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Im a freshman nd i live in ohio! im 14 nd my birthday is august 18! i have brown hair nd blue eyes nd im realli short! i like to play softball, golf, bowling, soccer. Im also a cheerleading advisor!
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Okay, this may sound weird, but here it goes. I've never had a canker sore before, but recently, one grew inside my lower lip. I have always heard my friends complaining about this but they never said much about it. How do you get them and how can you make them go away/prevent them? (link)
From the drugstore i buy Carmex!


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Ok I am 14/f and my boyfriend and I have been going out for like 3 weeks now and he's great but lately we have been gettin into little fights. Like the other I was on AIM and my b/f and I werent really talkin that much... so I was talkin to my best friend tony... well my b/f got all mad and he says I dont ever talk to him and we made up but i really think that he is still mad... what should I do... I will rate high and I will take n e answers???
Thanks! (link)
Well your boyfriend sounds like a total ''butt-hole.'' If you want to talk to your best friend then talk to him! Your boyfriend shouldn't get mad at you for that! If he does then he's not so ''great.''


whats that song by nelly and tim mcgraw??? (link)
Over and Over!


I have hair just below my shoulders and its pretty straight. I also have bangs....Does anyone know any cute styles? (link)
Puttin your hair half up and leaving your bangs down can be a very cute hair style! Maybe even leaving it down and crimping it can be very cute. If you straighten it then try not striahgtening it and see what it looks like. See how those work!


ok... i know im really skinny but sometimes i feel fat. i am 5ft 1inch and 78 lbs. and im 13. do you have any ideas for me to lose fat in my stomach? (link)
Hunnie your 78 pounds and your 13! I was the same way and i weigh only 92 and i'm 14! Your not fat! What you need to do is gain weight! Don't take this personally but hunnie if i were you i would take another look in the mirror lift up my shirt and look at your stomache! Your probably skinny as..f*word! Please get back to me!


Homecomings coming up which means the dance, the pep rally, and the bon fire. One of the best weeks of school. And its great cause I actually have someone to go with to the dance. :) I need a dress though still. So my question is, what can I do during homecoming to make the best of it? And whats a good kind of dress to wear? Or even just say if your goin this year to urs or a past experience. I want this homecoming to be really memorable, especially cause of the guy Im with now. :) (link)
What i would do is get a different color dress. One that sticks out. This girl at our homecoming wore a hot pink and zebra dress! I idolized her dress because she stuck out and every1 was complamenting her! To make it worth-while and memorable go with a bunch of friends and act like no1 is around you and be yourself! Dance, sing, and laugh like no1 is watching you. Trust me on this because i already had my homecoming and i did exactly what i just exlained to you and it was awesome!


well the title pretty much says it all. My friend, we'll call him Pig Vomit, has always been screwing me over during the two years that I've known him. He's hit on girls that he knows I like which ends up with me not getting a chance, he's made out with a girl that I was with when she was piss drunk and he'd had one beer.

BUT! This is it. He's actually trying to get with my sister. She's two years younger than us, he stole her MSN address from mine and now he's been talking to her nonstop, going on webcam, and he's absolutely serious. They've tried to keep it a secret that he's doin it, but my other friend Cam has told me and I've seen my sister quickly closing her conversation windows with him when I come upstairs.

What do i do? I'm seriously thinking about hurting him. I've already talked to him about it, Cam has talked to him about it, hell Cam has told him that I plan to beat him to a pulp if he doesn't stop. I don't know what else there is to do. (link)
Ummmm what i think is you should comfront him about it and explain to him that you dont want him with your sister because of everything he has done. When your done talking to him i waould confront your sister about it and talk to her and tell her that you found out what she was doing.


Okay..I'm not sure if anyone can awnser this question for me, but just incase someone can i'm gona ask. I recently did dxm..its also known as skittles. And i know thats really stupid. Now i'm regretting it. I'ts about a day after and I'm feeling really dizy still. Like i did when I was on it. I'm thinking i should probaly go see a docter but mabye everyone feels like this? I did it with my bf too and he doesnt feel it any more..so i'm starting to worry. I'm also on anti depresseants so i think that might have something to do with it. Plz dont delete this question. I need some opinons before i tell my friends or family. Plz help me! ..

-Scared (link)
I did drugs and i went straight up to my mom and told her! She then after that trusted me more. So i think what you should do is come forward to your mom and tell her what you did and then she can take you to the doctors!


hey .. my boyfriend is in the hospital rite now .. hes in intensive care .. he got into a car accident and now has a fractured skull, bleeding in the brain. the doctors have him in a drug induced coma right now..and they dont predict him to wake up for a few months, and then they will run the tests on his brain .. they are currently waiting for the swelling to go down on his brain. surgery was going to take place, but they decided to just wait for the swelling to heal on its own .. they dont expect him to wake up for several months now..but my question to you, is .. that im realllllyyy scared ... do yu think he'll be okay? hes in one of the best hospitals in jersey but still .. i need some truth..thnx .. anything yu say ill give yu a 5 .. (link)
I dont know what to tell you. Im not meanin to be mean or ne thing. I wouldn't worry about him that much. I mean you can worry about him but not often. Try and keep your mind off of it. If you ever need ne thing i'm here bc ill tell u what this is the best thing im good at..giving advice!


how can u get a popular guy to like u when u r very very shy??? (link)
Talk to him and get to know him more.


