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Question Posted Thursday September 30 2004, 12:19 am

Okay...I feel really stupid for asking but most of my friends have kissed someone before. I havent. I havent even held hands with a boy. Im really really shy tho. I could hold hands and kiss boys because lots of boys like me...but Im waaay too shy and i dont know how to kiss!! and most of the guys i like kno i havent kissed no 1 before. ive had offers lol and i can anytime..but im too shy and i think i will do something wrong. i mean how do u know if they just want 2 kiss for like a sec or make out for like 15 secs? help me plz..

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Additional info, added Thursday September 30 2004, 6:38 pm:
I don't want to do it just cuz my friends do it. I think I'm ready, but the thing is I just don't know how. lol. if that makes sense...oh and im 13..

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x33CrYsTaLx0x answered Saturday January 29 2005, 5:45 pm:
You sound super full of yourself. But anyways, yeah im 13 too and u dont really need to know how to kiss. Like theres no right way to kiss. And they'll pull away when they wanna stop, so thats how you'll know how long to go for. -Crystal *

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sExY_LiL_BoO_BeCkY answered Thursday September 30 2004, 8:25 pm:
Well, I was scared my 1st time 2, I guess it just has 2 be w/the right guy. Mine was w/my true love, but I'm getting off track. U should just wait 2 kiss until u r ready, don't think just b-c ur friends have that means u have 2. Once u start kissing "the one" u will know what 2 do so don't stress over that. I have lots of friends that havent had their 1st kiss yet, and they r ok. So, u shouldnt worry, just wait 4 the right time...hope I have helped!

*~bEcKy~*

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mysticpixie05 answered Thursday September 30 2004, 6:35 pm:
Dont just do it because all of your friends have. If you really want to and you are ready then go for it. It is not a contest to see who kisses someone first or even how many times you've been kissed and by how many different people. When you kiss someone it is not really something you think about, it just happens. So you will know when the time comes how long to kiss them for. You will be able to tell when a guy wants to kiss you and all. Good Luck

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-JP- answered Thursday September 30 2004, 3:55 pm:
Have sex, that's what all the cool kids do. You want to be cool don't you? Succombing to your peers is always the easy thing to do, being yourself, however, is the thing which would seperate you from the flock. Why would you want to be part of the dozen that only costs a dime? It is being true to yourself which is truly respectable.

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OooSooSexyy3 answered Thursday September 30 2004, 7:02 am:
ask them

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godslildevil777 answered Thursday September 30 2004, 3:14 am:
i personally think that you shouldnt kiss someone just because all your friends have done it and becuase you can. wait for the right time. and dont go kissing someone just to do it. get into a relationship first so it will mean something. and i wouldnt kiss like, on the first date. that doesnt mean shit. (sorry for the launguage) I have been in this situation before. my first kiss and my first boyfriend was just plain nasty. he was a druggie and a cheater and all kinds of stuff and i could do SO much better but i didnt care. i just wanted a boyfriend. that was a BAD mistake. all he wanted me for was sex. but yea, off subject lol. Well, just wait. your time will come. just don't go kissing someone just so you can have a first kiss. you want it to be good and romantic don't you?

Hope I helped at all....
*~Carrie~*

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