ok look there is this girl that i like and she is well one of my best friends i dunno it is just when i am around her i feel so loved and i mean she is really really beautiful and stuff. but tonight i was at her house for a party no occasion just a party and she looked so hot and she cuddled with me well she was cold and stuff.
but the question is how can i show her that i can be a good boyfriend and that i like her more then a friend.
RedNeckShOrTy answered Monday October 11 2004, 12:08 pm: Start flirting with her and see how she responds. Do something really sweet for her to show her you care about her. You should tell her how you feel about her. If she likes you back then you should show her that you want to be her boyfriend. Be really sweet to her and let her know that you want to be with her. If she doesn't like you back then you should find someone else. (Sorry if that sounds mean!) There are plenty of fish in the sea! I hope everything works out for you! GOOD LUCK!
Michelley answered Monday October 11 2004, 11:05 am: Usually, girls can tell when guys like them...but not always. So flirt with her a lot and be really nice and be really nice to her mom and show her how nice you are to your mom (*thats like a sign...if hes nice to his mom he's a good b/f) And just be really sweet but not like...clingy. Like if shes sick bring her cookies and call her like 2 times a week just to talk and then just tell her you like her. But don't get a friend to do it or do it on IM bc thats not good (* Remember: In the end everything is OK, and if its not OK, its not the end)
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~*Annie*~ answered Monday October 11 2004, 10:48 am: Drop lots of hints. When she's sad about something, give her a warm, long hug (us girls LOVE to be held). Smile at her and look her in the eyes a lot. When she's sick or feeling sad, drop by her house with candies and a card letting her know how special of a girl she is to you (you can even sign the card Love, (your name) if you really, really want her to know). Always be kind to her, but don't follow her around, that just appears to be desperate. If you guys are really close friends, then you can even give her a peck on the cheek good-bye sometimes. If you think that she really enjoys all these hints you drop, then go up to her oneday and say, "Wanna come over Saturday night? We could have a movie marathon." When she comes over to you house, make sure it's clean and doesn't smell bad. Make some popcorn and you guys can make root beer floats together. If it's a scary movie you're watching (like The Panic Room or Darkness Falls, or something), that might actually be an advantage for you, because when girls are scared, we jump and cling onto people. So you can like, put your arm around her or hold her at scary parts. Then after that movie, watch a movie of her choice. Or, you could go to the movies together and see something like The Forgotten. But don't make her see anything she doesn't want to see. Good luck! Hope all goes well :] [ ~*Annie*~'s advice column | Ask ~*Annie*~ A Question ]
xtroubleturk69x answered Monday October 11 2004, 10:18 am: show how you feel you'd be surprised by our reactions. Most guys don't know it but when a guy tells a girl he likes her most likely she'll give you a chance. And also, most girls go for there best friends too. Well because i do, lol. [ xtroubleturk69x's advice column | Ask xtroubleturk69x A Question ]
Dimitris answered Monday October 11 2004, 3:42 am: Hey man I Know what your feeling, and it is a mix of emotions cause your so happy when your around her but now that you know yop have feelings for her you also feel nervous but in a kinda of wierd good way. Thats cool its one of the best things about being young. well my advice to you is just keep up what your doing it sounds like you too have a pretty healthly friendship going and that is the best foundation to build a soild realationship on. if she feels the same you do it will happen, but maybe she don't feel it as strong as you do yet and if you rush things it might freak her out so My advice is this just go with the flow...oh one more thing don't start to act really different around her you like trying to impress her by doing really dumb things you'll regret it in the future. well I hope I helped out a little you should let me know how things worked out good luck!
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SoNuLiCiOuSsS answered Monday October 11 2004, 2:16 am: Soundz like she is interested in you... tell her how u feel... show her that u really care about her by giving her flowers, writing her poems & notes, buyin her chocolate, cuddling wit her, playin wit her hair, giving her massages, make her feel like ur world revolves around her... [ SoNuLiCiOuSsS's advice column | Ask SoNuLiCiOuSsS A Question ]
112903 answered Monday October 11 2004, 2:16 am: ok i read one of the things someone submited to ya and i really thing that advice sucks but what i have to say is dont just get with her alone and ask her out because if she doesnt feel the same way about you , you could not only make a fool of yourself but you can lose her as a friend. just show her that you care by like you guys were doing (cuddling) after awhile ask her if there is any feeling that she has towards you. me and my bf useto do that as well we would hold hands and stuff and eventually went out so im sure it will all work out well for you. GOOD LUCK!
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