about

Well this is where I tell you about myself so here yeah go:
-I'm in 10th grade in Nevada!
-Im also in softball n volleyball
-Im a flyer for the cheerleading squad
-I love to help people out hehe thats why Im here
-I love to talk a lot, inless Im really tried or something
-I like to dance, go out, watch movies, parti, go swimming, anything in the snow or just hang out w my friends!
Last but not least I lOove my bF!! Eric M! muahs!

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hey sweetie..question!:) my boyfriends birthday is coming up on sep. 3rd..and the same day is our 6 month ann. my first varsity soccer game and his 17th birthday. i already got him gifts, but i wanted to know what else can i get him..or surprise him with. i was going to hang out with him that night and do stuff with him like normal - but make it all about him..but i have my game..are there any little things you can think of? thanks!!

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Hey okai I think you said your bfs 17th b-day, 6 month anniversary nd your first soccer game is all the same day...so first off youll go to your game then you should maybi set something up at his or ur house or go out for dinner or watch a movie like maybi if you can remember your first movie or place you guys went cause thats soo cute like in "newlyweds" nd my bf did that too lol so like go somewhere special that means something to both of you like example: maybi the first place you both met was at the mall go hang out their or where your first kiss was or first dance you knw something to make it special as long as it wont be too much work for you I mean right after a game you do wanna rest nd all so thats the onli thing I can come up with some special place. Good luck, happy earli 6 month anniversary to you too also!
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help... tomorrow im starting high skool. i have been dreading this for so long. My skool is enourmos, it has 3 floors and i dont no where ANY of my classes are. i have no friends in my 1st or 2nd class. omg this is the scarriet day of my life. help me.. what should i do
thanx

Omg STOP, dont be nervous or scared no matter how big the school is youll totally get used to it I mean I thought my school was big my freshman yr nd lol its pretti small I was the same way I was like "ahhh what am I goign to do" but trust me its not scary even if you get lost the first week its okai its normal nd its normal to get scared when your doing into high school, but trust me youll be okai realli you will be Im sorri if this doesnt help much but its all I can say. B/c as scary as it seems youll do fine be confident lol!
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dumb question... tomorrow is the first day of skool and i dont no what to wear lol. im going into 9th grade. should i wear a skirt, should i wear capris, should i wear jeans? uh help! srry its so dumb but going into high skool ive been stressing out soooooo much. just give me ur opinion

Aww how cute lol I remember my first day into high school, wow was I nervous but I think you should just wear what you feel comfy in I mean if maybi you should wear pants nd shirt dont get over dressed lol nd if most ppl have skirts on then wear a skrit the next day but its all up to you hope I helped out some way.
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Ok, today my mom called me fat. Well, I don't think I'm fat because I'm 13 (turning 14 in 2 weeks), I'm 5'5, I weigh 113, and I pretty skinny but I don't have a 4 pack. I don't know what to do. I think I'm just gonna stop eating and become anorexic. I don't wanna go on a diet because I get of them in a few days and they are not help. Also, I don't wanna watch what I eat because I usually eat healthy food. Please help!

You knw what I dont know much about weight lol so this might not help but realli I dont think your fat I mean maybi she called you fat bc she thinks you have a little fat in certain places maybi you should ask exactly why she called you fat nd exactly where she thinks your fat then if you think your fat thier just exercise if not then dont care I mean shes your mom she loves you and all but its up to you how you wanna look and if you think your not fat thats all that matters kay so Im sorri if I didnt help and if I did then thats good!
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um i have a question . . . I like this guy but hes kinda of what you would call a "nerd" and if i ever went out with him people would laugh at me.Should i go out with him or find someone else?

Hey I think if you really liked him you wouldnt care what others think of you nd youd go out w him I mean if hes someone you like then why should you care what others say you should just be happy with what you want right? But if I was you Id go out w him without caring what other people thought of me! Good luck!
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First i wanted to tell you that in your pic your really Pritty and my question is that do you now any websits that have really good quotes??

