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15/f and my brother is 11 he's similar to autistic. he gets so frustrated. if he doesnt get his way he'll freak out. when we fight he attacks me, pulls my hair, bites me, and tries to suffocate me. MY PARENTS ARE NO HELP. they dont even disipline him. he's SO FAT and my parents LET him sit in front of the tv all day and eat. he talks back to them and they dont even care. he doesnt wash himself and they LET him go to school smelling like SHIT. he CAN tie his shoes but my mom does it FOR him. he cant wipe his own ass without getting poop all over the bathroom. **DONT TELL ME THAT THEY SHOULDNT BE DISPLINING HIM JUST BECAUSE HES RETARDED** how is he supposed to get thru life? i cant deal with it anymore. someone help. (link)
im sorry about your brother, try talking to your parents, keep talkin and talking until they understand what your going through. He should be disiplined, he should whipe his own ass, he should not talk back, he should tie his own shoes. DONT lets him bite u suffocate u or pull your hair, if u do he's going to get use to it, and one day even try killing you. Tell him his fat, dont let him sit infront of the t.v and eat all day, take the food away from him!! if all else fails, see a sicatrist or w/e u call them. hope i helped xOx


im 13 yrs old and school just started....over the summer all my friends were goin shoppin but i had no money....whats a good job for me? please help im flat broke lol... :) (link)
Babysitt is first thing i have to say but dont settle for the people that pay low, go for the high payers lol, i babysitt and im 13 and i make about $50 everytime .. HoPe i HelPeD xOx


Help. When I order chicken wings in a fancy restaurant should I pick them up and eat them or use the cutlery provided? (link)
Eat it how u want! no one has the control over u to telll u to eat it with utencils! even if it is a fancy resturant, i think they would even want u to eat it with her hands! PIG OUT! lol hOpE i HeLPeED!


Well this is a record 2 problems from me in one night...
My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 11 months. I'm 16, he's 18. We are having sex. Mom knows, but hates the fact and thinks he wouldn't stay with me if I told him I didn't want to have sex anymore, and I'm DYING to prove her wrong.
But the thing is, I don't really want to stop the sex because quite honestly, I like it. lol. Obviously he does, too, but I know he'd stay with me even if I did say I wanted to stop. Our relationship is based on pure love, not lust. (not to mention the fact that we're engaged. Mom doesn't know that, though. She won't know for about 3 or 4 years.) Mom doesn't believe he'd stay with me. I'm dying to prove her wrong, but that involves sacrifice on my part.
If I actually wanted to test him, I'd have to lie to him, and I don't want to lie to him...
What should I do? Should I test him and prove mom wrong, or just leave it alone? (link)
I think you should test him.. because u never know maybe hes just in it for the sex/ and wehn he finds out u dont want to have sex anymore he'll brake up with u. But also if he finds out u dont want to have sex no more and stays with u.. then he really does


aight here it goes -- there is this guy that i liked a loooong time ago. and he was just really rude and obnoxious to me. i talked to him on the fone and he said he liked me, but that was before i met him, and then one day i met him at school, and he told my friend he didn't like me because i was black. and now he finally realizes that color doesn't matter and he likes me now and i'm starting to like him again, but im wondering if i should resist and treat him like he treated me for payback, or should i just give in and go out with him? (link)
i think that u should just give in and go out with him, because if he likes u and u like him, well than obviously u guys should go out! don't treat him lke he treated u .. even tho taht was really rude of him, give him a chance// u`ll never know untill u give him a chance .. hoPe i HeLPeD Ya! xOOx


i just dumped my boyfriend about 3 days ago .. we have been together for a long long time and when we werent we were always good friends .. so when i dumped him i said cant we just be good friends because i dont want this to ruin our friendship and he told me we were never friends and never have been or had a friendship and we were always jsut bf and gf .. and that really hurt me .. now im not even sure if i wanna be his friend .. today i just found out hes trying to get me jealous with 7th graders! and we are both freshman .. how does he think that works .. i think hes a pathetic asshole right now .. i need some opinions ... thanks love (link)
alls i hafta say is that hes a real jerk! and hes just so mad that u dumped him, and really wants to be friends with u but wont admit it because he still has feelings for u! oo and hes just gay when hes a frshman and is trying to get u jelous wiht a 7th grader! hOpE i HeLpEd xOOx


okay i know this is stupid but i have this eyeshadow/liner thing and i really wanna wear it tomorrow for some reason but the problem is it gets all messed up like 5 min. after i put it on is there anything i can do to make it not get messed up? or do i just have to just keep reapplying it? thankz.. (link)
well sorry to tell u this but if its gettin messed up after 5min its really cheap and doesnt work good! try getting some different kinds, MAC works so good! maybelline, cover girl work really good to andd there not as expensive as MAC - oo and if ur crying afer u put it on.. that might be the reason! lol - hOpE i HeLpEd!


im definetly not anorexic! and see the thing is, my dad is the same way, both of us could eat fatty foods ALL day and sit around and do nothing and never gain a lot of pounds!! but, it gets kinda annoying when...ur friends say wow ur skinny. and i know its good to be skinny, but still...ive been self concious (link)
dont worry about it being skinny is great! and its soo good that u could eat fatty foods all day n do nothing and never gain alot of pounds// i wish i could be like that!!


