*NaMe: Kayla* *AgE: 13* *HeIgHt: around 5ft & 4inch* *EyEs: blue/green* *HaIr: blond with red highlights* I've always loved helping my friends out with there problems and as soon as i found out about this website i had to join. So please, if you have a problem come and ask me id be more then happy to try and help. It doesnt matter to meh what the topic is even if its personal.
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Location: Berkley
Occupation: Berkley Middle School
Age: 13
Member Since: July 23, 2004
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My best friend kinda likes the same kid i do n she fools around with him and so do i but i get jelouse when she does it so what should i do?? (link)
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Simply tell her how you feel. I've been in the same possition but once we both knew that each other liked him we both flirted with him and just became his best friend. So let her know. Hope I Helped!
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im 14.. OK this is kinda complicated. i really like this boy and his friend just asked me out. its really hard for me to say no to guys but i dont like him--i like his friend. and i think his friend knos i like him too. how should i tell him i dont want to go out with him but not hurt his feelings cuz i like his friend? please help!! (link)
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say something as simpple as " im sry but i dont like you in that way. I like somebody differnt." PLain and simple and hopefully he'll get that ur tryin to put him down easy.
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i cannot use the bathroom when im not at home. im so afraid someone will come thru the wall behind the toilet when im going and strangle me like in austin powers 1. is that weird? (link)
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Ok yes it is a little wierd but thats ok. Just think, how can someone come through the wall and strangle you. Austin Powers is a movie. The man coming through a wall is special affects. Its not like someone really came through a solid wall. Trust me no one will come through your wall and strangle you. Think, who would want to strangle you while your going to the bathroom neways. Austin Powers is just that kind of movie.
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Should i shave my pussy ? do you shave ? Will it grow back ? (link)
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If you want to go for it. Yes i do shave down low but its up to you. You can try it and if you dont like it yes it will grow back.
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im very good friends with this boy and i know he jacks off ... should i be a good friend and help him . i no he would like it alot so should i give him head were just friends but idc (link)
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you should only do it if you like him. wats the point in doing it if you guyz are just friends. He'll like you eitha way from wat it sounds like. Its not like hes begging you and will only like it if you do it. Wait for someone you like.
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Do guys like to be kissed with or without lip gloss? Wouldn't that be gooey and slippery? How can you tell if your lip gloss will taste good to him? (link)
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I was kinda wondering teh same thing. Wat i tihnk is that girls should wear any kind of like flavord chap stick. It will taste good and not be to slipery.
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Ok i have a really important question. i really want to have sex but i am not sure when girls can get pregnate. i have already have my period but is it after u get it wheil u have it or what?? plz help me (link)
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Any time after you have it for the first time. It coulb be while your having it or inbetween months...i doesnt matter
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Im 16 and My 16 year old Best friend is in love with my 16 year old ex boyfriend im pass the stage of you cant get with your best friends ex boyfriend, my problim is she really likes him she is like obsessed but he dont like her well he thought he might of but now he says he dont cuz she is inscure but they both ask me what they should do like he says should i just go out with her even thought i dont like her and she asks what can i do to get him to go out with me and then im left in the middle and my ex is also one of my best friends now so i dont really want to pick sides but i want them both to be happy i really am kinda sick of this situation help me please! (link)
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Well tell ur gurl best friend that if she really likes him to aproache him herself. You dont like being in the middle so refuse to be. Be like talk to each other not me.
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um i have a question . . . I like this guy but hes kinda of what you would call a "nerd" and if i ever went out with him people would laugh at me.Should i go out with him or find someone else? (link)
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Ok well dont classify him first of all. Your all people. If you like him go out with him. Dont care about what other people think. If you wanna b with him do it itll b great. But your gunna wimp out because your afraid of wat others will think then thats pothetic.
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well my boyfriend has been different lately..liek hes not as caring or nice anymore..hes mad at me a lot for the tinniest stuff and idk if hes using me. we've been off and on since the 6th grade..i mean i absolutey love him to death, but what if he doesnt feel the same? and today he got off the phone w. me to talk t another girl and he said it was his mom! idk .. i just dont wanna lose him cuz i cant love w.o him ive always known we're meant to be .. what do i do? (link)
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Ok well it kinda does sound like hes using you. But dont just jump to conclusions. Talk to him aboubt it. Be like "Well y did u lie and tell me that it was your mom when it was another gurl. I feel like you dont like me the same way that i like you. If theres something going on let me no." Just simply talk to him. But you have to be prepared for the worst. Maybe he does feel differently. If so try to move on. Youll find someone better who will acually care for you the same way. If he does still like you then talk to him about how hes been treating you and if he could maybe stop cuz he may not even realize that hes getting mad over nething. Maybe theres suttin he wants to get off his chest. Just talk to him. I hope I helped and everything goes ok!