Hey first im sorri it took forever to answer your question I knw you asked me on the 12th and todais like the 19 so sorri about that Ive been busi lol and the onli website for quotes that I know is "firehotquotes" nd if that doesnt help maybi you can like go to goggle and type in what kinda quotes you want like "love,funni,friend ones" so thats about all I knw about quotes lol and thanks about mi pic lol hmm well if you needa anything else write bac Ill answer back faster lol
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OK this might be long but i really need some advice there this girl i really like i talk to her and i told her i like her i but i never ask her out and im in love with this girl before i can ask her out she going out with some1 elese and i still love her and i talk about her every day and think about her every day what should i do

aww that is like soo cute I dunno why it just seemed like it is maybi bc Im in a realli good mood neways I think you shoudl go ask her out or have a friend do it you might regret not doing it and you might let her get away what if shes the one right so its simple go ask her out I mean it sounds soo easy and maybi isnt but I htink if you love her truly love her you should go for it you mgiht not find someone else like her soo go get her! :) GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!
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Im 13yrs old n im having some problems with my ex boyfriend..We were together for about 10 months n 2 weeks..I loved him with all my heart i mean he ment the world to me..I told him all of my secrets n everything about my life and sittuations i'v been through..But when summer started things started to go down hill..I never got to see him or nything..N he never called or e-mailed me at all..It made me get all diff. thoughts in my mind lyk "is he cheatn on me, does he trully love me, is he seeing another grl" I was so confused..I cried myself to sleep every night almost not knowing what to do..I finially got the courage to ask him if it would be alright to take a break n everything but we would get baQ together after all my thoughts were outa my mind..We just now reciently made this break lyk two weeks ago..N now all that is on my mind is him..I mean sumtyms ill zone off n have all these thoughts n sumtyms it scares me its really hard to explain but i just dont know how to get over this*Tay-Tay*

Hey I think taking a break might of helped or not but maybi you shoulda just talked to him about it and ask him why hes doing all this I mean you should still go ask him and see wats going on nd why hes doing all this to you and see why he didnt call or nething when u two were together nd also I think if you do go out w him you should try to talk to him nd call inless hes never home nd all but see I learned that if you have a lot of time on your hand you tend to think of ur x or wat their doing but the best thing to do is if you still like him first ask him wat was doing on then go out w him again if he still wants to I mean u opened up to him right you might as well talk to him about it so good luck nd I hope I helped if you need anything else write bac to me kays!
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ok theres this guy that I really like and the problem is he is one of my really good friends. I go to with almost nething. I really care about him. We hung out a few times over the summer. I talk to him about all my guy problems and my family probelms. Its just lately hes been kinda moody. I ask if nething is wrong and he goes no is there something wrong with u? and it sounds kinda mean. Now erytime I mention a guy he gets kinda mad or throws the subject away. The other day he got mad cuz I "lied" to him about liking his friend. When I dont. I just wanna scream it to him I like him. But I dont think he likes me like that . Im known as his friend. besides ery gurl likes him.....what should I say to him. and I need so GOOD advice plz help !!! sorry this is long

Well you know I think your friend could be right because when I read where you wrote "he gets upset or ignores the subject when you talk abotu a guy" to me that sounds like he might like you a little more then just a friend and who cares if alot of girls like him it depends on if you like him and he likes you and you should give him a chance and just tell him how you feel about this I mean if he likes you shouldnt you guys go out you should so Im thinking you should go out w each other and you should tell him how you feel about him because he could be the one for you and if hes not trust me theirs alot of other guys so the onli advice Id have to give you and maybi your friends have alreadi told you this to but go talk to him tell him how you feel and see if he feels the same way about you inless you dont want to then you shouldnt or the other thing have one of your friends just talk to him or neone to help you out to see how he realli feels because guys are realli confusing so I hope I helped you out kays! If you need anything else write back!
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Why is sex such a big thing now? I mean young people are even doing this, I just don't get it. What happened to waiting until marriage?

lol wow i wanted to ask this question nd i realli think ppl who do it when their young is very odd i mean some want to nd some dont nd they still do i dont get it either i mean realli wat happened to waiting till ur married or till ur older nd smarter but gezz who knows y ppl do it maybi cause they enjoy it hmm i dunno but realli if somone has a smart reason in doing it then tell me!
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what's a good way to make friends?

