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Well basically i have been around the block with guys so if anyone needs help or advice on that stuff i am great at it i think.
Also if your having like personal problems because i have had so many of my own i am very good with giving advice on that, BUT YOU CAN ASK ME ANYTHING YOU WANT SOMEONE TO ANSWER CAUSE I WILL TRY MY BESTEST ON IT!

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Ok, at school they want us to start thinking about what highschool we are going to go to, and a few people came in and talked about their school. I really liked this one school, and i told the rents about it and they forbid me to go there 1. to far away and the bus will be an extra 1,000 dollars and we dont hav alot of money 2. they just dont like the school!
Well my sister goes to this one school, and i went to school with her this one day its called shaddowing, and i absolutely hate it there and would be misserable if i went there, well thats the only school my parents will let me go to! But wait, thats not all of it... my cousin who is my age wants me to go to the highschool by him and i could move in with them, and leave my whole life behind, and i wouldnt want to do that, and it would make my cousin mad if i dont go there, and my parents said they would never talk to me again if i do. I am so congfused and lost. All my friends know what highschool they are going to go to, and all their parents dont care where they go! I dont know what to do, and i always cry now when ever someone mentions the word crying... help PLEASE!!!
Amber advice column name is shanberca
thank you plz answer this i really need help!

hey-- i am in highschool too and i am a freshman....unfourtunatly i did not have to deal with the problem you have becuase they choose the school for you....and then your parents can change you if they feel free too. but anyways i know what you are going through becuase My brother had to choose the highschool he wanted to go to...becuase we lived some where else. but anyways you should really talk to your parents about it and if the school they dont want to you to go to is the best school for you then put up one Hell of a fight i mean it is your education and your choice becuase you have to go there for 4 years...and i remember you mentioning that your family does not have a lot of money right now and 1,000 dollars is a lot to spend on a bus to take you home....but see if you have a friend going to the school and if you do maybe they can give you a ride home or take you to there house and then your parents come pick you up. But if they still say no then you may have to choose another highschool as horrible as that may sound. Maybe you should ask your friends were they are going and maybe check that school out....all highschools are not all that bad....and for you cousin if you go to his school then that is super awesome but you mention how your family would like hate you forever.....family is family and no matter what they say they WON'T ever turn their back on you because you are one of Their Children. and i know that is the truth because my family is CRAZY and says stuff like that all the time once they kicked my Bro out for 2 months and made him live in his car. but no everything is O.K. You have to put up on HELL of a fight just do what you want and if no one is happy about it then TOO BAD becuase you in highschool your going to start to learn to do things on your own and this could be a "jump-start" to all that. and if they are not happy at least you are. just listen to your heart and your mind.....becuase you are going to have to go there for 4 years and that is a VERY long time. well i hope the Advice helped and just remember it is your life. well good luck.

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i give advice to ppl too i just dont know what to do about this one. ok well ive known this guy since i was 3 and ive liked him since i can remember. well now im a sophmore in high school and i still like him. he goes to my school and now a lot of girls like him bc they think hes so hot and every time i see he him gives me a hug. and we talk about stuff and most of his friends are my friends and vice versa. well in 7th grade i told him i liked him and well he didnt like me back but then last yr my friend asked him if hed ever date me and he said im not sure shes kind of like my sister. well ive always been really scared to actually tell him how i feel bc hes like the perfect guy adn the perfect bf. hes hot and sweet and has never cheated on anyone and hes sooo easy to talk to. so please help me and tell me what i should do! it kills me when those other girls get to have him and i dont! thanks and sorry this is so long!

alright well if you really REALLY want to be with him and stop seeing him date all those other girls then you should just ask him what he thinks about you and Tell him what you think about him. i mean he wont ever really know how you feel unless you tell him yourself. and if you like love him (not sure if you do or not but sounds like it) then he might even think of you like that too. just dont be scared anymore you said he wont get freaked out so take the risk and tell him. you never know you could have him for you. *~*hope the advice helps*~*

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I'm painting my room next weekend. A few years ago when I put up pictures and stuff like that I used glue and nail polish to hold them up. (don't ask) so how will I get the stuff off I tried like dish soap and water but it doesn't work

i think you should actully try like paint remover or nail polish remover. now yes that will leave a stain on your wall but becuase you are painting over it that will just get that shiny crap off (i.e. nailpolish) and then you will have Fresh and Clean walls.
hope the advice helps

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OK well, I have two friends. Recently one of my friends has been hanging out with another group who me and my other friend dont like. Well, My friend who is hanging out with the other group always acts like nothing is wrong, but it feels like she is drifting farther and farther away out of the friendship the three of us have. I want to ask here not to hang out with this other group. But how, and how can i do it w/o hurting her feelings? Well I'm looking forward to advice! Thanx in advanced.

alright well this is what i would do just get. you and your other two friends to sit down and talk just the three of you. tell her how you feel say that it has been bothering you how she just has been drifting away and you dont want to lose her as a friend, i am pretty sure she will undertand and just tell everyone to be honest when y'all talk. That way you will be able to tell her how you feel and then you will be able to figure out what she thinks about the whole situation too. hope the advice helps.

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well i really really liked this one guy last year.And all my friends sadi he liked me ..that he just didn't wnat to tell me...And now i like this one guy...And i was told bye him that he liked me.....but now i am afraid..that if i go out with him...lata i will find out that this other guy will tell me that he likes me still or w/e....and that when i tell the guy that i might be dating..he will probably say(knowing him) " well what now that u knwo he likes 6you..ur going to dumpme for him...But i wouldn't do that..cause i don't got those fellings i have for the other guy any more...i have feelings for this guy that i like now...What should i do!?!?! I don't wnat5 him thinking that AT ALL....

alright first of all know exactly what ur going through. what you should do is totally forget about the first guy that never told you to ur face he lied you. now i am not talking about like totally leave him out of ur i me be friends with him but thats it. and if you like this other guy like you say you do then just stay with him. i mean you may figure out that he is aweosme and that other guy was so stupid or just not worth it maybe even immature. but thats what i think you should do. Hope it helps.

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ok i went out with this one kid last year and i still like him very much! well yesterday my friend went up to him and asked him out for me and he said he has to think about it. so today we were talking and making jokes and shes like ur should do this... and it was dumb so i was like yeah the day _____ likes me is the day ill do that. sp she went up to him again ( against what i said ) and asked him if he liked me. he said yeah kind of. so i dont know i was going to ask him out today but after that i just dont know! is that good that he admits to liking me somewhat or bad and i should forget about asking him out!?!? maybe its stupid that im asking a guy out but its hard to do so dont think im dumb! lol thanx!

Alright i know exacttly what ur going through. been through that many times. i think in the back of ur mind u should just know that he still likes you but try to move on becuase if you linger in the past then that will only mkae it hard when he moves on. And trust me he will all guys do. Also you should not ask him out but if you do want to go back out with him then you should talk to him a lot more and make sure you are always just being Nice. lol. If he wants you back bad enough then he will ask you back out and come back to you. *~*hope it helped*~*

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