i just dumped my boyfriend about 3 days ago .. we have been together for a long long time and when we werent we were always good friends .. so when i dumped him i said cant we just be good friends because i dont want this to ruin our friendship and he told me we were never friends and never have been or had a friendship and we were always jsut bf and gf .. and that really hurt me .. now im not even sure if i wanna be his friend .. today i just found out hes trying to get me jealous with 7th graders! and we are both freshman .. how does he think that works .. i think hes a pathetic asshole right now .. i need some opinions ... thanks love <3
sHeLLbEe933 answered Tuesday October 12 2004, 6:56 pm: tht is so MEAN AND RUDE!i guess just try to act lk it doesn't bother u and ignore him cus if u rilly don't lk him thts y u dumped him didn't u?... [ sHeLLbEe933's advice column | Ask sHeLLbEe933 A Question ]
SoNuLiCiOuSsS answered Tuesday October 12 2004, 3:40 pm: I think hes sayin that yall were never friends cuz he wants to hurt you... you hurt him by breakin him with him & he wants to do the same to you... you should talk to him & tell him to grow up... you should stop being friends wit him if he continues to do this [ SoNuLiCiOuSsS's advice column | Ask SoNuLiCiOuSsS A Question ]
Dimitris answered Tuesday October 12 2004, 2:57 am: Guys will say very stupid things when they are hurt, Just look at it like our version of crying we normally get angry instead of crying and moping around, now I'm not saying men don't cry they do, and it's more then ok too. but your ex is just trying to make up for the pain and rejection he feel by saying that stuff as for the other girls he trying to show you that it didn't hurt him and he can get on with his life Go up to him and explain why you broke up with him and tell him that what he is doing is not only imature, but is the wrong thing to do to a good friendship. Hope things work out for you.
Respectfully,
Dimitris. [ Dimitris's advice column | Ask Dimitris A Question ]
ManuelaVilla answered Monday October 11 2004, 10:05 pm: You dumped your boyfriend after dating for a while! I'm sure the only reason he is being such a "pathetic Asshole" is because he is very hurt! Liek when I'm sad or really upset about something I cant talk to people and if I do I come off as a bitch because I take my sad feelings out in a rude way! I say mean things. So just let this cool of for a bit! And if he is using the 7th graders then thats gay! Bc it means he cant get anyone his own age! I mean if your gonna make someone jealous make sure you use someone the same age (or older) and way hotter! Tell him I think he is a fagg! But on teh other hand just wait a while and try to ask him in a calm way to be friends if he is still being mean then just walk away! There is no point wasting ur time!
-Manuela- [ ManuelaVilla's advice column | Ask ManuelaVilla A Question ]
x3oXSeXiiGXox3 answered Monday October 11 2004, 10:02 pm: alls i hafta say is that hes a real jerk! and hes just so mad that u dumped him, and really wants to be friends with u but wont admit it because he still has feelings for u! oo and hes just gay when hes a frshman and is trying to get u jelous wiht a 7th grader! hOpE i HeLpEd xOOx [ x3oXSeXiiGXox3's advice column | Ask x3oXSeXiiGXox3 A Question ]
monn051 answered Monday October 11 2004, 9:44 pm: ok one thing i know it is the truth but guys hat it when you say can we just be friends you need. i am not sayin that is wrong but if he is like that then you deserve better. trust me god put somone perfect on this earth just for you.
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