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Ok I went to this birthday party of my really good friend's *e*..and it was a sleepover..and she invited a buncha people i didn't know..so i was just talking to someone there the whole time *s*( someone who is also a good friend of mine ) and everyone was like yeah...lets go walking...we didn't know what was going on so we went with them and they started smoking..so we turned around and came back in the house..ya know we were like forget about it..so then none of them talked to us we felt really left out..but w/e no big deal..but then *e* said..we brought DRINKS! and like they took out a buncha alcohol and took it downstairs..so me and *s* felt uncomfortable..and we wanted to go home..but we didn't know what to do..we ended up calling my dad to pick us up at like 12:30 AM..and we told him the truth..but i really dont wanna get *e* in trouble because she's a REALLY good friend..? what should i do?
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This probably put u in a really unconfortable position, and i know that you dont want to get your friend in trouble, but if your a true freind u WILL get her in trouble. You shouldnt have to go threw that again. Get her in trouble and maybe she will learn not to do that again.
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i think that if you want to get your friend *e* some help, maybe you should tell someone about this. even though she might get in trouble or be mad at you, it will definetly help her. in the long run, she may forgive you and decide that by telling someone, you helped her. i have gone through this kind of stuff too, and i know its hard, but if you tell someone it will definetly help her and maybe save her life.
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You did the right thing. What if your friend got i alot of trouble or something. She will one day hopefully thank you. Also, talk with your friend about it. Tell her or him how you felt and what you think. It's not your fault they may get mad. If you care about them you would do that and keep helping them. However some people don't like to stress like that so you may want to telll your friend what you think and if they get mad... forget them. YOU wasted your time to help them. They should be thankful.
Good luck! Hope I helped. Rate me plase.
xoxo, maris
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