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I am in badly need of advice!
Ok i have a problem there is this girl that i like well i should say that i basically fell for and shes going out with someone already. She still treats me as a very good friend and everything and we are kinda close but it just sucks cause she has a boyfriend and she doesnt realize that he does things to annoy her and a lot of other things that make her mad but she doesnt want to accept it. Im not sure if it is just me talking or what but i need to ask am i just jealous of the guy or am i looking out for her? and also what should i do about this?
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girls are weird. when there's a great guy who will treat her well, she'll still go out with the wrong guy for her. does she know that you like her alot? if not, you should tell her because... it's weird, like sometimes if you find out that someone likes you, you almost usually start to like them back. especially if you're friends already. keep looking out for her, you're doing the right thing.
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well i think that you are looking out for your friend. it seems to me that you care a lot about your friend and you dont watn to see her hurt! no i dont think you are jelious at all.if you need more help on this answer im me at seksielilchick09@aol.com or e-mail me at prtygrl2009@yahoo.com
signed~:~Des~
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I had that same situation, except i was the girl that wasn't accepting it. If yall are really good friends, and you have told her that you dont think your boyfriend treats her right, your oppinion should matter to her. I think that you are just looking out for her, because you care for her and dont want her to get hurt.. which is really sweet and hopefully she will notice that.
If you havn't told her, tell her how you feel.. but tell her in a gental way. You tell her what you think, then let her speak her mind... dont get mad though.
Do other people notice how her boyfriend treats her? If so, then tell them to "gradually" mention it to her. Tell them to ask her questions (for example..my boyfriend never really invited me to hang out so people started asking me "hey.. how come you and john dont hang out that much?" And then it might make her relize that your not the only one who think he dosn't treat her right.
Okay, i know that was long.. sorry but i hope it helps
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Well sir, since im assuming you are one, if this guy doesnt treat her the wya you think he should, try having a casual convo with her, ask her how thbings are going, and if they are doing ok, and if she likes the way thinkgs are working out, and ask her questions liek what makes her really happy, to me it sounds liek your doing the BBIG BROTHER/I-REALLY-LIKE-YOU-GOOD-FREIND-THING beczu you said you like her and that you feel like you my just be looking out for her, but also be careful at what you say, us girls take things the wronf way sometimes, so be gentle, if you want to win her over, or w/e you have to make sure your only looking out for her, adn not trying to take her away, if she is truly happym then you should be happy for her, but in the end ofg there relationship you gotta be there, us girls are vulnerable, and im not saying to take advantage of that in any way, im just saying that if your there when she needs you, then maybe she will see what great of a a guy you, which i am also asumming you are, so be gentle, adn open, and careing! thats all we want form you guys! feel free to let me know how things turned out, i like hearing about it! Hope i helped!
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Dom,
Firstly, make sure the little things you're noticing that he does to bother her are really there, and not things you just want to see.
But do look out for her, and point these things out to her if they're real. Love (to any degree) is rather blinding, and people tend to miss things, or overlook important thing. That's why she has someone like you to look out for her. =)
Secondly, all you can do is be there for her and wait. Don't try to break them up. Chances are, if there really are problems with that relationship, she'll figure it out and the relationship will end by itself.
I hope this helps!
-Siren =)
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