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um i have a question . . . I like this guy but hes kinda of what you would call a "nerd" and if i ever went out with him people would laugh at me.Should i go out with him or find someone else?
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Hey I think if you really liked him you wouldnt care what others think of you nd youd go out w him I mean if hes someone you like then why should you care what others say you should just be happy with what you want right? But if I was you Id go out w him without caring what other people thought of me! Good luck!
x3 aBbii
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you should go out with him because you cant help who you like u dont walk around goin o ima like him it just happens and you cant controll it so give him a chance and if u dont like goin out wit him then tell him but if i works out then great... also if people make fun of you then thats their problem because you are happy and if ur happy then everything is good
hope i helped ShortStash
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So what if he's a nerd, loser, whatever. Why do you care what people think anyway? Not trying to be critical, but you really shouldn't be shallow. If you like the guy, then hell... why does he have to be accepted by other people just so he can have a chance with you? Or just because you won't get laughed at. But anyway, I suggest... to go for it. :]
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You shouldn't care what other people think.. if you like him, who cares. I say go for it.. 10 bucks says that half the people who make fun of you don't have a boyfriend/girlfriend themselves.. so how stupid is it for them to make fun of someone who has one when they don't even have one.. Don't let things that other people say stand in your way..
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Go out with him. Go out with him. Must I repeat it...GO OUT WITH HIM!!! NERDS ARE AWESOME. They are into stuff the "mainstream" guys aren't. Drawing, eccentric movies, underground bands. Go for him, must I repeat it!!! If you like him, it shouldn't matter what others think.
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It shouldnt matter what your friends or other people think about him. It only matters wut you think. I would go out with him. Just see how it is. If hes a nice guy to you then def. go with him. just cuz hes a nerd doesnt mean anything.. So good luck!! hope i helped..
lauRa
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Don't give a shit what other people think, if you like him, you like him. You can't help what you feel. I say go for it!
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ok i think u should go for it i dated a nerd so wat he was nice and sweet i didnt care wat other ppl thought of him u should date who u want when u want it dont matter what thoes other kids say its what in ur heart that matters i hope i helped u=)
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dont listen to those otha kids and do what ur heart tells u. u make ur own disitions not them.
*{Good Luck}*
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you shouldnt care what other ppl think about him, everyone practically hated my ex-boyfriend, but when i started going out w|him no one cared and just thought it was really cute for going out w|him, so go out w|him.
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Popalarity should never get in the way of feelings. hope i helped. drop one in the in box.
<3 laura
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I wouldnt care so much about what the other people think. Mayb they think that bcuz they dont kno him well enough. Mayb invite him to hang out with your friends so they could get to kno them, and mayb even think hes a really cool guy. I wouldnt find sumone else juss bcuz of a label. Juss b tru to urself and u can get past the labels! God Bless and good luck!
-me-
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first why do you care what other people think cause you shouldnt its up to you, you make your own decisions not everyone else and i dont thinkt hat it would matter you should only care about what you think not what everyone else does cuase if you do youll be doing that the rest of your life and its not worth it
-Cass-
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YOU are the one dating him, not anyone else, so why should you care what they say about his so-called 'nerdiness'? If you like him, just go for it!
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If you like him then go for it. Why does it matter what other people think. You should always follow your heart and not listen to what other people say.
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That's pRettie shallow to even think like that. Who caRes if he's a "NERD", oh well!! If you like him, you should DEFINITELY go out with him - to hell with what eveRyone elses thinks!!! Goodluck; I hope eveRything woRks out. Hopefully I helped!!
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if your not comfortable going out with him {{meaning that your not gunna like ppl laughing at you}} then dont. alot of ppl have that problem... that they dont feel right going out with a nerd. you might regret it later tho... lol. he might end up being a sexy beast that you cant stop thinking about and him not wanting to go out with you after his change. lol. but take the road that ur more comfortable with. if you make that mistake... its ok. no1z perfect. making mistakes is part of life.
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If you truly like him i would def. say YES! You shouldnt care what other people say about you. If they are true friends they wouldnt mind who you go out with unless he hurts you. True friends shouldnt tease you because you go out with a nerd. And if they do drop them they arent so true! aNy questions ASK!
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you shouldnt worry about what other people say or think about you if you really like this guy then i think you should go for it and if those people really are trully your friends they would except the people you love and go out with
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If you really like this guy then i think you should go for it! But dont listen to what ppl tell you about him
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you shouldn't care what other people think of you. maybe once you start going out with him, other people will realize what a cool and sweet guy he is. just because he's smart doesn't mean he isn't boyfriend material .. lol =)
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If u really like him, then I'd say, go out with him! It doesn't matter wut others think of him, it's about wut u think of him. Stop worrying about wut others think of u and have fun! :-D
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omg, if you like the guy, it doesnt matter what other people think. i have just recently gotten to the point of i dont care what others think of me, and it is a great feeling. so just go for it. if others make comments, just be like "so what, i dont care!" and eventually they will leave you alone.
