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"special" brother
15/f and my brother is 11 he's similar to autistic. he gets so frustrated. if he doesnt get his way he'll freak out. when we fight he attacks me, pulls my hair, bites me, and tries to suffocate me. MY PARENTS ARE NO HELP. they dont even disipline him. he's SO FAT and my parents LET him sit in front of the tv all day and eat. he talks back to them and they dont even care. he doesnt wash himself and they LET him go to school smelling like SHIT. he CAN tie his shoes but my mom does it FOR him. he cant wipe his own ass without getting poop all over the bathroom. **DONT TELL ME THAT THEY SHOULDNT BE DISPLINING HIM JUST BECAUSE HES RETARDED** how is he supposed to get thru life? i cant deal with it anymore. someone help.
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he's 11.. so he should be starting middle school.. and if he keeps this kind of lifestyle middle school and highschool will deeply affect him in many negative ways.. you need to tell your parents about this and talk to them over and over until either their ear falls off or they actually understand the hell they're putting you through and how badly they'll screw up their son's life if they don't intervene in this. it's great they want to protect him but it's not great to BABY him.. he IS 11 and he can tie his own shoes and etc.. but they need to fix this right away. if worst comes to worst seek mental help.. like a therapist or pychiatrist. but middle school with either influence his impudent behavior and make him like a convict when he grows up or beat him way down and make him a hateful person when he grows up. again.. make your parents aware of how overweight he his and how abusive he can be.. dont' let that little twerp do that to you! next time he tries to sufocate you kick him where the sun dont' shine!
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im sorry about your brother, try talking to your parents, keep talkin and talking until they understand what your going through. He should be disiplined, he should whipe his own ass, he should not talk back, he should tie his own shoes. DONT lets him bite u suffocate u or pull your hair, if u do he's going to get use to it, and one day even try killing you. Tell him his fat, dont let him sit infront of the t.v and eat all day, take the food away from him!! if all else fails, see a sicatrist or w/e u call them. hope i helped xOx
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Tell your parents! Tell them how you feel and what you think they should do. I agree with you they are being way to aw that's ok hunny type thing. Tellt hem what he is like and stuff... it is their faults not yours. RAte me please.
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