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friends/boyfriend clash
I was great friends with a group of people last year. We did everything together and we were the best of friends. This year, I got friendly with some new people and I started dating one of them. I love him more than the world and I have so much fun with this new group of people. The thing is, my old friends don't see me anymore and we don't hang out as much. Now my best friend of all is really upset with me and we aren't chatting at all. I don't know what to do, I love my boyfriend and I wanna spend every breathing minute with him and our friends but I'm leaving my old friends behind.
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Right now im stuck in tha same situation! But wut i have been doin is i spend some days w. my boyfriend nd then other days i hang w. my old friends! i mean their both 2 great groups of ppl! i mean divide ur spendin tyme in half nd spend half nd half on em! i mean if ur b.f get upset w. u then explain to hym hey look i needa get bacc to talken to my old friends! It shudd work bc its been workin for me nd my b.f dont care!
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you should all go out... ur new friends & ur old friends... the more the merrier
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ii know how you feel cuz ii just qot outta a relationship like that, but you should never put your boyfriend before your best friend as much as you look like you`re doinq . but if you wanna spend time with everyone toqether, try to think of somethinq that all of your new and old friendsz would like and see if they`re willinq to come toqether . who knowsz ? it could make both of your relationshipsz a lot stronqer than they already are and that way your best friend will see that you`re tryinq to make room and time for her in your life . maybe she`ll appreciate that and stop actinq sOo immature around you and avoidinq you and stuff . ii hope ii helped and qood luck with everythinq . lemme know how it turnsz out !!
xO stacii leiqh
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My mom always tells me this, even though people say that relationships can come and go but friendships last a lifetime. It's not all entirely true. I used to be the popular one and all that crap, now that I'm friends with the "less fortunate" as my ex "friends" called them, they don't like me anymore. But I could care less. It's their loss not mine. If they are gonna be stupid about the guy that you're dating or w/e and just not talk to you for whatever reason, that's their problem, not yours. Just go out there and make new friends. They'll get over it and so will you. I got over it. Hope this helped. If you need anything just drop one in my box.
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why dont you try including all your friends together and letting your old friends get to know you new friends and vice versa. then yall will all be friends and can all hang out! i hope i helped! -kayla
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you have to be able to balance everything. spend sometime with your boyfriend, but ALWAYS make time with your friends. maybe you can get the new and old group together to get to know each other. rememeber- boys dont last forever, but friends should.
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