Ok, there's this guy that likes me and I don't know if I like him or not so I haven't given him an answer yet.But now my friends seem like they are annoyed with me only because I still haven't given him an answer..they hardly call me anymore and they seem mad whenever I am around them!I am so confused, I have no idea what to do! (link)
why should ur freinds be mad if you havent answered the guy yet? its not any of there problems, its just u and the guy. if you like him tell him yes, if you dont like him then dont lead him on n tell him that u do n tell him yes, because trust me thats not going to result in anything good! hope i helped!


This is a question for guys..im not redheaded but my friend is..and it seems like she cant get ne guys. Shes real pretty in the face but i was jw..do guys not like red hair or somethin? (link)
im wasn't a guy the last time i checked lol but ya if shes really pretty n has red hair n she cant get to get any guys - then thats just plain old weird! i mean i know red haired people and they have boyfriends.. if she doesnt like her red hair then maybe she should dye it .. hope i helped XxoxX


ive always been teased about how i was *too* skinny...ive always been self concious, and guys have said that im not...but i get mixed messages...my best friend told me i was almost anorexic! what should i do?????? (link)
well i dont mean to be rude .. but are u anorexic? also your friend may just be trying to make u feel bad cuz your really skinny .. and for all i know she could be a fat ass,, not meaning to be rude lol .. my bestfreind is a tooth pick! shes so pretty tho . ive always told her shes so skinny but i mean it as a good thing! so if your really skinny, im happy for u, i mean its better to be skinny than fat anyday ! i mean if your so skinny then ur probably realy pretty too! if you dont want to be so skinny, eat fattining foods, but if you like the way you are, then dont let your freind bother u! continue to be ur sexy skinny selff! -- HoPE i hELpEd!


answer this truthfully cuz i dont want all the just be urself crap

what turns guys on? lke what clothes, makeup, hair, body, personality! Thanks i rate good (link)
well im not a guy.. but i know what turns the guyz on! sexii clothes.. low cut jeans.. mini skirts .. tight, but now omg im ganna rip these jeans tight lol.. low cut shirts.. tube tops.. halters.. BUT guys dont want u to be wearing those clothes if your going to look nasty in them.. if you look better in sweats.. wear sweats!! lol guys like a girl to wear makeup but not to much makeup so that her whole face is fake!! they like her hair to be either straight or curly like with jail.. no guy likes a girl with a afroo! and peronality not a immature girl.. she has to have a sence of humor, and not a stuck up bitch! mostly just be your self! hope i helped!


Ok I went to this birthday party of my really good friend's *e*..and it was a sleepover..and she invited a buncha people i didn't know..so i was just talking to someone there the whole time *s*( someone who is also a good friend of mine ) and everyone was like yeah...lets go walking...we didn't know what was going on so we went with them and they started smoking..so we turned around and came back in the house..ya know we were like forget about it..so then none of them talked to us we felt really left out..but w/e no big deal..but then *e* said..we brought DRINKS! and like they took out a buncha alcohol and took it downstairs..so me and *s* felt uncomfortable..and we wanted to go home..but we didn't know what to do..we ended up calling my dad to pick us up at like 12:30 AM..and we told him the truth..but i really dont wanna get *e* in trouble because she's a REALLY good friend..? what should i do? (link)
This probably put u in a really unconfortable position, and i know that you dont want to get your friend in trouble, but if your a true freind u WILL get her in trouble. You shouldnt have to go threw that again. Get her in trouble and maybe she will learn not to do that again.


this boy and i meet 1 year and 2 months ago at a cabin and i live in minnesota and he lives in a driffrent state and we talk all of the time on the phone and internet.he asked me out and i said yes and i dont know if its the right thing because we havent seen each other for awhile what do u think is it the right thing to do since i like him and he obviously likes me??? (link)
If u really like him stay with him. If your going out with him just to have a boyfriend, tell him you'd rather just be friends.


my 2 friends (boy and a girl) r being all stupid about how we r to young to be wearin thongs and we all ask them to stop talkin about it and then dont they just keep on talkin it is so annoyin were 13 and we dont need it can u tell us wut to do
- the girls (link)
wow u wear a thong! big deal, doesnt ever girl thats 13? no offence but ur 2friends are like really immature if there ganna make fun of u for that. tell them to shut up n leave u the fuck alone.. n if they continue to annoy u well then just ignore them!




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