Talkativeness lol talk to them and maybi if ur in more sports trust me it helps and go to places so yea but just make sure u can do all that by being urself n having funs!
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what culd/can you use around the house to practice kissing(like if havent kissed eny1/few and you just want to make sure or something)...??

Well Ive seen ppl kissing pillows lol and their hands but realli i think it doesnt help when uir kissing it just happens!
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hey--i moved to florida in march and i dont like it here at all! my mom tells me to make the best of it but im constintly upset and i cry myself to sleep and its a mess. i barely have any friends and schools starting in a couple days how can i be a little more happier? thanks

Hey well look I cant realli tell you how to make urself happier because the same things happening to me almost gotta move! But I think the best way to get friends is to talk to ppl and join sports/ clubs and dont worri about wat they think of you if they dont like u its their problem and maybi you shoudl try talking to ur old friends like just call or chat online with them they could help my old friends were helping me out and maybi u should try talkin to ur family I mean thats the onli thing you got right now right? so try talking to them and try getting to knw other ppl kays! So good luck need anythin else write back!
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i'm 12 and my bf is 13. my bf is more experienced than i am and he wants me to do stuff that i dont think i should cuz of my age and i'm not really ready for. i need help to know how to tell him that i'm not ready for that stuff. pleez and thank u if u can help

Tell him to F off j/k...if your not readi then ur not readi theirs nothing wrong with that and pretti much all you should realli have to say is "i dont think i want to do this okai so maybi we should slow down" and if he doesnt understand that dump him because sweetie you shouldnt be doing stuff you dont wanna and u shouldnt be forced to do stuff that you dont wanna be doing especially when ur young and all so maybi you just needa tell him and if he doesnt get that then u can find someone better trust me same happened to me and I learned that im happier without a bf who makes me do stuff I dont wanan do. But this is just advice so good luck and rememebr you can do sooo much better if he treats you like that!
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Is there something wrong with thinking Ariel from the little mermaid is soooo hot?

Well I guess not but its kinda weird that you would think that and all you know but its not all that weird so no but remeber she is a cartoon and shes not real so yea! And thats what you think and theirs nothing wrong w that cause we all think someone is cute/hot/pretti real or fake.
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Im really afraid to ask my mom or sister about this so i figured i'd ask someone i dont know. How exactly can girls masturbate? in what ways? thanks!

Well see the way I heard is they hmm lol well they pretti much do it w their fingers n i dunon wat u mean by "ways" so i fu wanan get back to me and tell me what kinda ways ur talking about thatd be helpful kays!
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me and my boyfriend are both 15 and we've been going out for about a year now and we love eachother alot, and we are thinking about having sex..im kinda nervous(because its my 1st time, and its also my b/f 1st time), but i think that we're ready. the only thing that im really concerned about is the pain..is it gonna hurt really bad? or not? if u can help me, i wuld really appresiate it -*Nikole

Hey I think I answered your question but you might have tyuped it twice so look below ull be albe to find the answer and since ur 15 just make sure ur doing the right thing kays! If theirs anything else you can write back to me...
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ok, im 15 and ive been together w/ my boy friend for almost a year_and were thinking about having sex..i want to and everything, but the only thing im concerned about is it hurting, does it hurt at all? like really bad? or not that bad..cuz idk! if u no anything that would be really helpful! thanx -nicole-*

Hey Ive never had sex to tell you the truth so I cant lie about if it would or wouldnt but I hear that it does hurt for the girl...so thats all I could tell you that it may hurt for the girl but Ive never did it myself so I cant say that that was the truth but if you need nething else write back!
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hey i just moved to florida from new jersey and i have a boyfriend who lives in new jersey. do long distance relationships work out?

Hey I answered this and I guess you sent it twice so just look at the first one kays!
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hey i just moved to florida from new jersey and i have a boyfriend who lives in new jersey. do long distance relationships work out? my sn is cherryliciousxo2 please help me

I would seriously have no idea but if you can trust ur bf and he can trust you then theirs a good chance of it working out and if he n you can be able to visit one another and talk to each other but mostly they will work as long as you can talk/see each other and realli trust each other so good luck w him! If you need anything else you can write back!
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