Okay...I went out w/ this guy who (I'll call Bobby) 3 months ago. We have remained really close friends, and I really don't want anything else w/ him right now. Well, a couple weeks ago I found out about this girl Bobby likes...so I told him to go out with her. They're going out now.
Well, anyway, people are always coming up to me now and saying that they know I like Bobby when I don't....how can I stop them from thinking this? Now Bobby thinks I like him! argh! I don't like him and I don't know why everyone thinks I do...I don't want his girlfriend to think I like him (because I don't) and because she is my friend :o/
Additional info, added Saturday October 16 2004, 1:34 pm: oops...forget to mention that I told him i don't like him anymore...my friend told him too (w/ out me knowing) but she said he stil thinks i like him!!!! ahhh!. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? russianspy1234 answered Friday October 15 2004, 8:47 pm: people in school spread rumors tahts just how it works. they get some kind of sick joy our of ruining your life. best thing i can advise you to do is get a boyfriend that could help. or you could get a girlfriend lol then no one will think you like him. you could always just talk to him since you are friends and all. [ russianspy1234's advice column | Ask russianspy1234 A Question ]
Uncontroledemotions answered Friday October 15 2004, 8:44 pm: well, dont pay attetion to what people think. tell him you dont like him. just as a really good friend. and explain that to his girlfriend. i can understnad where you coming from and where there coming from. i was in the same sitution, no matter what happens with him you guys will still always be friends. his girlfriend is just probally jelous, cause you guys did go out. [ Uncontroledemotions's advice column | Ask Uncontroledemotions A Question ]
MissEmmyBoo answered Friday October 15 2004, 8:22 pm: Well sit down Bobby and his girlfriend and straight up tell them that you do not like Bobby. And just tell everyone else the same. If this doesn't work then just ignore it.
-Hope I helped :)
*Emmy [ MissEmmyBoo's advice column | Ask MissEmmyBoo A Question ]
xoMarisox answered Friday October 15 2004, 8:20 pm: You won't be able to stop the rumors. One way is to embaress Bobby completely and yell at him sayin you don't like him in front of everyone, but that is pretty mean. Unless, you really want to do that go for it. LOL. The main thing to do is go up to Bobby and tell him face to face you don't like him and it's just a rumor. You might even want to add in that you like someone else. Hope I helped. Godd luck! Rate me please.
Karen answered Friday October 15 2004, 8:20 pm: The only thing you can do is tell everyone straight up that you don't like Bobby. When everyone hears what you say, the will stop because they now know that you don't like Bobby. Also, just talk to your friend/Bobby's girlfriend that you don't like Bobby and when she does hear the rumor that you like Bobby, she will then know that you don't! Hope I helped :) [ Karen's advice column | Ask Karen A Question ]
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