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I luve my boyfriend Jason and I know he is the one for me we have been together for 1 year and 2 months and we have been talking about having sex but my parents are very strict and I can't talk to them about it so I need some help pleaze help luve ya!
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I don't know what you specifically need help with, but I can offer some things for you to think about and research more carefully:
1. The younger you start having sex, the higher your chances of developing cervical cancer.
2. You will need to protect yourself against disease AND pregnancy; this means planning ahead and usually using two forms of birth control. You will need to make an appointment with a gyno to receive birth control. Once you begin having sex, you'll need a PAP smear and gyno appointment every year.
3. Teen relationships usually do not last; if you want sex to be with the person you intend to marry or be with for a long time, don't do it. Unless you feel absolutely comfortable in every way, don't do it.
4. Sex will change the dynamics of a relationship, and not always for the best. Many teen relationships fall apart because of the pressures of sex - pregnancy worries can be unbelieveably consuming and terrifying.
5. The first few times you have sex will probably be uncomfortable or hurt. Make sure to have lubrication on hand and take your time.
6. Maybe find another adult to talk to? Your parents might not like the idea of you growing up, so find someone who is okay and realistic about your stage of life.
7. Use your head as well as your heart, and you can't go wrong. Be honest about your expectations and desires; trust yourself.
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well i know this isnt what we like to hear. and i would for sure know that. But ever stop and listen to your parent's reason for waiting to have sex?? I know you love your b.f. but until you get the wedding bands, he can leave you at anytime he wants! and that would leave you totally heart broken. Sex is very emotional and all that shyt. also. think of all the consequences before doing so. and let me remind you 10-30% of condoms dont work and 1 in ever 3 people have an STD. so think about that before making any crutial discision. :)
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I thynk if ur willing to have sex then u two needa talk bout it nd if ur parents dont want u to do it i wuddnt take ne risk bc parents kan b a real butt when they find this stuff out!
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Any questions you have at all, feel free to ask me!
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if u want to have sex then do it . . a lot of people do it without there parents knowing . .. who the hell would tell them that anyway
drop it in my box
Nicky # 31
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Oh Lord. That's a big step, be careful...you garra educate yourself fully on that topic before doing anything. Remember...your parents are strict for a reason...& I think you should DEFINATELY talk to your mom about it before doing anything...cause god forbid but if you do become pregnant before marrige...it'll be less of a tragedy for her...(and you cause you won't be that scared of telling her)
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Well,there are some things you'll need to do to make sure you're ready!You'll definitely want to get condoms and make sure he wears them every time!!Also,you'll want to familiarize yourself with your options for birth control.Depending on how old you are,I'm sure you have a lot of questions!! Feel free to IM me on AIM @ AnGeLbAbY51529 and we can talk more about this!!! Hope to hear from you soon!! ;)
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Well if you think your ready and you feel you are old enough to have sex the go for it! Just be careful... you don't want to get pregnete! But i'm all up for you having sex and if you really want to then do it! Good Luck
-Katie-
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if youwant to have sex then do it a lot of peoples parents don't know they have sex and they still do it
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I pondered your question for quite awhile. It hurts me to see someone in the situation you're describing because I've been there. Don't do it! If you truly love eachother, sex can wait. I didn't wait and I raised my son alone for most of his life. My boyfriend and I dated over a year too. I was convinced he loved me, but when I got pregnet, he wanted nothing to do with me or his son. Please don't do it! There are so many more risks out there these days than getting pregnet. Deadly risks! I pray wisdom for both of you.
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ok, this all depends on how old you are. Because relationships dont always last, and you dont want to end up getting pregnant and being a single mom, that would be very tough on you and the baby. I would say go get your doctor to put you on the pill, and wait like 2 months and make sure whenever you have sex that it is WITH a condom, you dont want to take the risk of getting infected. But i would hold off for as long as you can. being married and then giving up your virginity is prbably the best thing to do! hope i helped.
<3 haley
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