My friend just started going out with her first boyfriend, and I am really happy for her, but he is also my X. It was kind of weird, because shes taller. And I jokingly teased her, about it. and a little part of me was because I was kinda mad she was going out with my x, but I don't have feelings for him. ANyways, she was getting mad, and I didn't know, so she talked about me behind my back to her other friend that doesn't go to our school. Then her other friend was online one day, and I said hey, then she started going off on me. I was offended, and unsure of what I should do NOW.. What should I do??
true_image89 answered Monday November 8 2004, 8:57 pm: I would tell your friend your sorry and you didnt know it was hurting her feelings, let her know that it just kind of upset you that she was dating your ex, but you have nothing against her and your over it. Remember to let her share her feelings and to listen to them! Try not to say anything that makes her feel like she has to defend herself so she dosn't get mad easily (from expierience) Try to be honest and just let her know how you feel [ true_image89's advice column | Ask true_image89 A Question ]
KiLLeROnDaCourT answered Monday November 8 2004, 7:34 pm: u should just not mess w/her anymore bcuz she is startin 2 get irritated. she is only goin bhind ur back bcuz she feels bothered by u just jokin w/her. just make sure that she knows that ur just jokin and u have no feelings for ur X. hope i helped ya! [ KiLLeROnDaCourT's advice column | Ask KiLLeROnDaCourT A Question ]
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