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On Friday I was with this boy it was our first time hanging out we've been friends for almost a year. We made out and stuff and he went up my shirt. He kept asking to finger me and I said no and then he would ask again and again. I dunno I think this is a little werid don't you? We're not going out like bf and gf but I can see us doing that. I really do like him but should I let him?? and please don't tell me o0o wait until ur comforable bc I don't want him doing it then never talking to me again. sry if this is long
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If that's all he wants do to you... then he obviously wants to take advantage of you. Aside from that, tell him how you fell... and how he responds to you should give you an idea. :] Hope I helped somewhat. Good luck, hun.
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well if you like him go out with him. Guys will always try to pressure a girl into doing something like that.....especially Sex. You did a great job of saying no. For one he will respect you a little bit more and make him want you more. For some reason girls love to play hard to get and it's a major turn on for me because when it does happen it's awesome! Im 20 and yes i have tried to pressure girls in the past but i respect all the ones that said no and didn't let me get to the next step. Just go with the flow of things and when it feels right then it's good to go
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i think that you should wait til your gf & bf..because..if your going out..thats different then just letting him..but thats totally up to you..if you really want to, then go ahead..but..only you know whats right.
xoxo- hope i helped
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The guy is disrespectful. Dont let him do anything you'd feel uncomfortable with..
You said no, he pushed. Hes an asshole.
End of story.
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to me it seems like he only wants u for wut u have to offer...if he likes u then he will respect the fact that u dont want him to do that to u
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Ewww.... fingering is so nasty. Can you imagine where his hands have been? Its not like he'll wash them. His fingernails can scratch and OWWWWW. Imagine how painful itd be to have a scratch in your vagina. Theres also dirt and other dirty stuff under his nails.
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Well, i don't think he should be doing that in the first place, if you're not going out. But don't let him do it if it feels weird to you. Even if you like him, you gotta do whats good for you.
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OKay so what your scared of is that you'll let him do it and he'll never talk to you again? That's not weird ... it typically normal. Okay, here's I see it. if you are comfortable with it and all, let him do it. I mean, the way your talking is that your ready for it, but your scared you'll lose him. I seriously doubt he would stop talking to you ... if you've been friends for a year now ... but yeah ... i hope everything works out with you!
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If you don't want him to tell him no, and if he can't deal with it then it is his loss, not yours. Personally if a guy kept asking me over and over I wouldn't let him touch me because if he can't get it through his head the first time then I'm not sure when he ever will.
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well thats good that you didnt want him going too far too soon!!! most girls dont do that sad to say. Tell him why you didnt let him go that far and then maybe that little chat will turn into him asking you out!!! but try to get out of him what he really wnats in a relationship...make sure he just doesnt want to hit it and forget it!!!
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Ok, If he like him and you know you can trust him then follow what your gut is telling you to do. I think you will be the only one that can make the best decision.
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oh sweetie i mean yeah im going to say do what your comfortable with and all but i cant cause you said so and i mean if this guy likes u and all then i mean it wouldnt hurt but its all up to you
-Cass-
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well you should really wait until your comfortable and never compromise for a boy about sexuallity. it is a little wierd.
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If you really want to let him do it then go for it but first maybe try hangin out more and tehn possibly goin out that way u know if he really likes u or is just a horny guy...hope that hepls
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NO offense, i dont think good friends ask to finger good friends, EWWW
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First of all... I think u shouldnt let him. I dont know this guy but it sounds like hes going for u cuz he wants some. ((if u know what I mean)) Thats really disrespectful. Also in my opinion letting a guy finger u is kind of slutty. Its ur life and ur man though. U two should atleast be going out to do nething like that u know?
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juss tell him be like look i really like u but we aint going out and if ne one finds out they guna think of me as a ho cuz i aint go wit u and then otha guys guna wana do stuff and i juss aitn comfotable unless we going out.... so if we go out then yea u can but until then NO!
say suttin like that..
<3 SunShiiNe
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just say youll tell him wen its ok and that he shouldnt just keep asking ok so just try 2 keep him controlled cuz he seems like a frisky anxcious little monkey and all u 2 do is let him out his cage only wen hes behaved lol ok tell me how it works out ok
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personally i dont think u should let him, i mean if its ur first time together, he shouldnt even be moving that fast, but some guys r like thta, but if u really like him, u should get to know him first, then if u fell ok with it, then go for it. hope i helped
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yea.. i think you should wait until you are comfortable with him.. i think it would have been a TINY bit weird if he did finger you since it was your first time together.. i would maybe wait till you are going out.. hope i helped.. <3. hAleY.. tell me your desicion!
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Well if you really really like him then say yes. I dont think its a little weird thoguh. I mean I dont think after he does it to you he wont talk to you ever again. It might just be a little weird after that but you will get back to being the way things were before he did that.
xo_
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Hi. wow well it's your decision if you want him to or not but personally i wouldnt let him because you guys arint going out so there might be a chance that he will do it and then never talk to you again so let him kno that your not ready for it and that you guys arint going out and everything. and if he asks you out and is only for that then i wont let him tho cuz it's just wrong to use someone for that. Take Care..I hope I helped x3 SweetStar.
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