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Kiss?
Hey, please help me. (14/m) I was with this girl and a friend of mine, and we were all just hanging out, the girl that i was with is my girlfriend, but she's been since Thursday. She really is kind of creeped out by my friend because he likes her, but she won't like him because she likes me, and we're going out. Now my friend (we're going to call him F from now on) is good friends with my gf. Anyways, my gf and I were holding hands and everything until about 6:15 (PM), where my dad was going to drive up and pick me up. So right before he drove up, I asked her, "Hey.. (Gf's name here)... can I kiss you?" (Well my friend was making 2 fists and showing like making them kiss, and he wanted us to, so I asked) Anyways my gf says "Uhhh no," in kind of a laughing way, not meant to be mean, but she still meant no, so I said "Ok.." In kind of a quiet voice, and then my dad drove up as I waved goodbye. My question is, how come she said no? I don't know if maybe F was making her nervous or she wasn't ready or she was scared, or other things like that. Could someone please help me out, and explain to me what I did wrong and/or maybe give reasons why you think she said no?
Thank you for reading, please help ASAP...
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ok sweetie, honestly i think that the reason she didnt kiss you was because she didnt want to do that in front of your friend knowing good and well that he likes her... but trust me its not you. its just the fact that she wanted to wait until you and her were by yourselves.
*kisses* ~sammie~
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Well maybe she just wasn't ready, I mean you havn't been going out for very long. Make her feel comfortable with you, and maybe not in front of your friend then ask. Dont ask next week though, she might feel like your rushing things. I dont know exactly what she feels because I dont know what kinf of person she is, but dont presure her into anything she dosn't want to do. Take your time.
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Well you shoudn't of asked because that kinda makes the gurl feel weird. But she mite not of kissed you because F was there and she didnt want to make him jealous. I mean some gurls who know other guys like them, they dont do stuff wit there bfs in front of that guy because they are afraid it will make them mad or jealous. Well keep writing and hope it helped.
-AdviceAngel18
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i dunno but i think its realli cool u asked if u could kiss her before u did!!!
more guys should be like u instead of being a jackass and kissing a girl when the girl doesnt wanna be kissed
~*kris*~
p.s. if i undastood it right (which i probally didnt) F seemed like he wanted u guys 2 kiss maybe that waz y she said no becuz she thought u didnt realli mean da kiss u were onli doin it cuz F seemed like he wanted u 2 kiss her
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"F" prolly made her say no. Plus he was there making like hand motions and such, she prolly thought he was making you do it and it wasnt a sincere kiss that you wanted to give. The whole asking to kiss her thing coulda weirded her out a lil bit, dont ask just do next time. And you two havent even been going out that long, give it a couple weeks.
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Well usually guys don't ask to kiss the girl, they jsut do it. That could be a reason, but I'm not sure. She could've been nervous or just not ready. Either that or maybe she felt uneasy b/c "F" was there& she knew he liked her. Sorry if that didn't help!
-Amber
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who cares.
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