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Okay my friend is kind of lets say gothic... everyone picks on him at school and sometimes they get down right cruel. He has rocks, footballs, popcans(full),anything they can find thrown at him. He is also now afraid the go to school because of everything that goes on. Well anyways I was talking to him tonight and he told me that he almost lit a house on fire and he is thinking about homicide.. to the kids that are mean to him.. should I tell someone so no one is hurt... but then wouldn't he get mad at me.. I dont want him to get sent away cuz all his mom has left is him.. but wouldnt it be wrong not to tell anyone and have someone get killed.. plz help and fast before he does anything stupid.. thanks
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Whenever you see someone make fun of him, stand up for him. Tell people about him, and how cool he is and how they should really get to know him. Make sure you let him know that killing himself is not going to help anything. Tell him how much he means to you!
You could also tell him to "kill them with kindess." Most people make fun of others b/c they enjoy seeing them hurt peoples feelings. But if he is nice to them (even thought it is tough) It will eat at the ones making fun of him.. b/c they expect them to hurt his feelings, and it will make them confused when it dosn't upset him.
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he has a serious problem at the moment with this stuff. listen babe, try not to get into his business too much so you dont get caught if something happens, but since hes your friend, help as much as possible. go to someone who works at the school & tell them that the teahcers should start talking about bullying , or at lunch a teacher should come in & say that they heard people have been making fun of a person , stuff like that. they will do it trust me [= . they wont even say his name. just do it. also, does he have a father? tell your friend to talk to his father. <3
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I think you should talk to the guidance consuler. When people get made fun of and feel liek everyone hates them and depressed, people will do anythign to break out. He probually hates everyone at his school. You don't want another Columbine situation happening.. do you? Just tell the consuler, first off by saying, my friend is getting bulllied badly and his self esteem and self importanceis down the drain, continue into that and then say that he is haveing thought about shooting up the school. They probually will tell his parents and suggest consuling or maybe get it at the school. Tell soon, he may just be a time bomb about to go off.
*Leah
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seriously, talk to him about it. tell him NOT to kill someone. i have nothing against a little revenge, but burning their house down? maybe tell him to hold it back for a few days, see if things improve, and try REALLY hard to get the people picking on him to stop. try antyhing. you dont want to lose a friend, but u dont want sum1 else dead (i hope)
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awwww...why r people such jerks sometime? just b/c he's goth...get over it! anyways yes you should tell someone. let me ask u this, would u rather have ur friend mad at u or 10 people from school dead and ur friend in jail being charged with murder..? I'd personally pick the first one. Tell someone so he can get help or therapy and the school can deal with all the people that have been throwing stuff at him. that is called harassment and the other kids could be kicked out! Talk to ur counciler or a trusted teacher but never back out of telling someone! if you just try to talk to him u might not be able to get threw or completley stop him. hope I helped and good luck!
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Try and help him out, when people do stuff to him try and stop them, let him see that hes a good person and he shouldnt throw it all away by ruining it on killing someone who is shitty enough to do that shit to him
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u should tell someone. but if he gets mad at you then it's his problem he needs help. and the school isn't doin nuttin much bout it. so go talk to his mom and tell her. cuz if he will listen to anyone it would probably be either you or his mom
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Whoa, thats sad, i hate kids at school that are like that, being mean to other kids, just tell him that you are is friend and you always will be, tell him to not and go do those stupid things, its only four short years of his life until he goes to college then he will be safe, unless thats not an option, anywho, i say be the nicest you can be, so he knows that he does have a friend
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i say tell someone...he'll get mad obviously but after words when he'll think bout it...he'll forgive u...b/c he would kno u did it for his own good...if it was me i was gonna tell...xoxo effy
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i think you should atleast tell his mom of his plans. Think of it this way if he kills the kids he get's in mad troubel but if you tell his mom than he might just get talked to.since your his friend i think you should talk to him and tell him that theres no reason to go that fare and its totaly messed up how those kids are treating him, you could atleast report that to a teacher or the principel.
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umm im sorrry but there is something seriously wrong with ur friend but i dont really blame him 4 feeling that way but that is still to harsh.TALK TO HIM to get him over that crazy idea show him that people do care about him.dont tell ppl well the kids that he planz to hurt cause they will get all scared but do tell a councilor but before any of that HIM MOM cause she has the right to know to what is going on.but still to him over and over until he thinks throughly to wut desicion he is doing that will afect the rest of him life.I hope i helped and im sorry ur in this position.
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