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how can i proove to mi boifriend that i love him?..and how can i make him believe me that i didnt cheat on him?
oh boy, thats tough. Well tell your boyfriend the truth, even if it might hurt.. but tell him how much he means to you. Trust is a major thing in your relationship, and tell him that. Tell him that there is now way that you would try to break that trust, ecspecially by cheating on him. Let him speak and make sure you listen, look him in the eye! hope that helps
I hate life like you wouldnt even believe. My dad left when i was a baby and my mom is on meds and living with a bf or maybe just some guy she has sex with and so ever since i was young i have been forced to live with my grandmother. My mom and aunt are on meds for depression and stress and they both claim its cuz of my gma which doesnt surprise me cuz she makes me insane, i wish i was dead like every 20 seconds. ever since i had sex she has been talking about eh guy for ever and its really hard for me cuz i really like him and she is the reasion why we are not together and all she ever does is tell me how worthless i am and how im stupid and how the only job i will get is selling my self even tho my grades are ABBBCC and she tells me that i am really low and just basicall puts me down every chance she gets. and i believe that is why i have no self confidence what so ever. and i believe that is why i had sex with my bf because he was the only guy who ever made me feel special and beautiful. but thats besides the point. everyday she reminds me of my mistakes and its getting old and i just want to shoot my self so i have been drinking and taking pills to make me feel alright and what not and well my question is this what can i do so i dont feel like shit 24/7? just a second ago i was going to go out cuz one of my friedns called me and she said oh you look easy enough, so how manny boys do you think you are going to fuck and so i riped my shirt and threw it at her adn said 100 get in line bi***
any ideas or insight would be much appreciated
thank you
I really believe you should get help, you should not be told you are worthless! Im a Christian, and you might think im crazy... but I truely think this advise will help! You were put on this earth for a reason! Do you have ANY friend that go to church? I really suggest you go to church, or talk to a counsoler at school, you really need someone to talk to right now. Drinking and taking pills will not help anything, and i hope you dont take that as offensive, i am just concerned! Stright Way is a great program that help people with problems like yours, they are teenagers and young adults who have been through times like these. I really think you should email them at: info@straightway.org and you can visit there website: www.straightway.org
remember "its just the weather, it wont last forever" you can really pull through, you just need to put your heart into it! I will be praying for you, I DO NOT think you are worthless in any way!
hey, my question is that i have a friend ok shes going to be 14 next month ok shes like all scarying me bc of her x.. like he got with a other girl he said they r going to get marry but see the thing is that the girl his with he doesnt even know in person i told her to move on she said its hard i know it is but what can i do to make her to move on or for her not to be hurted all da time bc it makes me sad my self bc it makes me feel like im not a good friend if you can help i would love it ok bye!!
Dont feel like your not a good friend, your trying your hardest! Sadly, there is nothing you can say to her that will mend a broken heart, if you have ever been there you know how it is. The most you can do is listen to her, let her steem off to you, and try and support her. Its an emotional roller coaster for her, but unfortunatly it is just the first of MANY to come in her life...its just the weather, it wont last forever! Let love free, and if its meant to be it will always come back home.. thats what my mom always tells me! She just needs a friend to lean on, and it will be tough for her, but she will get through it
Hey, please help me. (14/m) I was with this girl and a friend of mine, and we were all just hanging out, the girl that i was with is my girlfriend, but she's been since Thursday. She really is kind of creeped out by my friend because he likes her, but she won't like him because she likes me, and we're going out. Now my friend (we're going to call him F from now on) is good friends with my gf. Anyways, my gf and I were holding hands and everything until about 6:15 (PM), where my dad was going to drive up and pick me up. So right before he drove up, I asked her, "Hey.. (Gf's name here)... can I kiss you?" (Well my friend was making 2 fists and showing like making them kiss, and he wanted us to, so I asked) Anyways my gf says "Uhhh no," in kind of a laughing way, not meant to be mean, but she still meant no, so I said "Ok.." In kind of a quiet voice, and then my dad drove up as I waved goodbye. My question is, how come she said no? I don't know if maybe F was making her nervous or she wasn't ready or she was scared, or other things like that. Could someone please help me out, and explain to me what I did wrong and/or maybe give reasons why you think she said no?
Thank you for reading, please help ASAP...
Well maybe she just wasn't ready, I mean you havn't been going out for very long. Make her feel comfortable with you, and maybe not in front of your friend then ask. Dont ask next week though, she might feel like your rushing things. I dont know exactly what she feels because I dont know what kinf of person she is, but dont presure her into anything she dosn't want to do. Take your time.
My boyfriend of a year his birthday is comming up and i have NO clue what to get him..last year i got him the Tupac CD and a card...and our anniversary was last month and i got him a sterling silver bracelet with mine and his name on it and on the bck it had our anniversary date and well his b-day is in like 2 weeks and i wanna get him something juss to top it all off! has anyone givin their bf sumn they really liked? can u tell me the story..even if its cheesy like u sang or danced 4 him..JUSS HELP!
cologne and a gift certificet to his favorite store
there is this boy in school that i really like and today my friend told him that i like him but my friend told me that he doesn' like me. how do i get him to like me?