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I'm 13 M and I was recently talking to my friend (13 F) when she told me that she liked me. I had a crush on her for about a year now and so i was excited when we talked more i thought that she really liked me. But then when we talked again she told me that she liked me but that she liked my friend better. See the thing is i can't stop thinkin of her and i dont know what to do.
Thanks for any help! (link)
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maybe ur friend doesnt like her back. If he doesnt explain that he doesnt have feelings for her but you do so maybe you guyz could try going out. If she says yes make her have a good time with you every time you guyz get together so she'll like you the best. If he does like her back either explain it to your friend or just let nature take its course with them. hope i helped a little bit!
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Has anyone in here ever tried smoking pot and their not a complete pt head? I want to try it cause it looks and sounds fun.. but I don't want to become a pot-head. I just want to know what its like ur first time.
I want to be able to smoke with my boyfriend.. and not like caugh and stuff.. but not like have to rely on pot to have fun.
Can anyone tell me what its like to try it for the first time?? (link)
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No i havnt tryed somking pot. I was around a guy who did it one time and it seems really dumb. The kid is nice and everything but he kept asking meh if his eyes were red and glossed. Then we put some music on and he couldnt stop wiggling. We were like r u ok. You shouldnt do it just to impress your B/F. Thats stupid. If its something you really want to do for you then just take like one puff or something to see what in general smoking is like. Getting high really isnt as great as it seems. You can get tired or dizzy. People i know who have done it told meh that it makes things look like there in slow motion and you feel all fuc*ed up. Its really a bad idea. You get hooked fast!...hope i helped!
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On Friday I was with this boy it was our first time hanging out we've been friends for almost a year. We made out and stuff and he went up my shirt. He kept asking to finger me and I said no and then he would ask again and again. I dunno I think this is a little werid don't you? We're not going out like bf and gf but I can see us doing that. I really do like him but should I let him?? and please don't tell me o0o wait until ur comforable bc I don't want him doing it then never talking to me again. sry if this is long (link)
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If you really want to let him do it then go for it but first maybe try hangin out more and tehn possibly goin out that way u know if he really likes u or is just a horny guy...hope that hepls
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Is it considered "dorky" to roll jeans that are a little short into capris? or should I just cut them? Thanks (link)
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wat i would do is cut one pair and modle both for your friendz and get there opinion
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Why is sex such a big thing now? I mean young people are even doing this, I just don't get it. What happened to waiting until marriage? (link)
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not a clue...yong kids now just think it makes them kool or suttin i guess but i agree wit u its stupid...it would mean so much more to doo it with sum1 ull love forever!
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I didn't know what catogory to put this in. What are some good truth or dares to use at a sleepover or something? (link)
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dare your friendz to like call the guy they like and you can eitha make them say stuff to make them look bad or if u wanna b nice b like ohh i dare you to ask them out. If its a truth ask something like whats the farthest youve gone wit a guy or the farthest they would go...hope i helped at least a lil...please rate meh
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Ok, I'm sorry, I really don't need advice but...
Is it just me, or is every1 else sick of these kids in their early teens talking about having sex?
It is fully YOUR decision about whether or not u are ready 4 sex but if u r having any doubts about it that u prolly aren't ready. Even better, u should prolly wait until ur older (or even married) cuz then u know that u truely love the person cuz u shouldn't b doing anything that u might regret.
Ok... I think that about does it w/ my tyraid... (link)
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i feel the same way as you. to many kids are doing it so young. What they dont know is that girls give off a hormone that attatches then to the person they have sex with for he first time. Guys dont so when you brake up ur heartbroken and wasting a lot of there time on this one guy.
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ok my boyfriens thinks that i am pregant because i have been complaing about my stomach hirting. and i tryed to tell him that its not that because i havent fucked in like 3 mouths. so what should i tell him....?most importantly how am i gonna get a test with out my parents seeing it.....? they still think that i am a virgin!!!!
help me please becasue i cant lose him!!!!! (link)
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Well have you gotten your period in the last 3 months!!! lol..if you havnt then you better start thinkin of some cute names
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how far would you go with a guy, and could you seriously answer the question? cause if you dont that doesnt seem to answer my question, dont be shy! (link)
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Im kinda a goody goody so I would make out wit a guy and mayb let him up my shirt or sumthing but i would have to really feel comfortable wit him and been wit him for a while
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Well you see me and my boyfriend have been going out for a little over a month now and we weren't aloud to kiss. I finally found out I was aloud to kiss and I told him. He keeps talking about making-out next time I see him but I don't want to rush into things. I have a feeling its because his brother keeps telling him to kiss me and things like that and he wants to be like his brother and make-out with his girlfriend all the time. I don't know what to do, please write, I'll rate!
-Nerveous (link)
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If I were you I would just tell him that ur finally aloud to kiss so u want to start off slow. Your obveisly not experianced yet (not saying that in a bad way) so youl probly wanna do simple kisses on the lips then gradually get a lil more and more. If hes truly into you and cares bout you hell understand...Hope I helped sweetie! let meh no how things go
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