OK so i'm at a new school and like i made this one fried ... lets call her susan. So susan invited me over to her house for halloween with some of her friends too. I don't know for sure but i've heard her friends talking about doing drugs and all (not planning it for halloween but talking about it in like the past sence) I'm pretty sure Susan doesn't do drugs or anything but i do think that she drinks. I don't do any of that stuff, nor do I want to. Do you think I should go to her house and take the chance? PLEASE help me... i'll rate EVERYONE! (link)
Ok it would help if you would tell us your age! But if your still young and not over the age of 18 then i wouldn't go or take the chance. Tell your friend what you heard and who you heard it from and maybe then she can talk to them. Until then i wouldn't go.


How many hours of sleep should a 14 year old girl get each night?
Thanks-- (link)
8-10




i'm in eighth grade and my mom doesnt think girls my age should have boyfriends. im not really close with her either. and ive never had a bf either. i dont know what to tell her if i get asked out..? please help, thx ! (link)
Ur mom dosent have to kno everything!


:/ well..ive been going through a lot lately. Im still not exactly sure whay happened...but one day after school my mom told me that dad went to the hospitol cuz hes depressed.A day later he got transferred to this phychiatric hospitol. (nothing like the padded walls where ppl are extremely crazy) but its a place for ppl who are depressed and stay there and see phychiatrists and stuff. I viisited him once but i acted coldly towards him...things were awkward plus i was scared. What can i do to make him feel better? I dont want to slip into depression also...how long could he be there for? Also..my Math A regents is coming up in jan. and i seriously need help in that...its jus so much goin on right now..
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Your dad is at a good place ryte now dont worry bout hym! study ur math ir w.e! im not sayin forget about hym im sayin u kan thynk bout hym but thynk bout studying to! im goin threw this too! my mom has been real sick nd my grades r droppin! ive been studying nd findin tyme for my mom nd i brought all my grades up! s0o try it nd if it dont work im srri!


I have a boyfriend who I adore, I'm only 13 so I don't wanna have sex or anything but what are some good intimate things that we can do? We already put our arms round each other, kiss, hug and he puts his hand on my ass but it's getting boring, any ideas? (link)
Your 13 theres not much u kan do! look at ur age nd ur practically doin everything me nd my boifriend do nd im 14! if u dont have ne thing else ''intimate'' to do then idk wut to tell ya bc ur doin a lil more then wut a 13 yr. old shudd be doin ryte now!


I was great friends with a group of people last year. We did everything together and we were the best of friends. This year, I got friendly with some new people and I started dating one of them. I love him more than the world and I have so much fun with this new group of people. The thing is, my old friends don't see me anymore and we don't hang out as much. Now my best friend of all is really upset with me and we aren't chatting at all. I don't know what to do, I love my boyfriend and I wanna spend every breathing minute with him and our friends but I'm leaving my old friends behind. (link)
Right now im stuck in tha same situation! But wut i have been doin is i spend some days w. my boyfriend nd then other days i hang w. my old friends! i mean their both 2 great groups of ppl! i mean divide ur spendin tyme in half nd spend half nd half on em! i mean if ur b.f get upset w. u then explain to hym hey look i needa get bacc to talken to my old friends! It shudd work bc its been workin for me nd my b.f dont care!


okay.. there is thys guy.. and we started goin out on september 28.. well yeah.. he broke up with his girl to go out with me.. and so yeah.. well.. ill be walkyn down tha halls.. and hes with other grls.. and i dont mynd.. but like.. he waits for them after class.. and he only hugs or kisses me.. like.. in tha room with tha vending machines.. like.. when were all alone.. and everyone is tellin me to break up with him.. but i dont want to because.. 1. i have a problem with keeping guys.. because after like.. a day i get bored with them and break up with them.. and it was almost been 2 weeks with me and him.. 2. hes a GOOOOD kisser.. :D 3. everytyme i get mad or we get mad at each other.. he'll call me and be like.. i like you so much.. i wish i could see you more.. and all that.. so.. yeah.. i dont kno wht to do.. :/

~~> if it helps... im 14 and a freshman.. and hes 16 and a sophmore (link)
Well idk wut to tell ya besides tht i thynk tht u shudd talk to hym nd ask hym..hey do u have ne thing goin on w. them girls u walk down tha hall w.? ir u kan ask hym hey umm y do u only kiss me in tha room w. tha vendin machines..juss talk to hym bout it nd if u find out hes got something goin on dump tha jerk :-D


I luve my boyfriend Jason and I know he is the one for me we have been together for 1 year and 2 months and we have been talking about having sex but my parents are very strict and I can't talk to them about it so I need some help pleaze help luve ya! (link)
I thynk if ur willing to have sex then u two needa talk bout it nd if ur parents dont want u to do it i wuddnt take ne risk bc parents kan b a real butt when they find this stuff out!


Well i broke up with tthe guy i have been going out with and now he is making my life miserable! he is spreading rumnors about me and telling my secrets to everyoine and its pissing me off!!!! how do i get him to stop??? (link)
talk to tha guy i mean he sounds lyke a total jerk..ive been threw this trust me..if u talk to hym he shudd stop nd if he dosent stop then i wudd take it to a guidance counselor!




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