Well, most guys like girls that they can't get. So I wouldn't pay that much attention to him, dont let him see you staring at him in class or anything, and act like you dont notice him. I would say hi to him and if yall ever strike up a conversation make sure your really sweet! Dont ignore him, just dont make it so obvious that your crushing him
My friend just started going out with her first boyfriend, and I am really happy for her, but he is also my X. It was kind of weird, because shes taller. And I jokingly teased her, about it. and a little part of me was because I was kinda mad she was going out with my x, but I don't have feelings for him. ANyways, she was getting mad, and I didn't know, so she talked about me behind my back to her other friend that doesn't go to our school. Then her other friend was online one day, and I said hey, then she started going off on me. I was offended, and unsure of what I should do NOW.. What should I do??
I would tell your friend your sorry and you didnt know it was hurting her feelings, let her know that it just kind of upset you that she was dating your ex, but you have nothing against her and your over it. Remember to let her share her feelings and to listen to them! Try not to say anything that makes her feel like she has to defend herself so she dosn't get mad easily (from expierience) Try to be honest and just let her know how you feel
13/f
I haven't had my period for about two months or so..and I've been showing all the signs for having my period ( cramps, pmsing, extra discharge..the usual ) so I started wearing my pads..but it hasn't come for a while..like the signs have stopped for a week? Is this normal?
my cousin had the same thing and went to the docter, it wasn't anything serious but the doctor gave her birth control pills.. because its just not healthy (shes not pregnant or anything, and shes a virgin) but tell your mom and maybe she can help you out
OK well, I have two friends. Recently one of my friends has been hanging out with another group who me and my other friend dont like. Well, My friend who is hanging out with the other group always acts like nothing is wrong, but it feels like she is drifting farther and farther away out of the friendship the three of us have. I want to ask here not to hang out with this other group. But how, and how can i do it w/o hurting her feelings? Well I'm looking forward to advice! Thanx in advanced.
That has happened to me before, and its tough. My friend was understanding, so it helped. But what i did, is i pulled her aside one day and i told her how i feel. I said that i feel like our friendship is falling apart and i really dont like that, and im telling you this because your friendship means a lot to me. Then let her speak her mind. Why do you not like her hanging out with the other "group"? If its because they dont have a very good reputation tell her that... tell her that your afaraid it might hurt her. But if your jelous then you could tell her that too.
Hope it helps! I helped for me! If yall are good friends it will mean something to her.
OMG all my friends (in my age range ~14~) say its okay and that they dont think its bad to have sex at this age and half of them like, arent virgins!! I just relaized this today but i think having sex at this age is just plain stupid!! Am i weird or crazy? IS it okay to have sex at my age?!!
Your not weird or crazy.. but i think it is absolutly not okay to have sex at the age of 14. You might not agree because im a Christian, but sex is something that you should wait till your married for. Sex is a wonderfull thing that you should do with the one you love and want to devote your life to..and if you give it away at your age, it wont be as meaningfull. Think about the possibilities... you could use a condom.. but you still have a chance of getting pregnent (which you can't support), or getting a desease! Now that would suck having to live with that for the rest of you life.. wouldn't it? If you have sex at this age, it will be worse than an emtional rollercoaster! Okay.. well sorry if you feel like i jumped on you.. but stick with the answer you thought was right. Dont have sex!
Ok i have a problem there is this girl that i like well i should say that i basically fell for and shes going out with someone already. She still treats me as a very good friend and everything and we are kinda close but it just sucks cause she has a boyfriend and she doesnt realize that he does things to annoy her and a lot of other things that make her mad but she doesnt want to accept it. Im not sure if it is just me talking or what but i need to ask am i just jealous of the guy or am i looking out for her? and also what should i do about this?
I had that same situation, except i was the girl that wasn't accepting it. If yall are really good friends, and you have told her that you dont think your boyfriend treats her right, your oppinion should matter to her. I think that you are just looking out for her, because you care for her and dont want her to get hurt.. which is really sweet and hopefully she will notice that.
If you havn't told her, tell her how you feel.. but tell her in a gental way. You tell her what you think, then let her speak her mind... dont get mad though.
Do other people notice how her boyfriend treats her? If so, then tell them to "gradually" mention it to her. Tell them to ask her questions (for example..my boyfriend never really invited me to hang out so people started asking me "hey.. how come you and john dont hang out that much?" And then it might make her relize that your not the only one who think he dosn't treat her right.
Okay, i know that was long.. sorry but i hope it helps
Okay my friend is kind of lets say gothic... everyone picks on him at school and sometimes they get down right cruel. He has rocks, footballs, popcans(full),anything they can find thrown at him. He is also now afraid the go to school because of everything that goes on. Well anyways I was talking to him tonight and he told me that he almost lit a house on fire and he is thinking about homicide.. to the kids that are mean to him.. should I tell someone so no one is hurt... but then wouldn't he get mad at me.. I dont want him to get sent away cuz all his mom has left is him.. but wouldnt it be wrong not to tell anyone and have someone get killed.. plz help and fast before he does anything stupid.. thanks
Whenever you see someone make fun of him, stand up for him. Tell people about him, and how cool he is and how they should really get to know him. Make sure you let him know that killing himself is not going to help anything. Tell him how much he means to you!
You could also tell him to "kill them with kindess." Most people make fun of others b/c they enjoy seeing them hurt peoples feelings. But if he is nice to them (even thought it is tough) It will eat at the ones making fun of him.. b/c they expect them to hurt his feelings, and it will make them confused when it dosn't upset him.
Hope it helps!!