Juelz
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dude, it duznt matter, wat matters is if u like him alot dont think of wat other people say but if u dont want them 2 no then dont let ne1 no in other words TELL NO1! make the rite choice !rate me!!
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ok hell no should u find someone else! if u really like this guy who cares about wut everyone else thinks! if people are your friends they wont laugh at u. its ur decision on who u go out w/....dont let other people control it! hope i helped...drop one in my inbox!
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why would you care what people think if you really like him? Go out with him of course! its a stupid idea not to go out with someone because of social status because in the scheme of things, what does that really matter? When your an adult there are no nerds and popular people. It shouldn't matter if you really like him.
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u should deff go out with him who cares what others think if you like him go for it nerds gotta be loved to
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Ah, this is such a common problem. People always want to like people who are in the same social standing as them, especially in school. But if you're in the real world, that doesnt matter so it shouldnt now. You have to listen to your heart becuase only you and your heart can make that decision for you. Not anyone else. Who cares if thy laugh, you'd be the one with a boyfriend.
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Look all i gotta say is if you really like this guy than it doesn't matter what other people think of him because they are not the ones that like him ... YOU are!! Go with YOUR heart not others. if you can`t get some one off your mind
maybe their supposed to be there
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Ok well dont classify him first of all. Your all people. If you like him go out with him. Dont care about what other people think. If you wanna b with him do it itll b great. But your gunna wimp out because your afraid of wat others will think then thats pothetic.
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give it a try - maybe he's only a nerd cuz nobody else gave him a chance! you can always break it off
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Have u ever seen those movies were the nerds always turn out to be rich sexii millionaires? Well.. That barely ever happens.. However, if u truely like this guy, u wouldn't think twice about wat others would think of him, and just stand up for yourself. I think that you should give him a try.. and who knows? Maybe you'll find out what friends are really true.. and what people aren't worth impressing. Tell me what happens!!
*Mayya
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who cares wat other ppl say!!!!
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listen honey it don't matter what other people say. i went out with a "nerd" and some people didn't even realize it!! i hung out with him and all that stuff and they didn't even know about it. i had to tell them! beleive me people won't laugh, when people found out about me they didn't laugh, so they won't laugh at you. if they do then they are jerks!
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don't listen to what other people say. you like him and that's all that matters. good luck!! send me a message if you need more help
Kristen
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Hell with what other people say. If you like him,I say give him a shot. If you like him,then he must be pretty cool. They're just jealous you're getting a good guy and they're not.
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Dont worry about what people say... cuz whether u are going out with a nerd or a hott boi people will always make up sumthing to say about u or him... haters are always gonna talk shit no matter what...
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it doesn't matter what other people think, all that matters is that you like him or not!
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You should go out with him. If you really like him, you shoul give him a chnage. Also, it`ll boost his ego. You may be surprised, I`m sure he`ll have a lot more to offer then some typical guy. & Also, *try* not to care so much what people think. I know it`s hard.
<3 megan
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You really shouldn't care what other people think. If you like this guy then go out with him!! Nerds are awesome! =D Good Luck!!
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Hey GO OUT WITH HIM if your friends laugh then they arent you friends and if people laugh just ignore them if you really like him and if he likes you nothing else matters!!! and if you really need to buy him new clothes act like there girts! lol
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im in the same situation as u r. i'm probably going 2 go out with him and i don't really care what other ppl say about us. i just know what i feel!! don't worry about what ppl say. as long as u know that u 2 r right 4 each other. go with your heart!
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I guess it matter is you REALLY care what everyone thinks about you....If you have feelings for him, then why not go on a few dates with him, if your friends make fun of you or give you a hard time, first you need to consider if thats the kind of people you want to be friends with, they shouldnt judge you like that and second do u want to be with people that shallow, and become shallow YOURSELF because you wont date someone that is the same status as you.....Good luck! I would say go for it! xoxo
*~MALLY~*
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good quote:: do whats right for you because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind!<--lol a lil confusing but basically do whatever you feel is right. people will have to deal with it and if you get laughed at, then you'll know who your true friends are! people should like you for you and not who you're with. hope that helps! <333
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if you like him go for it. "nerds" are now like millionares. Dont care what other ppl think.
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If you haven't noticed, the nerds are now running the world. Who cares what other people think. Relationships are built on trust and how you feel about one another. If your friends laugh at you, get new friends.
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