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hey, my question is that i have a friend ok shes going to be 14 next month ok shes like all scarying me bc of her x.. like he got with a other girl he said they r going to get marry but see the thing is that the girl his with he doesnt even know in person i told her to move on she said its hard i know it is but what can i do to make her to move on or for her not to be hurted all da time bc it makes me sad my self bc it makes me feel like im not a good friend if you can help i would love it ok bye!!
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Okay, well you just need to be honest to her about the situation. Shes only 14, there are over 20 more years she has to look for guys. Honestly, when you get to high school its a WHOLE new world FULL of HOT single boys! tell her to not fret about this boy now, he isnt going to marry this chick he DOESNT even know! I mean..what if she is some physco fat lady 35 years old? NO one knows!!! haha! Just talk her down out of this love triangle. ((Your a great friend for caring so much!))
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u definently need 2 help her move on. tell her that her X is with a person he doesnt kno and that she shouldnt be hurt by it bcuz her X is being an idiot. she shouldnt wanna be w/a stupid guy. try to help her find a new bf that will make her feel really special. hope i helped ya!
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Dont feel like your not a good friend, your trying your hardest! Sadly, there is nothing you can say to her that will mend a broken heart, if you have ever been there you know how it is. The most you can do is listen to her, let her steem off to you, and try and support her. Its an emotional roller coaster for her, but unfortunatly it is just the first of MANY to come in her life...its just the weather, it wont last forever! Let love free, and if its meant to be it will always come back home.. thats what my mom always tells me! She just needs a friend to lean on, and it will be tough for her, but she will get through it
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