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OK well, I have two friends. Recently one of my friends has been hanging out with another group who me and my other friend dont like. Well, My friend who is hanging out with the other group always acts like nothing is wrong, but it feels like she is drifting farther and farther away out of the friendship the three of us have. I want to ask here not to hang out with this other group. But how, and how can i do it w/o hurting her feelings? Well I'm looking forward to advice! Thanx in advanced.
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You can't control who your friend is friends with. If it bothers you that much, talk to her about it and see if you guys can spend some more time together. But if you get possessive, then you'll just push her further away.
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Ok, what you need to do is first of all get the three of you sumwhere and sit down and talk about it! You need to talk to your friend and ask her why she likes this group and tell her that you dont want your friendship to fall apart. Once you talk about it CALMLY hopefully she is an understanding friend and will work things out with you and your other friend.I hoped I helped!
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That has happened to me before, and its tough. My friend was understanding, so it helped. But what i did, is i pulled her aside one day and i told her how i feel. I said that i feel like our friendship is falling apart and i really dont like that, and im telling you this because your friendship means a lot to me. Then let her speak her mind. Why do you not like her hanging out with the other "group"? If its because they dont have a very good reputation tell her that... tell her that your afaraid it might hurt her. But if your jelous then you could tell her that too.
Hope it helps! I helped for me! If yall are good friends it will mean something to her.
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Sometimes friendships dont always work out. I know its really hard to deal with. I've had it happen. Just call up your friend and say, "Hey, i'm bored. Wanna hang out?". If it doesn't work, remember that you still got your other friend and i'm sure that you make friends easily, so start making friends! It'll be okay.
*Randy*
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alright well this is what i would do just get. you and your other two friends to sit down and talk just the three of you. tell her how you feel say that it has been bothering you how she just has been drifting away and you dont want to lose her as a friend, i am pretty sure she will undertand and just tell everyone to be honest when y'all talk. That way you will be able to tell her how you feel and then you will be able to figure out what she thinks about the whole situation too. hope the advice helps.
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You can't just ask her not to hang out with the other group. They're probably all friends now and there's really nothing you can do about it. Just go up to her and say it feels like she's drifting farther away from you guys and then make up a date where you can all spend time together. After that it should get easier. Hope I helped! Leave me one if I can do anything else for you! =c)
Love, RacheL
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