i give advice to ppl too i just dont know what to do about this one. ok well ive known this guy since i was 3 and ive liked him since i can remember. well now im a sophmore in high school and i still like him. he goes to my school and now a lot of girls like him bc they think hes so hot and every time i see he him gives me a hug. and we talk about stuff and most of his friends are my friends and vice versa. well in 7th grade i told him i liked him and well he didnt like me back but then last yr my friend asked him if hed ever date me and he said im not sure shes kind of like my sister. well ive always been really scared to actually tell him how i feel bc hes like the perfect guy adn the perfect bf. hes hot and sweet and has never cheated on anyone and hes sooo easy to talk to. so please help me and tell me what i should do! it kills me when those other girls get to have him and i dont! thanks and sorry this is so long!
Additional info, added Sunday October 10 2004, 11:25 am: ok well i just wanted to ask if you think i should ask him what he thinks of me bc i know whatever i say to him he wont like get all freaked out or anything and im not trying to sound conceited but a lot of guys think im hot and i dont see why he wouldnt like me but i just dont know what he thinks of me. hes one of my really good friends and i really wish i could have him! tell me what to do!. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? PiEtRuSzEwSkI answered Monday October 11 2004, 6:47 pm: OK first of all KAAAYUUTE!! lol the fact the you guys have been such good friends since forever, and that eh called you his siste,r and thats a great staty, lots of people out there are to afraid to have a relationshiop with there BEST FREIEND (me bing one of them) but sometimes thats just a risk you have to take, but to start things off easily, maybe instead of telling him you cudl show him, like find the perfect moment kiss him, and he is that clueless the let him know why you didm it, adn sometimes youy might even realize that eh sint right for you by just s simple kiss, and sometimes thats how he figures it ou, cause if he really wants to be with you then he will feel it in a kiss!! So b4 talking try that, i know it soudns scary but if it doesnt work out, jsut say you dont know what got over you, lol, and laugh!! He'll understand if he knows you as well as you make it seem!! But anyways hope i helped, adn hope things wokr out, and have fun, adn pleeease let me know how things worked out!!! [ PiEtRuSzEwSkI's advice column | Ask PiEtRuSzEwSkI A Question ]
l0vEeyAhH answered Sunday October 10 2004, 11:51 am: well hun, it soundsz likee youhh reele wanna bee with this guyy and i totally understand-the easiest and perfectt answerr is thatt youhh shouldd jusz talk 2 him bout it because youhh mayy never know, even if he told youhr friend that he seez youhh as jusz a friend, that was last yearr,and thingqz couldve perfectlyy changedd soo talk to him alonee...not when he;s surrounded by his admirers andd tell him that youhh have feelingz for him - qood luckk!
XoXoIllOv3YoUXxOo answered Sunday October 10 2004, 11:30 am: alright well if you really REALLY want to be with him and stop seeing him date all those other girls then you should just ask him what he thinks about you and Tell him what you think about him. i mean he wont ever really know how you feel unless you tell him yourself. and if you like love him (not sure if you do or not but sounds like it) then he might even think of you like that too. just dont be scared anymore you said he wont get freaked out so take the risk and tell him. you never know you could have him for you. *~*hope the advice helps*~* [ XoXoIllOv3YoUXxOo's advice column | Ask XoXoIllOv3YoUXxOo A Question ]
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