8 2004, 9:39 pm: what a jerk!! he obviously was embarrassed/hurt when you broke up with him so he wanted revenge (so immature)... anyways dont try to get him back because things will get worse. i say you should just confront him and tell him how immature and stupid he is being and that you're asking him in a very nice way to stop. if he gives you crap about it- then ignore him or have someone else talk to him that he knows who will take your side. sorry this guy is being so immature and stupid for something so little. [im guessing it was little]... anyways- hope things get better and FAST! =] -ask_anything [ Ask_Anything's advice column | Ask Ask_Anything A Question ]
XoKGoX answered Friday October 8 2004, 9:17 pm: dam! whattan ass! if i were you i would jus confront him. and if what he is sayin is really bad then dont confront him nicely! show him up. let him know thats really low and you cant believe he is the same person you used to go out with. give him a MAJOR HARSH guilt trip and if that doesnt work then...... what goes around comes around!!!! ;) [ XoKGoX's advice column | Ask XoKGoX A Question ]
paradiei3abii3x answered Friday October 8 2004, 8:34 pm: Go talk to him and tell him your sorry, and most likely you hurt him if he is so immature to do that, so just explain things to him and maybe give him a friend like hug and just tell him how you feel. If that doesn't work, go talk to your guidance counsler or something. Hope I helped!
xXxpinky615xXx answered Friday October 8 2004, 8:14 pm: Do what I did when my ex did that to me. Confront him about it, then if he denys it, slap him then yell some then if he still denys it kick him in the balls, call him an asshole and walk away. But you might get a detention for that like I did. No I'm joking, don't do that. But I actually did do that. Anyway, my suggestion is just to tell him to stop. Say you know none of this is true so why do you even bother? If someone were to come up to you and say "OMG so and so heard from so and so that so and so(your ex) said this and that and blah blah blah" Tell them it's not true. You know that it's not so why bother even fighting the point? And the whole secrets thing, deny it. Even though they say that denial is a bad thing, in this case it's really all you CAN do. Hope this helped. Good luck. But if in doubt, smack him, back handed across the face so you knock his glasses off and make him drop his bagel. Lol, that's what happened when I did it. [ xXxpinky615xXx's advice column | Ask xXxpinky615xXx A Question ]
I know some x relationships can be cruecial. I think u need to go with a boy who can defend you! If the person u go wit is strong and big than the boy who is messing with u, is gonna back off. If that doesn't back off use the backfire technique!
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